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Serious are u volcel if u refuse an arranged marriage?

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how do arranged marriages work? is it only available to curries from wealthy families?

No they just find a rich curry curry family relative to the girl and marry her to a rich curry so she has a better life
 
no amount of arranged marriage will solve that because i know its not true "love".
My god you are dense. There is no such thing as "true love". It is all a foid-worshipping fabrication.

fair enough, but after a while it gets stale and boring without a connection involved. Human species are social creatures we need a connection with someone or else we'll go insane,
And you think there is no human connection in an arranged marriage? Obviously, you have little experience. In nearly all arranged marriage, a very nice feeling of camaraderie develops, like between co-workers. When people do not lie and cooperate honestly within the framework of a contract, they have no reason to hate each other. The husband will like the wife because she cooks well and the woman will like her husband because he give her money to buy nice things. It is a simple, straightforward relationship and it is rare that in such a situation people do not develop a liking for each other.

It is the only realistic option to have a decent long term relationship between ppl of the opposite sex.
 
My god you are dense. There is no such thing as "true love". It is all a foid-worshipping fabrication.
and women delude themselves into it. they're brainwashed since birth by Disney propaganda about "love" finding their "prince charming" and living happily ever after with him. Why would a foid be satisfied being "auction off" to an unattractive male. Its just massive cope if you think its worth it.
 
arrange marriage is another form of "betabuxx". you get her through transactional "love" its not pure affection. i cant have sex with someone who doesn't physically find me attractive.
Sounds more like an excuse.

Are you some lazy fuck who would rather Neet all day or what the fuck?
 
My god you are dense. There is no such thing as "true love". It is all a foid-worshipping fabrication.


And you think there is no human connection in an arranged marriage? Obviously, you have little experience. In nearly all arranged marriage, a very nice feeling of camaraderie develops, like between co-workers. When people do not lie and cooperate honestly within the framework of a contract, they have no reason to hate each other. The husband will like the wife because she cooks well and the woman will like her husband because he give her money to buy nice things. It is a simple, straightforward relationship and it is rare that in such a situation people do not develop a liking for each other.

It is the only realistic option to have a decent long term relationship between ppl of the opposite sex.
I already figured him out.

Just another Volcel Retard who's upset that he has to work.
 
Sounds more like an excuse.

Are you some lazy fuck who would rather Neet all day or what the fuck?
so you wanna provide for a woman who doesn't even "love" you. im a selfish bastard because its how the world is for unattractive males. why the fuck should i man up and provide for a female who doesn't even care about me? who will then eventually cheat on me in the process. Yeah doesn't sound to good hey.
 
"Are you volcel if you voluntarily abstain from participating in a relationship?"

Lmao.
Ah3ERbH d

even the shy quiet "smart" girl is dreaming of chad. the power of good genetics is everything, you cant deny it.
This.
 
I already figured him out.

Just another Volcel Retard who's upset that he has to work.
Me? I don't work. I just pretend I am studying ... on my way to being a NEET
 
so you wanna provide for a women who doesn't even "love" you. im a selfish bastard because its how the world is for unattractive males. why the fuck should i man up and provide for a female who doesn't even care about me? who will then eventually cheat on me in the process. Yeah doesn't sound to good hey.


Keep coping dumbass

90% of successful men dont get true love either.

You sound like a faggot not wanting to ravage a hole if given the opportunity.
Me? I don't work. I just pretend I am studying ... on my way to being a NEET
Not you im talking about @ovrload

Being Neet is a weak man's path. You shouldn't be neet if you aren't retarded or disabled.
 
Of course i was right. Currycel = standard/volcel.
 
Keep coping dumbass

90% of successful men dont get true love either.

You sound like a faggot not wanting to ravage a hole if given the opportunity.
you sound like you would worship a hole if given a chance.oh men must provide and be responsible? who said, the government and the elite so you can continue boosting the economy with useless shit for your wife. women are massive spenders. im not gonna wagecuck for some used up whore who thinks shes entitled to my salary.
 
so you wanna provide for a woman who doesn't even "love" you.
No woman is ever going to LOVE you, for God's sake. It is a myth.
In an arranged marriage, you are just trading money for sex plus additional benefits (nice cooking, pressed shirts, etc) it is a fair trade.

why the fuck should i man up and provide for a female .... who will then eventually cheat on me in the process.
In an arranged marriage, girls can't cheat because otherwise they become outcasts. No family, no welfare, no nothing. No foid is ready to risk that, even for Chad.
Arranged marriages work because there is a whole social structure around them
 
In an arranged marriage, girls can't cheat because otherwise they become outcasts. No family, no welfare, no nothing. No foid is ready to risk that, even for Chad.
Arranged marriages work because there is a whole social structure around them
too bad im from the west, arranged marriages aren't a thing. I wouldn't want to be in one as well. it might work in third world shitholes but certainly wouldn't work in the west
In an arranged marriage, you are just trading money for sex plus additional benefits (nice cooking, pressed shirts, etc) it is a fair trade.
so in other words "beta provider"
 
keep in mind, the foid's parents still have to pick you. if you're low IQ or don't have connections or you're a weirdo or whatever, no parent will voluntarily send their daughter over to you.
 
