Cope 30+ incels how do you cope?

[Fat Link]

I'm 29 with 30 coming this year. I have to pay to spend time with a woman. It's the only thing that keeps me sane. I go crazy and rage if I don't see a woman for long enough, or I cry that I'm such a loser and women will only be around me if I pay them. There seems to be no escaping unhappiness anymore. I always told myself I would rope if I reach 30 and still don't have a girl.

Here's a good cope (because its true) for you to consider.

Even Chad pays to be with a woman.

No one escapes paying.

No one.

These cunts always take something from you whether its your time, money or whatever literally EVERYTHING is a transaction with them so don't feel so bad about paying.

 

[The Incel Decade]

Idk why people are saying sex drive goes down in 30s

If anything mine has increased.

I think lifting weights and cardio and eating fatty meats keeps it going strong.

I fap and coom more now in early 30s than I did in my teens and early 20s

I've always had a high libido (a useless commodity to an inky) but it's a lot more controlled now. I still fap every day or so (I have for 20 years so it's just habbit) but i rarely get a random erection. When you're younger you get hard all the time. You constantly think about sex.

I think because women pretty much disgust me now as well urges are more under control. Last couple of years I can sense the sex drive slowing down a lot. That's at 33/34. I watch porn but not every day.

 

[thebuddhacel]

@wasted12years @The Abyss

 

[W33bcel]

I stopped trying to ascend or really live in this shit soyciety when I hit 30 as a kissless virgin. Never really considered hookermaxxing since I consider it a waste of money to pay several hundred bux to some dirty foid who has had thousands of dicks inside her just so I can come once.

Maybe I would feel otherwise if I was moneymaxxed but I'd rather buy tech upgrades for my digital copes since those last for years.

I'm mainly coping with VR porn that is all POV and combined with some other shit gives a decent illusion that I'm the one fucking those foids and some VR girlfriend games + of course plenty of other gaming and weeb shit.

 

[PleaseDontWakeMe]

I stopped trying to ascend or really live in this shit soyciety when I hit 30 as a kissless virgin. Never really considered hookermaxxing since I consider it a waste of money to pay several hundred bux to some dirty foid who has had thousands of dicks inside her just so I can come once.

Maybe I would feel otherwise if I was moneymaxxed but I'd rather buy tech upgrades for my digital copes since those last for years.

I'm mainly coping with VR porn that is all POV and combined with some other shit gives a decent illusion that I'm the one fucking those foids and some VR girlfriend games + of course plenty of other gaming and weeb shit.

I went crazy already and had to see foids. It was a good experience to sleep with foids. I even thought some of them enjoyed it, even though they probably didn't.

 

[wasted12years]

I turn 29 in 3 months. My methods of coping hard is having a job, spending time with hobbies trying to improve in all aspects of life. I want to get a GF and start a relationship, even though love doesn't exist in this world with materialistic, hypergamous foids as stated before in many threads i would also be fine if i just got laid frequently. If i manage to ascend or w/e i'll most definitely end up with some roastie anyway but what can you do. I know it sounds kind of bluedpilled but in your late 20s/early 30s you can't except anything else than some roastie who rode the cock carousell, there are no virgin foids in their late 20s.

I have enough money to pay for an escort but tbh i think it's pretty much synonymous with betabuxxing and having sex with some single post-wall roastie mom, but where i live it can be difficult to find escorts and hookers and it's illegal so i might end up traveling to COPEnhagen. I want to lose my V-card before turning 30 or ASAP. My brain is also pretty fucked from all the porn i've been watching since i was 14yrs old so Nofap is a must for me. I think i might have some sort of ED from lack of female interaction which is making me suicidal tbh. Maybe it's not worth mentioning but i'm also a locationcel living in a small town so i rarely see foids outside or in my daily life especially now during Winter. At my job there are no young foids either, if there were i would probably not be as depressed. Just seeing pretty foids daily could help, watching them on porn sites and YT wont. Also i don't have my own place or a car which makes it pretty much impossible to get a GF, unless you're chad. That's all.

 

[Deleted member 140]

I have a good job that pays me enough to afford good copes and escorts. I’m also progressing in life like I’m getting promoted at my job every few years, I change my car and apartment every couple of years, my bank account gets bigger every year. If things stayed the same for the last 10 years I would have gone crazy.

