[Serious] An ""incel"" who's never approached literally fails to meet the definition of inceldom

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An incel is someone unable to be in a romantic relationship despite trying.

You know... despite trying

tbh, if you've never approached, you don't belong here yet
 
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I live in a feminist city, approaching as an ugly ethnic will land me in prison.
 
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I hold this as a core belief, but I think you should try EVERYTHING


As an example, I've tried to hit up foids in wheelchairs, foids who are deformed, foids who are older than 60 (granny dating sites), SEA foids, etc. All with them laughing at me and berating me.
 
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I live in a feminist city, approaching as an ugly ethnic will land me in prison.
I lived in Canada, same dif. That's just an excuse and a meme tbh, haven't approached = non-incel
I hold this as a core belief, but I think you should try EVERYTHING


As an example, I've tried to hit up foids in wheelchairs, foids who are deformed, foids who are older than 60 (granny dating sites), SEA foids, etc. All with them laughing at me and berating me.
I tried the ugliest girl at work, was led on and then gossiped about behind my back
 
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I tried, but she ended up running away from me. Thats where my journey started. :bluepill::redpill::blackpill::dab:
 
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An approacher is a beggar and I refuse to beg.
 
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If you haven't tried rape you are not incel.
 
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i tried in my teens and it went down like a house full of people was burning to the ground and i was the spectator feeling left out. as an adult though is pointless as i am 5'4 and have a childish voice and i am so antisocial due to being treated bad as a kid and a teen that i highly doubt i could get one.i also have a shit load of other problems such as health and weight gain due to meds.
 
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I've tried multiple times. I failed each time. I am a failure
 
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hit up foids in wheelchairs, foids who are deformed,
Thats a Hiroshima Nagasaki cope

Even wheelchair bound, deformed foids only want Chads who are youtube celebrities who make millions of dollars online.

 
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You have to try quite a bit of approaches. Even good looking guys strike out most of the time when cold approaching. If you're a 8/10 guy, you're nothing special to a 7/10 girl. That PUA Mystery said his success rate for getting dates from cold approaches was 12-16% and he's 6'4" and chadlite tier for sure.
 
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An approacher is a beggar and I refuse to beg.
I'm not saying you have to constantly approach. Just that if you've literally never tried, you're not incel.
You have to try quite a bit of approaches. Even good looking guys strike out most of the time when cold approaching. If you're a 8/10 guy, you're nothing special to a 7/10 girl. That PUA Mystery said his success rate for getting dates from cold approaches was 12-16% and he's 6'4" and chadlite tier for sure.
I agree with this, but it's far beyond what most here will agree with.
 
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I'm physically disabled and deformed, so no point of trying but if anyone is physically fine but doesn't try anyway, he can't be considered incel.
 
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I'm not saying you have to constantly approach. Just that if you've literally never tried, you're not incel.

I agree with this, but it's far beyond what most here will agree with.
I'm NEET, 5'7 and curry with small dick and diseases. That's incel enough.
 
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I'm physically disabled and deformed, so no point of trying but if anyone is physically fine but doesn't try anyway, he can't be considered incel.
Define deformed
 
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I beg to disagree. If your presence causes a sense of disgust among women, you know you are an incel even without approaching.
 
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I'm NEET, 5'7 and curry with small dick and diseases. That's incel enough.
Doesn't contradict my point, you still can't call yourself incel. Operative word is involuntary-as in, despite efforts. I'm just as fucked as you and I still tried, clearly you don't want it bad enough to even try and confirm it.
I beg to disagree. If your presence causes a sense of disgust among women, you know you are an incel even without approaching.
Anyone could say that about themselves. It's solopsistic. Chad could be delusional and think that. You'll never know your actual place until you try.
 
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Another gatekeeping thread. Nothing new here folks keep walking keep walking.
 
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I hold this as a core belief, but I think you should try EVERYTHING

As an example, I've tried to hit up foids in wheelchairs, foids who are deformed, foids who are older than 60 (granny dating sites), SEA foids, etc. All with them laughing at me and berating me.
I disagree.

For one, there has to be a limit to how desperate you are. Overwise you'd write an ad saying that you will agree to marry any biological female of legal age, not even demanding to see her face before the wedding. You would accept the first offer matching your minimal requirements. I have very little doubt you would get married in no time.

Second, if you try several methods, there has to be a point at which you decide to stop with one method to try an other. The possible paths form a tree, and it's not obvious that it's more efficient to follow many different branches rather than exploring one deeply.