Being Neet is a weak man's path. You shouldn't be neet if you aren't retarded or disabled.
That is correct IF you can keep the money you earn. that is a big if.
If a welfare state takes everything and gives it to foids so that they can fuck Chad without consequences, then being NEET is the reasonable, non-cuck, thing to do.
too bad im from the west, arranged marriages aren't a thing. I wouldn't want to be in one as well. it might work in third world shitholes but certainly wouldn't work in the west
In Asia it still works in a number of places.

so in other words "beta provider"
The only alpha is Chad. You are not Chad, are you?
So you are a Beta.
Do you want sex? If so, you have to pay, ether long term or short.
There is no shame in being a beta provider if the other party (the wife) keeps her end of the bargain (stays put, does not cheat).
You seem to be living in a dream world where you could be an alpha so that you can have foids "love" you.
Newsflash: that world is not the one we live in.
The only kind of honest society is one in which alphas are not allowed to monopolize the sexual market and where there is a deal between betas and foids. Betas get to fuck and foids get money (long term or short) in return. Being mammals, this is the best we can get. Fairy-tales where every beta is suddenly magically turned into an alpha is nothing but a recipe for rope down the line.
 
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The thing about arranged marriage is that you will not automatically have a good sex life. You will very likely end up in dead bedroom because your wife doesnt find you attractive which will force you to go to hookers sometimes.

I know tons of indian men whose wife dont let them hit it so they go to prostitutes a lot.
 
you sound like you would worship a hole if given a chance.oh men must provide and be responsible? who said, the government and the elite so you can continue boosting the economy with useless shit for your wife. women are massive spenders. im not gonna wagecuck for some used up whore who thinks shes entitled to my salary.
Its not about worshipping a hole, it's about taking what you are entitled to enjoy. Many men on here would enjoy having the opportunity to have an arranged marriage and save themselves from the shitty western way of hooking up. Talking about this love and affection sounds like some mangina talk. JFL at caring about how a foid feels. If you dont even have that to enjoy, why bother living? Being Neet isn't living, you would just be a rotting corpse just waiting to lose your breathe.

The difference between us here and a bluepilled normtard, is that we know what to expect. We won't get blinded sided and ruined by a foid and could go as far as being prepared for such a hit.

Complaining about being a provider lmao, dude at some point, all men have to be providers if they want to have a hole and reproduce. Even average wage chads and high tier normies saddle up for that. You're ugly, what worth do you bring to the table to even be able to casually enjoy a hole?

You talk about losing equity, what do you even own? Lmao I doubt you have anything on your name. Why bother working for money if you have nothing to spend it on. You're going to have a slavelike life being under someone else's payroll anyways, you dont need seem motivated to be your own boss. Is the plan here to simply rot away in your room without ever stepping foot on your front porch?
 
You probably are a volcel, however, I do not think good of arranged marriages, unless you know said foid and are good with her
 
The thing about arranged marriage is that you will not automatically have a good sex life. You will very likely end up in dead bedroom because your wife doesnt find you attractive which will force you to go to hookers sometimes.

I know tons of indian men whose wife dont let them hit it so they go to prostitutes a lot.
So? It beats being alone
 
Being Neet isn't living, you would just be a rotting corpse just waiting to lose your breathe.
As a low value man it’s the only way to go. Why should I contribute to society? If no one can take me seriously because of how I look? Arranged marriage still won’t work for me. The only positive is sex, do you think she will enjoy it with me of course not it’s a huge deluded cope. As I said I’m in the west and women have a fuck ton of options thanks to social media and other stuff. Just isn’t worth it. I’ll focus on building up my own self-esteem without needing the validation of someone else. Marriage is just another form of slavery. You the man are expected to provide and look after some entitled used up whore. That’s why I’ll never beta provide for a female.
You talk about losing equity, what do you even own
I don’t own any property or vehicles but I do have tens of thousands of dollars saved up. Why should I bother spending it on materialistic crap when I have the option to just save it and rarely spend it? If I had a female in my life most of it would’ve been gone by now.
Is the plan here to simply rot away in your room without ever stepping foot on your front porch?
you have a huge generalisation that all neets rot all day In their basement. Far from the truth. I go on bike rides and jog, even go out with my bluepilled incel friend from time to time. I’m not an anti social hermit, I’m not autistic that I can actually have a conversation with someone without trembling in fear. Maybe that was the case when I was younger when I was more high inhib, but over the years I’ve adapted to become more low inhib not giving a fuck about what others think of me. As you can pretty much can I’m MSTOW at this point.
 
