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Anybody else want a wife that would take care of you and dote on you in a motherly sort of way?

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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Maybe I'm weird or whatever, but I don't like modern relationship dynamics. The man has to be an island and a solitary mountain, providing and being a stoic hero while the woman is taken care of and takes care of the kids while ignoring the husband.

Nowadays you probably can't find something like this, and for me much less, seeing as I not only am a bald fat fuck but I also have no friends and I literally don't know any women at all. But I would like a woman that would take care of me, love me etc...
 
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Maybe I'm weird or whatever,
Idk. That sounds humane to me .but I'm sure we all can agree that will be nice and ideal.

Jfl at a man who wants a soulless bitch who'd kill her husband in his sleep while he's sick for a better healthier specimen. She'd probably kill your offspring too.

I don't really like the romanticism archetypes. Where the couples are all about muh emotions and sentimentalism. But Jesus Christ. I don't want to be a freakin caveman where the foid only sticks with me for transactions and mutual benefits like a business. No loyalty or compassion whatsoever.
 
So rare it's pointless to even dream about it
 
No. I prefer waifu who could inspire me to move, not to let me LDAR. And INSPIRE, by being young and cute, not by nagging femoid
 
no cause i wont be getting married
 
i used to think it was common and normal, and that actually women would dote on you too much and you'd have to shake them off with all the fuzzy stuff

hilarious

then i grew up and it became an increasingly unrealistic fantasy as it became obvious that women don't have any of those instincts or inclinations at all anymore
they hate just about everyone that isn't a super cool thug or male model, and are almost never around younger siblings or extended family's babies to develop anything like a caretaking mode of being

to get something so exceedingly rare in your life you would have to "pay for it" by dating down by like 6 points in looks, which is a physical impossibility for most guys on psl sites
 
I'm conflicted about this. On the one hand, I like the idea of having a motherly girlfriend who would comfort me and take care of me like a mother would her child, which is why I have a soft spot for 'ara ara' type characters in anime. On the other hand, I don't like being dependent on others, because that would give them leverage over me and restrict my freedom; it would be similar to the situation I'm in right now with my family. I want to be self-sufficient for once in my life.
 
Gentle Femdom is the best bro. I dream of being married to a karate girl that can KO me out in 2 seconds! <3 so sexy and romantic. She can physically protect me, hold me, and cradle me <3
 
Gentle Femdom is the best bro. I dream of being married to a karate girl that can KO me out in 2 seconds! <3 so sexy and romantic. She can physically protect me, hold me, and cradle me <3
Isn't gentle femdom more emotional? What you are describing is just regular femdom I think, since it involves physical violence. Gentle femdom is like relationship between mom and son, and regular femdom - master and slave. And I'm curious how your dream relationship would look like, would she be both your provider and mommy (so she would both work and do all the chores)?
 
i used to think it was common and normal, and that actually women would dote on you too much and you'd have to shake them off with all the fuzzy stuff

hilarious

then i grew up and it became an increasingly unrealistic fantasy as it became obvious that women don't have any of those instincts or inclinations at all anymore
they hate just about everyone that isn't a super cool thug or male model, and are almost never around younger siblings or extended family's babies to develop anything like a caretaking mode of being

to get something so exceedingly rare in your life you would have to "pay for it" by dating down by like 6 points in looks, which is a physical impossibility for most guys on psl sites
I wonder though if this sort of thing was more common in the past. It's easy to look at the past with rose-tinted glasses, but knowing the nature of women, it's very likely that they always sucked the blood of their husbands and were horrible nags and bitches.

I think this type of woman only exists as an idea in the heads of men, popularized through popular culture. But I think it's a somewhat common desire for a man to have this type of woman. as fictional as it is.
 
your wife doesn't owe you love, you misogynistic ankwell :soy: :soy: :soy:
I have a soft spot for 'ara ara' type characters in anime
Gentle Femdom is the best bro. I dream of being married to a karate girl that can KO me out in 2 seconds! <3 so sexy and romantic. She can physically protect me, hold me, and cradle me <3
gaycel trait
 
I'm conflicted about this. On the one hand, I like the idea of having a motherly girlfriend who would comfort me and take care of me like a mother would her child, which is why I have a soft spot for 'ara ara' type characters in anime.
yes
 
And you inspire her in turn by, what, being a fat misogynistic pig?
misogynistic

are you IT degenerate, larping femoid, or whats wrong with you?
 