Finally, IMHO, it doesn't make any sense to pursue a specimen you're not at least slightly attracted to. I don't see the point. If you do that, by the same logic you could gaymaxx or bestialitymaxx. If you want to have sex for the sake of it, escortmaxxing makes much more sense IMHO. If it's just emotional connection you're looking for, then it doesn't have to be sexual so it's not related to inceldom.
 
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I'm just as fucked as you and I still tried
And what were your results? I tried talking to girls, but they never developed into anything. I never approached them to ask them out directly though.
clearly you don't want it bad enough to even try and confirm it.
Well, me wanting things doesn't really matter because it has very little impact on what I will receive. This is what the blackpill teaches us; it teaches that things are predetermined, and that we have little to no control.
 
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I disagree.

For one, there has to be a limit to how desperate you are. Overwise you'd write an ad saying that you will agree to marry any biological female of legal age, not even demanding to see her face before the wedding. You would accept the first offer matching your minimal requirements. I have very little doubt you would get married in no time.

Second, if you try several methods, there has to be a point at which you decide to stop with one method to try an other. The possible paths form a tree, and it's not obvious that it's more efficient to follow many different branches rather than exploring one deeply.

Finally, IMHO, it doesn't make any sense to pursue a specimen you're not at least slightly attracted to. I don't see the point. If you do that, by the same logic you could gaymaxx or bestialitymaxx. If you want to have sex for the sake of it, escortmaxxing makes much more sense IMHO. If it's just emotional connection you're looking for, then it doesn't have to be sexual so it's not related to inceldom.
i dont fuckoibn think u understand I FUCKING TRIED ESCORTCELLING AND THEY LAUGHED AT ME AND I TRIED DOING THAT SHIT IWTH NO REQUIREMENTS AND THEY LAUGHED AT ME
 
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View attachment 167921Another gatekeeping thread. Nothing new here folks keep walking keep walking.
It's not gatekeeping if you're clarifying a definition. There are literally average looking people here who have never tried calling themselves incel. If you think that's gatekeeping you don't belong here either, this should be something everyone gets behind
 
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An incel is someone unable to be in a romantic relationship despite trying.

You know... despite trying

tbh, if you've never approached, you don't belong here yet
We need such reminders more often. Too many volcel and edgy gatekeepy stuff lately.
 
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I agree with this, but it's far beyond what most here will agree with.
Imagine a normie's success rate is 10%, like he could get rejected 8-15 times consecutively and it wouldn't be statistically unlikely. If he approaches one girl every two days, he could have sex with a dozen girls a year easily.

So when someone here considers himself incel because he tried to hook up with 10 girls and got rejected by all of them, he's just not doing his due diligence and potentially fucking himself over. I'm sure he feels miserable just like truecels do so he's not a fakecel, but his ascension could just be about adjusting his expectations.
 
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Open bite, mis aligned jaw, muscle atrophy and locomotor disorder.
None of that is worse than being a turbomanlet. You still need to try before giving up to be incel
And what were your results? I tried talking to girls, but they never developed into anything. I never approached them to ask them out directly though.
I always got the same carbon copy reaction, which is how I know without a doubt I'm incel. It's a mix of indignation and revulsion. I tried multiple different ways though. Long term friendzone, casual work acquaintance, cold approaches. You have to actually ask them out to confirm, otherwise you're completely relying on internal thought processes to determine how someone else thinks/feels, over something you me and every other would-be incel has no experience with, which is retarded.
i dont fuckoibn think u understand I FUCKING TRIED ESCORTCELLING AND THEY LAUGHED AT ME AND I TRIED DOING THAT SHIT IWTH NO REQUIREMENTS AND THEY LAUGHED AT ME
You tried to hire an escort and she refused?
We need such reminders more often. Too many volcel and edgy gatekeepy stuff lately.
Thanks man, glad like-minded people exist here
 
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Approaching as a sub8 is retarded. Haven't tried online though? Then yeah volcel. But majority of men in the west are incels
 
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Imagine a normie's success rate is 10%, like he could get rejected 8-15 times consecutively and it wouldn't be statistically unlikely. If he approaches one girl every two days, he could have sex with a dozen girls a year easily.

So when someone here considers himself incel because he tried to hook up with 10 girls and got rejected by all of them, he's just not doing his due diligence and potentially fucking himself over. I'm sure he feels miserable just like truecels do so he's not a fakecel, but his ascension could just be about adjusting his expectations.
I agree with every word. I've tried with ~20 girls, I've lost count. All of them different scenarios and strategies. I tried cold approaching with confidence, just being chill, being a nice guy in a friendship then asking out, etc etc... I tried with ugly girls, pretty girls, all of it.