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Then you are a volcel
You are volcel only if you denied sex with foid who is lusting for you. If you are going to escorts or raping foids it does not count as ascending.
 
You are volcel only if you denied sex with foid who is lusting for you. If you are going to escorts or raping foids it does not count as ascending.
I disagree.
An incel is an "involuntary celibate", right? What is a "celibate"? Someone who does not have a long term sexual relationship with a woman. So, ok, you can go to an escorts and still be "celibate" and therefore incel. But if you have an arranged marriage, you are no longer celibate. So you cannot be an incel according to the definition. Whether or not the foid "lusts" for you is irrelevant to the definition of celibacy and therefore to that of an incel. If you pass up the opportunity to have an arranged marriage, then it means you voluntarily choose to remain celibate. You are a volcel.

I think it is time we incels realize that foids will not lust for us. Foids will lust only for alphas, ie. Chads, in our current cultural setup. It has always been like that and it will stay like that as long as the DNA of mankind does not dramatically change. If you truly want to fuck, you have to accept that it will be with foids that DO NOT LUST FOR YOU. Get over it.
 
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I disagree.
An incel is an "involuntary celibate", right? What is a "celibate"? Someone who does not have a long term sexual relationship with a woman. So, ok, you can go to an escorts and still be "celibate" and therefore incel. But if you have an arranged marriage, you are no longer celibate. So you cannot be an incel according to the definition. Whether or not the foid "lusts" for you is irrelevant to the definition of celibacy and therefore to that of an incel. If you pass up the opportunity to have an arranged marriage, then it means you voluntarily choose to remain celibate. You are a volcel.

I think it is time we incels realize that foids will not lust for us. Foids will lust only for alphas, ie. Chads, in our current cultural setup. It has always been like that and it will stay like that as long as the DNA of mankind does not dramatically change. If you truly want to fuck, you have to accept that it will be with foids that DO NOT LUST FOR YOU. Get over it.
No, no, no. You took this "Someone who does not have a long term sexual relationship with a woman" out of your ass. Nobody is talking about LTR as the only celibate breaker. Do you want to tell me that somebody who fucks for free a different foid every day is an incel?
I don't see arranged marriage without lust as LTR.
My point is that if you are able to get a foid lust for you - you are not really incel. Incels cannot ascend, unless the foid is some super rare fetishist for ugly or short men.
 
No, no, no. You took this "Someone who does not have a long term sexual relationship with a woman" out of your ass.
My ass is called Wikitionary:
  1. Abstaining from marriage; the state of being unmarried.
  2. (by extension) Abstinence from sexual relations.
"marriage" here means "long term M/W relationship including sex", not only legal marriage (see Common Law Marriage)

Nobody is talking about LTR as the only celibate breaker.
On the contrary, everybody is, see the definition above. Notice that celibacy is defined in opposition to "marriage" which exactly means LTR in this context. There is no mention of lust.

Do you want to tell me that somebody who fucks for free a different foid every day is an incel?
Technically, a 5-chick a day Chad with no regular gf is celibate, but obviously not an incel because there is nothing involuntary about his situation. Furthermore, most Chads are in long term relationships with a gf generally. They just cheat on a daily basis. Most Chads are closer to polygamy (hence not celibacy) than anything else.

I don't see arranged marriage without lust as LTR.
LTR has nothing to do with lust. Is there any mention of lust in the definition above?

My point is that if you are able to get a foid lust for you - you are not really incel.
Of course, because if this happens, you will use this lust to get into a LTR with that girl. This is what Chads do. And if you do not do that, you are not an incel but a volcel because you had a choice.

But if you are in an arranged marriage, you are not an incel either, because you are not celibate. And if you pass up an opportunity to get an arranged marriage, you are also a volcel. Nothing of what you said contradicts that. Most of it was besides the point anyway ...
 
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My ass is called Wikitionary:
  1. Abstaining from marriage; the state of being unmarried.
So you say that a married person can not be celibate? And if the wife is not letting him touch her, but for some reason (family, money etc) he continues to live with her?
 
So you say that a married person can not be celibate? And if the wife is not letting him touch her, but for some reason (family, money etc) he continues to live with her?
You are splitting hairs. Marriage implies sex. A marriage without sex is an abnormal marriage. So here, "marriage" does not mean "legal marriage", it means "long term relationship with sex" as in "common law marriage"

In other words, "celibate" is the opposite of "being in a LTR with sex"
 
ngl ive seen multiple curries on here say that they will straight up refuse an arrange marriage with a curryfoid. thoughts?

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@Joelossus was right tbh




Not really imagine being this moronic to not realize life is all about trying to complete your other half i ain't doing that with a arranged bitch ngl
 

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