I think any man who has suffered in his youth desires such a relationship. We want to be 'healed' by a woman so to speak. The reason why Chads don't desire this kind of relationship is because you don't need a woman to comfort you if you aren't broken.

But of course, it's not a realistic desire to have. Foids are only doting like that to Chad who don't really like the attention and think their gfs/wives are too clingly. Whereas sub-8 men who would do anything for such a relationship will never have it because if they manage to get a gf/wife, she would only be with him due to a lack of options or for financial stability.
 
The reason why Chads don't desire this kind of relationship is because you don't need a woman to comfort you if you aren't broken.
I usually wholeheartedly agree with your posts, but from my personal experience, this is not true. Women are getting more and more cold, they don't romanticize love from Disney movies or sweet romance novels, they want rough fucking and dominance from porn and 50 shades of Gray. Even my Chad friend wants a caring, motherly woman, but the best he can get is some slut who treats him like walking dildo. As it was scientifically proven, men are more attracted to nice, caring girls who would dote on both their husband and children.
 
No. I am the man of the house.
 
Roasties are waste of oxygen, and they dont deserve my maxxings I did, even as fattest I could become, still will be too god for worn-out cunts. Yoyu speak of noculture, defending femoids and other trash
And you regurgitate the same moronic self-justification you always do. It's tipping from offensive to boring pretty quickly, and not just for me.
 
I usually wholeheartedly agree with your posts, but from my personal experience, this is not true. Women are getting more and more cold, they don't romanticize love from Disney movies or sweet romance novels, they want rough fucking and dominance from porn and 50 shades of Gray. Even my Chad friend wants a caring, motherly woman, but the best he can get is some slut who treats him like walking dildo. As it was scientifically proven, men are more attracted to nice, caring girls who would dote on both their husband and children.
That's actually fucking true, i knew a lot of situations where women had to choose soft-heart guy (usually even a bit better looking than his opponent) and agressive, dominating guy and they always went for second. Thats fucking brutal, we have no chances in this fight, at least i dont have lol. I will always tell all women need to be fucking dominated, hard fucked in bed without caring about her word and u have to be cold for her, since u r good u will be cucked soon.
 
And you regurgitate the same moronic self-justification you always do. It's tipping from offensive to boring pretty quickly, and not just for me.
Is beneath me to please you, came here to vent
 
It's beneath me to mollycoddle you. I came here to listen and offer practical advice to those who deserve it. You will never deserve it.
 
I think any man who has suffered in his youth desires such a relationship. We want to be 'healed' by a woman so to speak. The reason why Chads don't desire this kind of relationship is because you don't need a woman to comfort you if you aren't broken.

But of course, it's not a realistic desire to have. Foids are only doting like that to Chad who don't really like the attention and think their gfs/wives are too clingly. Whereas sub-8 men who would do anything for such a relationship will never have it because if they manage to get a gf/wife, she would only be with him due to a lack of options or for financial stability.

very true, a beta wanting affection or support is "emotional labor"

your wife doesn't owe you love, you misogynistic ankwell

I'm conflicted about this. On the one hand, I like the idea of having a motherly girlfriend who would comfort me and take care of me like a mother would her child, which is why I have a soft spot for 'ara ara' type characters in anime. On the other hand, I don't like being dependent on others, because that would give them leverage over me and restrict my freedom; it would be similar to the situation I'm in right now with my family. I want to be self-sufficient for once in my life.
same here, i really just want to be able to "turn off" at the end of the day, probably doable if you date down by 5-6 points in looks, good luck finding that -1
 
It's beneath me to mollycoddle you. I came here to listen and offer practical advice to those who deserve it. You will never deserve it.
Practical advice how to find cute prime aged virgin OF CULTURE. Not roastie, not parasite
 