 

[Vorbei]

I've largely accepted it, but acceptance isn't something you can force - I went through a rough couple of years to reach this state. It helps that the calibre of woman I can attract is now so low that it hardly seems worth bothering. POF in my area is high-octane volcel fuel.

 

[FrustratedWhiteMale]

 

[Angry_runt]

I'm almost 38 and I've never used an escort and I have no problem coping nowadays. I used get depressed about it 10-20 years ago but after a while I guess you can get used to anything. I love my work, I make decent money, I don't have stress in my life and maybe that's as good as it gets for me.

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I'd nope right the fuck out of there. What if they come to life and try to strangle me?

 

[Incline]

I have a good job that pays me enough to afford good copes and escorts. I’m also progressing in life like I’m getting promoted at my job every few years, I change my car and apartment every couple of years, my bank account gets bigger every year. If things stayed the same for the last 10 years I would have gone crazy.

Mogs me to the edge of the universe and back.

I'm moneymaxxing. Saved over $700,000 in just 10 years.

I saved about 200$ in 5 years. I think I'm half way there bro.

 

[Legallyblindcel]

JFL if you think living life the of a incel is worth anything, i could die in the next second and i wouldn't care.

 

[based_meme]

gym + gaming

+ fapping

 

[Haywire]

Where do you put your cum

is that why he has flies?

 

[Damo the incel]

is that why he has fruit flies?

High iq, @Napoleon de Geso this is the solution to your fruitflies case, tell your smother about it

 

[Silverandgold]

I’m 50+ and I’m still coping. To be honest I don’t know how I do it. I’m pretty numb by now and apathetic about everything. Life feels kind of like a never ending dream. I feel kind of like I’m just floating in space witnessing a strange world I can’t take part in. I also take quite a bit of Xanax and sleep a lot. On most days I sleep 14-16 hours. When I’m awake I like to watch a lot of movies. I like to exercise. The endorphins feel good. I like to watch a lot of cooking videos and cook delicious food. Then I take I go back to sleep.

 

[RandomGuy]

Anyone use drugs or alcohol?

 

[Antisocialloner]

Alcohol, vidya, .co, fapping, sleep, and the determination not to let normies and soyciety win by killing myself. I'm my own best friend and I'm all I've got.

 

[Ghost]

I'm 29 with 30 coming this year. I have to pay to spend time with a woman. It's the only thing that keeps me sane. I go crazy and rage if I don't see a woman for long enough, or I cry that I'm such a loser and women will only be around me if I pay them. There seems to be no escaping unhappiness anymore. I always told myself I would rope if I reach 30 and still don't have a girl.

Im religionmaxxed. I listen to audio Bible and sermons. I also meditate...

Best way to deal. I'm 36

 

[Antisocialloner]

U mog me though. I cant even pay for a bitches attention because idk where to look. They ignore me on dating sites because I'm ugly and weak looking

I have a good job that pays me enough to afford good copes and escorts. I’m also progressing in life like I’m getting promoted at my job every few years, I change my car and apartment every couple of years, my bank account gets bigger every year. If things stayed the same for the last 10 years I would have gone crazy.

You've got it made, man. All you're missing is that elusive foid

 

[Blackpill Rage]

I cope by flying planes and escortmaxxing.

 

[The Abyss]

@wasted12years @The Abyss

Cope? Badly, probably gonna rope once my father dies as I'll be totally alone then, no job, no home etc...homeless as an Autistic with social anxiety does not sound appealing.

Might try to get a van for work & at least I'd be able to sleep in the back & get a cheap gym membership for washing & water while trying to sort things out. No support from anyone in the family & no friends to rely on, kinda shit but you're not gonna be well adjusted when both parents had/have mental conditions & you're born into poverty, where the hell do you look to for a well adjusted reality check.

Attractiveness -> Social circle -> Financial means. If you have none of those it's bottom of the pile for you & that's without even adding on any negatives that'll put you even farther down the hole.

 

[Clayface]

I'll rope this year. 26 years of suffering will finally end.

 

[thebuddhacel]

I’m 50+

How old?

 

[toyotacel]

I’m 50+ and I’m still coping. To be honest I don’t know how I do it. I’m pretty numb by now and apathetic about everything. Life feels kind of like a never ending dream. I feel kind of like I’m just floating in space witnessing a strange world I can’t take part in. I also take quite a bit of Xanax and sleep a lot. On most days I sleep 14-16 hours. When I’m awake I like to watch a lot of movies. I like to exercise. The endorphins feel good. I like to watch a lot of cooking videos and cook delicious food. Then I take I go back to sleep.