So when I see someone call themselves a truecel when they've literally never tried once it burns me up, ngl. They haven't confirmed shit for themselves and could very easily possibly get laid, who knows, we have nothing to go off of.
Approaching as a sub8 is retarded. Haven't tried online though? Then yeah volcel. But majority of men in the west are incels
This is the problem.
 
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I have several hundred approaches. Havent been jailed yet but have been slapped in the face twice.

I dont think you necessarily have to approach to be incel, depends how unattractive you are. If you're in the average range you should approach before you qualify, but if you're sub4 and at least tried looksmaxxing you can probably say that it's over(provided you still want to succeed and are not asexual or gay).
 
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I agree with every word. I've tried with ~20 girls, I've lost count. All of them different scenarios and strategies. I tried cold approaching with confidence, just being chill, being a nice guy in a friendship then asking out, etc etc... I tried with ugly girls, pretty girls, all of it.

So when I see someone call themselves a truecel when they've literally never tried once it burns me up, ngl. They haven't confirmed shit for themselves and could very easily possibly get laid, who knows, we have nothing to go off of.

This is the problem.
Cuck
 
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That's how this website decided to define the word

It existed before this site and simply meant someone who cant get in a relationship because they're ugly
 
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I have several hundred approaches. Havent been jailed yet but have been slapped in the face twice.

I dont think you necessarily have to approach to be incel, depends how unattractive you are. If you're in the average range you should approach before you qualify, but if you're sub4 and at least tried looksmaxxing you can probably say that it's over(provided you still want to succeed and are not asexual or gay).
Yeah but how do you know if the looksmaxing failed or not? By approaching
 
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Retard volcel
Excuse me I fly 8k miles to not be incel. I got surgeries and seamax. I take real action while you waste your time approaching as a sub8
 
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That's how this website decided to define the word

It existed before this site and simply meant someone who cant get in a relationship because they're ugly
No, it's always meant celibate despite trying. It's like you're pulling the "gender is what you feel inside" bullshit
Excuse me I fly 8k miles to not be incel. I got surgeries and seamax. I take real action while you waste your time approaching as a sub8
If you legit flew to S.E. Asia before approaching a single foid you are unironically literally retarded
 
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No, it's always meant celibate despite trying. It's like you're pulling the "gender is what you feel inside" bullshit

If you legit flew to S.E. Asia before approaching a single foid you are unironically literally retarded
If you're incel on every dating app you're incel irl, you lack common sense. Buy a plane ticket and get on tinder instead of accusing other people of being volcel
 
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No, it's always meant celibate despite trying. It's like you're pulling the "gender is what you feel inside" bullshit
No it hasn't.

Foids aren't attracted to ugly guys

You get called ugly throughout your life and treated with disdain in almost every interaction with a foid


If after this you still can approach a foid you're not incel since you have confidence. An ugly person who's gone through that will not have the confidence.

You're a fakecel if you approach
 
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If you're incel on every dating app you're incel irl, you lack common sense. Buy a plane ticket and get on tinder instead of accusing other people of being volcel
Tinder is hypergamy on overdrive, you simpleton. But why am I bothering talking to someone who unironically believes sub8 anywau
 
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No it hasn't.

Foids aren't attracted to ugly guys

You get called ugly throughout your life and treated with disdain in almost every interaction with a foid


If after this you still can approach a foid you're not incel since you have confidence. An ugly person who's gone through that will not have the confidence.

You're a fakecel if you approach
This. OP is a fucking moron if he thinks you dont approach and get rejected over and over you're not incel. Tinder is real life
 
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Tinder is hypergamy on overdrive, you simpleton. But why am I bothering talking to someone who unironically believes sub8 anywau
Tinder bumble okc pof etc. Again, buy a ticket to SEA or dont be a hypocrite saying others are volcel because you are one yourself, I'm assuming you're white
 
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Tinder bumble okc pof etc. Again, buy a ticket to SEA or dont be a hypocrite saying others are volcel because you are one yourself, I'm assuming you're white
You lost all right to any respect when you flew to S.E. Asia based on the sub8 meme and thinking tinder is real life, jfl :feelsgah: :feelshaha:
 
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You lost all right to any respect when you flew to S.E. Asia based on the sub8 meme and thinking tinder is real life, jfl :feelsgah: :feelshaha:
You literally approach women irl and get rejected over and over. I took action that actually works. Keep being delusional all you want. Bottom line: you're a white guy who refused to buy a ticket to bangkok. You're not incel.
 