I usually wholeheartedly agree with your posts, but from my personal experience, this is not true. Women are getting more and more cold, they don't romanticize love from Disney movies or sweet romance novels, they want rough fucking and dominance from porn and 50 shades of Gray. Even my Chad friend wants a caring, motherly woman, but the best he can get is some slut who treats him like walking dildo. As it was scientifically proven, men are more attracted to nice, caring girls who would dote on both their husband and children.
I'm merely speaking from real-life observations. All the Chads I've known were very aloof towards their girlfriend and one of them even cheated on her with a foid that was, in my opinion, uglier than his girlfriend. I feel like most 8+ men care more about having strong male friendships than relationships with foids, perhaps because they know how easy it is for them to gain the latter.
I'm conflicted about this. On the one hand, I like the idea of having a motherly girlfriend who would comfort me and take care of me like a mother would her child, which is why I have a soft spot for 'ara ara' type characters in anime. On the other hand, I don't like being dependent on others, because that would give them leverage over me and restrict my freedom; it would be similar to the situation I'm in right now with my family. I want to be self-sufficient for once in my life.
Good point and one of the reasons why I myself am conflicted about marriage. As much I desire intimacy, I am also a lone wolf type who requires a few hours of alone time every day. I doubt a clingy foid would be able to respect that. It would get worse if I had children because then my life would pretty much revolve around taking care of them and I'd barely have any time for myself left.

And don't forget that if you marry someone, you don't just marry the foid, but also everyone she knows (family, friends etc.) so then you'd also be forced into all these shitty social events like marriages and funerals which you don't have to deal with if you stay single.
 
Roasties are waste of oxygen, and they dont deserve my maxxings I did, even as fattest I could become, still will be too god for worn-out cunts. Yoyu speak of noculture, defending femoids and other trash
 
So your advices just how to betabuxx and cuckmaxx, not for poor but cultured emo. Fuck you, and lithuanian shithole better be obliterated
If you are willing to make sacrafices to have 13 year old beautiful waifu, you have to lose weight and surgerymaxx. Beautiful face is all that matters.
 
If you are willing to make sacrafices to have 13 year old beautiful waifu, you have to lose weight and surgerymaxx. Beautiful face is all that matters.
there is no way to get pretty face when u r over 30 even with surgeons
 
I want you to go ER. That's what I want
 
there is no way to get pretty face when u r over 30 even with surgeons
If he is really 36, it's over for him unless he is nw0, has a short face and is exceptionally youthful (no wrinkles)
 
If he is really 36, it's over for him unless he is nw0, has a short face and is exceptionally youthful (no wrinkles)
longer face wins (look Chico) :woke::woke::woke: but yeah skin + nw0 is a key to look young
 
longer face wins (look Chico) :woke::woke::woke: but yeah skin + nw0 is a key to look young
longer midface makes you look slightly older usually. i don't mean midface like yours, i mean genuinely long midface (adam driver or adam lanza).
 
longer midface makes you look slightly older usually. i don't mean midface like yours, i mean genuinely long midface (adam driver or adam lanza).
but its truly long midface, i meant more 0.9-1.0 midfaces, look how well Gandy aged (midface around 0.95)
leaving midface skin + hair is mostly aging for males
 
but its truly long midface, i meant more 0.9-1.0 midfaces, look how well Gandy aged (midface around 0.95)
leaving midface skin + hair is mostly aging for males
idk man gandy looks his age. he looks like he is in his 40s.
 
Good point and one of the reasons why I myself am conflicted about marriage. As much I desire intimacy, I am also a lone wolf type who requires a few hours of alone time every day. I doubt a clingy foid would be able to respect that. It would get worse if I had children because then my life would pretty much revolve around taking care of them and I'd barely have any time for myself left.

And don't forget that if you marry someone, you don't just marry the foid, but also everyone she knows (family, friends etc.) so then you'd also be forced into all these shitty social events like marriages and funerals which you don't have to deal with if you stay single.
I don't understand how normalfags can lead such hypersocial lives without going insane. I certainly would lose my mind if I had to be in the company of others for every single fucking hour of my life with the only exception being bathroom time. No doubt, if I were to get married, it wouldn't take long for me to get sick of my wife and curse the day I thought of marrying her.