Do you often reminisce about the past ?, it must really suck knowing that even in your youth women thought you were disgusting

 

[MubarakTheCoper]

Alcohol

 

[FuckEmAll]

I'm 40 years old and have a good job that gives me all necessary comfort and allows me to save half my income each month. I should have enough money to retire before 50, but working is an excellent cope that provides structure in my life and it would probably be very unhealthy for me to stop working. It's also pretty much my only means of real-life social contact.

Other copes are video games, gym, movies, hiking and recently got into an education of oldtimer repairs and plan to fix a classic car.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Monk maxing &using .co as I approach thirty in time

 

[mericks]

I'm going to be 30 in three more weeks, I literally have no idea how I'm going to cope. I'll probably spend about a month trying really hard and doing redpill stuff before I get frustrated and develop an alcohol addiction.

 

[Wiz32BlackJiggaboo]

So those two are obviously doing sexual stuff together when the camera is off, but America for some reason tolerates it, but I can't have an elementary school girl fiance

 

[HappilySingle]

I cope by not roping. Coping isn't a choice, it's that I'm too retarded to rope.

 

[SwordsmanAlt]

Gym, videogames, drinking, having a pet.

 

[Deleted member 14382]

from wageslaving ?

And also investing.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

I’m 50+ and I’m still coping. To be honest I don’t know how I do it. I’m pretty numb by now and apathetic about everything. Life feels kind of like a never ending dream. I feel kind of like I’m just floating in space witnessing a strange world I can’t take part in. I also take quite a bit of Xanax and sleep a lot. On most days I sleep 14-16 hours. When I’m awake I like to watch a lot of movies. I like to exercise. The endorphins feel good. I like to watch a lot of cooking videos and cook delicious food. Then I take I go back to sleep.

I'm 40 years old and have a good job that gives me all necessary comfort and allows me to save half my income each month. I should have enough money to retire before 50, but working is an excellent cope that provides structure in my life and it would probably be very unhealthy for me to stop working. It's also pretty much my only means of real-life social contact.

Other copes are video games, gym, movies, hiking and recently got into an education of oldtimer repairs and plan to fix a classic car.

 

[PleaseDontWakeMe]

Gym, videogames, drinking, having a pet.

WHICH pet do you have?

 

[Yvan]

I am going to be 31 in a few months...well i mostly concentrate on my work, make some money, and in my free time i play video games, or watch movies. As i get older, my emotions start to settle down, i do not care anymore because there is nothing i can do about my situation. Ive lost my change many years ago. It is over for me - still a virgin, never kissed or had a GF, the good thing is that this life will not last forever, we all die in the end.

 

[FuckEmAll]

Maybe also important to mention that I lost my virginity to a high quality escort when it was clear that I was never going to ascend in a regular way. It takes a lot of stress and pressure away when the deed is done.

 

[PleaseDontWakeMe]

Maybe also important to mention that I lost my virginity to a high quality escort when it was clear that I was never going to ascend in a regular way. It takes a lot of stress and pressure away when the deed is done.

I did start seeing escorts when I got tired of girls continually ditching me after years. I was 25-26 when I saw my first escort.

 

[Deleted member 14382]

investing in what if you don't mind ?

Stocks, bonds, cryptocurrencies, etc.

 

[Everything is over]

I think 30 is when you can definitively say it's ovah buddyboyo

 

[SwordsmanAlt]

WHICH pet do you have?

Used to have a cat, but it got sick and died.
Have a dog. He keeps me alive.

 

[TheGambler2]

I am 27 but i think it would get easier after 35 because you are past that pivotal age when things could be turned around. Maybe you find peace as a failed man and just try to enjoy life as best you can.

that is a good point,as an under-30 incel you have to watch your peers living it at their prime and feel like missing out.also there is a constant feeling that maybe you can still change something and ascend,while as an oldcel you just accept that it's over and enjoy watching your peers get divorce raped by landwhales.

 

[PEETER]

Total War mods

 

[Deleted member 16608]

Going from one addiction to another. My dog. Therapy. Work. LDAR. Hobbies. Vidya. Animu and mongu. Movies. My life is fairly meaningless.

 

[Adamhastor]

Wageslaving, sports and travelling basically

 

[bait____]

I’m a youngfag so I don’t know. Don’t plan on living that long anyway.