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I tried approaching alone. With a friend (Never With multiple friends). Sending a wingman. All failed and all that got me was a feeling of humiliation and girls laughing at me in groups ... Then when I have given up completely I turned to social media and Internet
Online chat groups. Apps. Whatever I can use. I quickly learnt that foids only used me as their emotional tampon and sometimes a jester to make them pass time when bored.

and to be fair I never approached younger or older girls than me. And never approached a girl who was better looking or extremely uglier than me. I only asked my lookmatch and 1 or 2 points below.
 
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You literally approach women irl and get rejected over and over. I took action that actually works. Keep being delusional all you want. Bottom line: you're a white guy who refused to buy a ticket to bangkok. You're not incel.
Hey, you drooling invalid, no shit I'm not approaching anymore. I approached while I was trying to confirm I was incel-before incel forums or subreddits existed. Now that I actually know I'm incel, unlike your lazy fakecel ass who clearly doesn't even want it enough to try, I don't approach anymore, as would be obvious to literate people who could see I was using the past tense.
 
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Hey, you drooling invalid, no shit I'm not approaching anymore. I approached while I was trying to confirm I was incel-before incel forums or subreddits existed. Now that I actually know I'm incel, unlike your lazy fakecel ass who clearly doesn't even want it enough to try, I don't approach anymore, as would be obvious to literate people who could see I was using the past tense.
No, you're not incel. You're white and not sub3. Buy a plane ticket to any southeast asian country, and get on any dating app. You're a volcel, the thing you're calling out others on
 
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Im not from that shitty site. I don't poast on reddit.

I've been around the incelosphere long before most of you knew what incel was

Brainlet
I call bullshit, seeing as if that was true you'd be old enough to not be retarded enough to think I'm confident just because I'm actually incel and want a gf.
 
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I call bullshit, seeing as if that was true you'd be old enough to not be retarded enough to think I'm confident just because I'm actually incel and want a gf.
You are a fakecel though for having confidence to even interact with decent looking foids

And wanting a gf = foid worship.

It gets worse
 
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No, you're not incel. You're white and not sub3. Buy a plane ticket to any southeast asian country, and get on any dating app. You're a volcel, the thing you're calling out others on
Shut the fuck up and stop assuming shit when you don't even understand inceldom in the first place.
 
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You literally approach women irl and get rejected over and over. I took action that actually works. Keep being delusional all you want. Bottom line: you're a white guy who refused to buy a ticket to bangkok. You're not incel.
There is no ascension in Thailand, only escortmaxxing in one form of another. How it works: you go out on a date with your Thai girlfriend, she takes you to restaurants and bars she has deals with and gets a perecentage for everything you order. You use a taxi she has deals with and gets a percentage of the fare. Then you go to a hotel she has a deal with and she gets a percentage of what you paid for the room. Then you fly home and think you didn't just fuck a whore for money. It's why western guys love Thailand so much.


I've been around the incelosphere long before most of you knew what incel was
I've been around the incelosphere longer than the age of the universe. Check mate, plebbit refugee.
 
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You are a fakecel though for having confidence to even interact with decent looking foids

And wanting a gf = foid worship.

It gets worse
Interacting with foids ≠ confidence.

You are literally mentally disabled.
 
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None of that is worse than being a turbomanlet.
Lol... tie your both legs in a way you can't even stand up and spend one whole day like that. Then, tell what is worse.
 
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Shut the fuck up and stop assuming shit when you don't even understand inceldom in the first place.
I've been incel for 25 years and just went to SEA, I took action. You have not tried, you're a volcel. Approaching foids in the west does not count as trying as if you're actually blackpilled youd know it's a waste of time if you're not atleast Chadlite
There is no ascension in Thailand, only escortmaxxing in one form of another. How it works: you go out on a date with your Thai girlfriend, she takes you to restaurants and bars she has deals with and gets a perecentage for everything you order. You use a taxi she has deals with and gets a percentage of the fare. Then you go to a hotel she has a deal with and she gets a percentage of what you paid for the room. Then you fly home and think you didn't just fuck a whore for money. It's why western guys love Thailand so much.



I've been around the incelosphere longer than the age of the universe. Check mate, plebbit refugee.
I've argued with you plenty of times. You're an old white guy who rots in the west. Another volcel piece of shit.
 
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Interacting with foids ≠ confidence.

You are literally mentally disabled.
I am mentally disabled because of my ugly face and the negative life experiences that come with it

If you're not mentally disabled then you're not really incel

Incels should be ugly and mentally disabled

Ugly guys can betabux. Ugly + mental= death sentence
 
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Lol... tie your both legs in a way you can't even stand up and spend one whole day like that. Then, tell what is worse.
Can you not stand? Genuinely asking.
 
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