We're told that man is a social animal. Going by this definition, non-social animals can't even be considered human beings; it's only natural that they'd suffer in the midst of real humans.
 
Maybe I'm weird or whatever, but I don't like modern relationship dynamics. The man has to be an island and a solitary mountain, providing and being a stoic hero while the woman is taken care of and takes care of the kids while ignoring the husband.

Nowadays you probably can't find something like this, and for me much less, seeing as I not only am a bald fat fuck but I also have no friends and I literally don't know any women at all. But I would like a woman that would take care of me, love me etc...
Doted on like she's your mother, or sex, you have to choose one. I read r/relationships for a while and that was a constant theme, they don't want to take care of you BC when its time to have sex it feels like fucking a k*d
 
I wouldn’t mind having a mommyGF, I think most men find that hot judging from the popularity of Step Mom Porn. She wouldn’t even have to fuck me, just give me a good handjob/blowjob, cook, clean and show lots of affection, that would be great.
I really don't like you is what's wrong with me. You're everything that makes this site have the lousy reputation it has. You don't think you should have to do anything positive, that you have some sort of ingrained right to the bodies of pubescent girls, and that those who stand in your way deserve castration and death. The fact that the girls themselves want nothing to do with you you likewise blame on them.
I've made clear who I am - a sixty year old man who had a lot of the same disadvantages as the younger men here, but had that at a time and place where it was still possible for somebody like me to get dates. I also make clear I agree with much that is said here, particularly about how modern technology makes even the most isolated small town a part of the nationwide cocktail lounge, and that the technology works to the disadvantage of men who need a less frenetic situation to cultivate a woman's affection. I've also offered practical advice about plastic surgery (which I've had), and commiserated with those who find it so much harder to get a decent job and build a financially stable life than I did.
Usually, I avoid getting into things with the angry young men who say all sorts of edgelordy things as a result of their frustrations, openly expressing extreme misogyny is understandable, even if I think they often take it too far.
I make an exception for you. You're such an appalling human being with such an undeserved sense of entitlement that you make me want to punch you right in your fat, arrogant face. As I can't do that, I'll settle for joining with some others here in pointing out just what a waste of protoplasm you are.
Silence, Boomer.
 
After watching many remote jungle tribe videos I came away with the fact that the man sat around all day, did nothing but would occasionally go out and hunt. He would LDAR to store up energy for long hunts. The women were basically slaves like Amish wimmins, even the daughters slaved while dad was sleeping during daylight. This must be the reason why humans are dimorphic.
 
After watching many remote jungle tribe videos I came away with the fact that the man sat around all day, did nothing but would occasionally go out and hunt. He would LDAR to store up energy for long hunts. The women were basically slaves like Amish wimmins, even the daughters slaved while dad was sleeping during daylight. This must be the reason why humans are dimorphic.
Funny how it's the exact opposite nowadays. Except women only go out to hunt for Chad cock.
 
I don't understand how normalfags can lead such hypersocial lives without going insane. I certainly would lose my mind if I had to be in the company of others for every single fucking hour of my life with the only exception being bathroom time. No doubt, if I were to get married, it wouldn't take long for me to get sick of my wife and curse the day I thought of marrying her.

We're told that man is a social animal. Going by this definition, non-social animals can't even be considered human beings; it's only natural that they'd suffer in the midst of real humans.
I think most married women do kind of adapt to the personality of their husband if he's anti-social. Either out of love or because they're kind of stuck with him due to being financially dependent on him (doesn't happen much in the west anymore but was probably the norm in the past and maybe still applies for extremely rich men like Zuckerberg).
 
No thanks. Ive dreamed only about romantic love.
 
Gentle Femdom is the best bro. I dream of being married to a karate girl that can KO me out in 2 seconds! <3 so sexy and romantic. She can physically protect me, hold me, and cradle me <3
t. soy cuck
but had that at a time and place where it was still possible for somebody like me to get dates.
Reported for bragging.
 
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It would be nice to have a loving mommyGF, or at least a MILF sex buddy.
 

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