Now, here is the weird part. I asked him if he liked to wear women’s lingerie overall or just mine because it was from me. He said overall. I was fine with that. But then I asked how he knew or if he did it before. He told me he had done it before. I was confused because I am his first sexual partner.
I asked him how he got female lingerie. He said he had stole his sister’s (she is a year younger than him, and older than me by a year) from her laundry and wore it about two years ago. He said it made him hard and he masturbated in it and came on it. I was initially in shock. I wouldn’t have minded if he had done that consensually with a past sexual partner, but his own sister? That seemed odd to me. I also know he was into pretty kinky and possibly even taboo things, despite not having a partner at all before.
[...]
We tried to do sexual things again, and he couldn’t climax that night after about an hour of stimulation, but I did, even though it is very hard for me and I don’t do it often, being female.
After that, I asked him if he threw away his sister’s panties. He said no, and that he washed them and put them back. I told him that was disrespectful and wrong. I told her that he probably shouldn’t tell his sister in case she would be upset and their relationship would be ruined, but I also think she has a right to know and to throw that pair of underwear out.
And, well, now, here I am. I haven’t talked to him at all since he left my hotel room at 7am this morning, but we ended things positively and I told him I liked him so much (and it’s hard for me to catch feelings for people, or like people, because I evaluate personality a lot) that I didn’t want a breakup.
I don’t know why I am not completely hating him, or thinking he is some gross monster right now. If I had heard anyone else did this I would immediately want to distance myself from them, especially since I am very feminist and against the sexualization of women (without individual, personal consent). I can’t help but think he is still a good person somehow, and that I still like him.
TL;DR: My boyfriend has been desensitized to porn and now our sexual relationship suffers because of it. He also stole his sister’s used underwear and masturbated in it. I don’t know what to do.
Source: reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/lv2x3n/my_18f_boyfriend_20m_told_me_that_he_masturbated/
Holy fuck this guy sounds like me 2 years from now if I dont get laid
Shaming siscons is now kinkshaming
I asked him how he got female lingerie. He said he had stole his sister’s (she is a year younger than him, and older than me by a year) from her laundry and wore it about two years ago. He said it made him hard and he masturbated in it and came on it. I was initially in shock. I wouldn’t have minded if he had done that consensually with a past sexual partner, but his own sister? That seemed odd to me. I also know he was into pretty kinky and possibly even taboo things, despite not having a partner at all before.
[...]
We tried to do sexual things again, and he couldn’t climax that night after about an hour of stimulation, but I did, even though it is very hard for me and I don’t do it often, being female.
After that, I asked him if he threw away his sister’s panties. He said no, and that he washed them and put them back. I told him that was disrespectful and wrong. I told her that he probably shouldn’t tell his sister in case she would be upset and their relationship would be ruined, but I also think she has a right to know and to throw that pair of underwear out.
And, well, now, here I am. I haven’t talked to him at all since he left my hotel room at 7am this morning, but we ended things positively and I told him I liked him so much (and it’s hard for me to catch feelings for people, or like people, because I evaluate personality a lot) that I didn’t want a breakup.
I don’t know why I am not completely hating him, or thinking he is some gross monster right now. If I had heard anyone else did this I would immediately want to distance myself from them, especially since I am very feminist and against the sexualization of women (without individual, personal consent). I can’t help but think he is still a good person somehow, and that I still like him.
TL;DR: My boyfriend has been desensitized to porn and now our sexual relationship suffers because of it. He also stole his sister’s used underwear and masturbated in it. I don’t know what to do.
Source: reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/lv2x3n/my_18f_boyfriend_20m_told_me_that_he_masturbated/
Holy fuck this guy sounds like me 2 years from now if I dont get laid
Shaming siscons is now kinkshaming
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