"I can sympathize with you, resolute and 1978
(although, 1978, i refuse to add the rest of your screen name to "1978."
Because i refuse to use any words that put you down.)
I was a virgin until after (years after) graduate school, and was very ashamed of myself because of it.
I want you to know that you are not the only ones.
Many of us had this experience.
It wasn't our fault; we didn't choose to be unattractive.
And all those people who come back at you with "it's only because you don't have CONFIDENCE"?
Don't let them rip you guys; fact is, they wouldn't've dated you for a million dollars (if female) or
(if male) introduced you to their sister.
They're not on your side, they're not interested in helping you.
This forum, though, is where you'll find people like me who have walked in your shoes.
I know how ashamed you felt (or feel; and i often still do, too).
But you have other special qualities that deserve respect,
and if i knew more about those qualities, i would probably be very impressed with you."
Wow, whoever this dude is, he was definitely a proto-incel and he is spitting all the right facts. Indeed, nobody is really going to help you. Male friends are useless because they wouldn't introduce you to a female relative, even if they praise you as a good person nor do female friends want to date you themselves. Only difference between proto-incel and I is that I don't feel ashamed about being a virgin.
(although, 1978, i refuse to add the rest of your screen name to "1978."
Because i refuse to use any words that put you down.)
I was a virgin until after (years after) graduate school, and was very ashamed of myself because of it.
I want you to know that you are not the only ones.
Many of us had this experience.
It wasn't our fault; we didn't choose to be unattractive.
And all those people who come back at you with "it's only because you don't have CONFIDENCE"?
Don't let them rip you guys; fact is, they wouldn't've dated you for a million dollars (if female) or
(if male) introduced you to their sister.
They're not on your side, they're not interested in helping you.
This forum, though, is where you'll find people like me who have walked in your shoes.
I know how ashamed you felt (or feel; and i often still do, too).
But you have other special qualities that deserve respect,
and if i knew more about those qualities, i would probably be very impressed with you."
Wow, whoever this dude is, he was definitely a proto-incel and he is spitting all the right facts. Indeed, nobody is really going to help you. Male friends are useless because they wouldn't introduce you to a female relative, even if they praise you as a good person nor do female friends want to date you themselves. Only difference between proto-incel and I is that I don't feel ashamed about being a virgin.
