im a 30+ cel and take my word for it, 1 of the most brutal pills to swallow is not having a social circle. i have practically 0 "real" friends and only about 5 or 6 texting acquaintances who i wouldnt really consider real friends. they are cool people who i discuss current events and topics with. but if i died tomorrow, they wouldnt even know until 2 or 3 weeks later. when they found out, theyd be stunned for a day or 2 and move on.
no instagram, no snap chat, no facebook. even if i did have them, i would have 10 followers at best, most of whom would be family. i have nothing to post either, as i dont really live an exciting life. all i do is go to work, play with my pet, and play vidya. ive solo traveled here and there, but that just makes you look even more pathetic when posting pics all by yourself in some exotic location. normie travel is totally different. they usually go to wild drug and alchohol-fueled pool parties in vegas with 10 of their friends and then post the pics, getting 300+ likes each. if i posted a selfie of myself standing on the moon, i would get 7 likes in the span of 8 months.
forget about my physical looks, my emotionally damaged psyche (from years of neglect - thanks mom), my low income, and all the other issues i have going in my life. the BIGGEST death sentence trait in my honest opinion is the lack of a social network. it is nearly impossible to make friends after 30. i dont meet anyone at work, and i dont go out (unless it was to the gym). its a cruel paradox, because the only way you can go out is by having friends in the first place, and the only way you can make friends is by going out. all my old "friends" married off, had kids, got great careers, and moved away. meeting new ones is essentially impossible, as i have 0 in common with people in my age bracket
even if i ascended looks-wise and money-wise, meeting a girl at my age while having 0 friends would be a death sentence. id be labeled as a weirdo and red flags would go off in her head. girls like it when you have ex's and when they find out you dont/never had many girl friends, its an instant turn off. they love the drama and the thought of potentially competing with her and others over you. if you dont have any ex's texting you at 2am or flirting with you, then no new girl will ever be turned on by you enough to want to make you "hers".
to anyone reading this, do you know if there is a way to break this cycle? the only way i can think of is by somehow becoming instantly famous and getting groupies/male vultures to suddenly want be close with you. other than that, i feel it is hopeless. a person only has a healthy social network when they are raised in a normal enviroment, under normal circumstance. it starts from childhood and continues to grow throughout your life. if you missed those pivotal moments, you will likely never have a strong social circle. which means you will never be able to post selfies and cool photos receiving 200+ likes, which in turn makes you more attractive to other people, thus continuing the cycle.
no instagram, no snap chat, no facebook. even if i did have them, i would have 10 followers at best, most of whom would be family. i have nothing to post either, as i dont really live an exciting life. all i do is go to work, play with my pet, and play vidya. ive solo traveled here and there, but that just makes you look even more pathetic when posting pics all by yourself in some exotic location. normie travel is totally different. they usually go to wild drug and alchohol-fueled pool parties in vegas with 10 of their friends and then post the pics, getting 300+ likes each. if i posted a selfie of myself standing on the moon, i would get 7 likes in the span of 8 months.
forget about my physical looks, my emotionally damaged psyche (from years of neglect - thanks mom), my low income, and all the other issues i have going in my life. the BIGGEST death sentence trait in my honest opinion is the lack of a social network. it is nearly impossible to make friends after 30. i dont meet anyone at work, and i dont go out (unless it was to the gym). its a cruel paradox, because the only way you can go out is by having friends in the first place, and the only way you can make friends is by going out. all my old "friends" married off, had kids, got great careers, and moved away. meeting new ones is essentially impossible, as i have 0 in common with people in my age bracket
even if i ascended looks-wise and money-wise, meeting a girl at my age while having 0 friends would be a death sentence. id be labeled as a weirdo and red flags would go off in her head. girls like it when you have ex's and when they find out you dont/never had many girl friends, its an instant turn off. they love the drama and the thought of potentially competing with her and others over you. if you dont have any ex's texting you at 2am or flirting with you, then no new girl will ever be turned on by you enough to want to make you "hers".
to anyone reading this, do you know if there is a way to break this cycle? the only way i can think of is by somehow becoming instantly famous and getting groupies/male vultures to suddenly want be close with you. other than that, i feel it is hopeless. a person only has a healthy social network when they are raised in a normal enviroment, under normal circumstance. it starts from childhood and continues to grow throughout your life. if you missed those pivotal moments, you will likely never have a strong social circle. which means you will never be able to post selfies and cool photos receiving 200+ likes, which in turn makes you more attractive to other people, thus continuing the cycle.
