Ascension would be just as grim as remaining incels, if not worse.

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This happens to many guys who haven't been successful with women.

What happens is that at age ~30, women start getting desperate. Not only baby crazy, though that too a bit (both because of societal/parental pressure and because of her biological impulses). But also they want to settle down. They know their looks are fading or have faded already. She start feeling really old, she knows she needs to lock down a man NOW. And she has probably been trying to do that for years. Realistically she's been on the cock carousel since age ~15, probably going from relationship to relationship, long-term or short-term, nevermind the details. Maybe she had a boyfriend or two that she thought she could marry, but it didn't work out. So now she knows it's her last shot. Well, in today's world women live like gods so they can find a beta bux even at 50 or even 60, but she's feeling the pressure anyway. She wants to at the very least pop out a kid or two, and she needs a provider for them. The kind of woman that's still not married by now has some very serious flaws. Obviously we are flawed too, but you have to remember that unlike us women are always getting asked out, always involved in relationships and shit. The fact that she hasn't found anyone yet means she has a truly awful personality (not just ugly or something), because the juggernaut law is true and even ugly women are constantly in relationship (from what I've seen ugly women are the first to get married), so the reason she's single is that she's a really fucking vile bitch.

Anyway, so she'll lock down the first guy she can. She'll try to go for any able bodied man with a job, probably has a few on her radar. She's trying this with every man she meets. So she'll show you a few signs of interest. And you're a fucking virgin in his 30s, even if you hate the bitch at first, that sign of interest will be on your mind for days or weeks. So you'll warm up to her and things might develop. If out of all the guys that she's trying with, nothing works out, she'll go for you (if you have a steady paycheck). She'll be sweet at first. Hell, she'll probably be pretty chill until you're stuck into her trap for life, either by marriage or a kid. She won't break up with you because she needs marriage and a kid as quickly as possible, and if she's with you it means nobody else has worked out. And you won't break up with her cause even if you don't love her, you've "ascended" after so many years of loneliness and virginity. Even if you had the though of break up on your mind, you won't go through with it. So she'll start pressuring you to get married. And she has years and years of experience in relationships, you have none. She has so many tools in her manipulation arsenal, she knows how to make you do things and you won't be able to refuse, even if you struggle and try to avoid it.

So you will get married. And then things will change dramatically. So far so good, so far there's no big problem. But now she'll show her true self. She'll show you her vile self. She'll start nagging you a lot, she'll stop having sex with you and she'll hold it over your head as a reward, once a month or so if you have been a good work horse. That's at first though, later on maybe there won't be any sex at all. She'll start bitching a lot. She won't work as much as you but she'll moan and shout and complain that she does all the work around the house, even if you help out or even do half. She'll still imagine she does more. God help you if she doesn't have a job, she'll probably barely do a few chores and complain how hard it is to take care of the house, making you do a lot of shit after work. Ohh right, and there's shit that "only men" do around the house, so that shit will be yours to do regardless of how tired you are. But it's the 21st century so stuff "only women" do around the house will at least partly be your responsibility too. And so things will go on, gradually you'll resign to your fate. I don't want to mention stuff like cheating, I consider those unlikely to happen, even if they do happen fairly often. Maybe you'll divorce at a certain point, but if neither of you are infertile and kids do pop out, you'll most likely stay together for the kids. Or perhaps not, it depends on how awful she truly is and on how much you can take (and how much you risk to lose financially through a divorce).

Anyway, there's more but the post is long enough as it is. Meanwhile people have been living life, going out, having sex and forming relationships and friendships since they were teens or at the very least since college. Falling in and out of "love", experiencing many things. But this is all that fate has in store for us, and that's the best case scenario apparently. So I'd rather be single. Luckily I'm bald and avoidant of people so I'm all set, I think I'm not at risk of ever getting a relationship, phew.
 
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The thing is women feel scammed when they settle for their looksmatch, even when he has money and shit.

They feel like they got screwed. They think about all the chads they've been with and think they were entitled to them, those guys are the ones who were supposed to commit. So they look at their husbands with pure hatred, disgust and disdain. Every day they hate more and more. They make sure to give him mediocre sex or no sex at all (le dead bedroom :soy: ). They either stay with him or eventually just snap and cheat on him or divorce him.

And when they do cheat/divorce him ... they feel like that was their revenge, they feel like they're in the right and he harmed them by not being chad. They're the victim in their mind. Scary stuff
 
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I'm 33, I wouldn't get now in marriage or relationship. Its to late for me to change my mentality and start slaving, also I wouldn't trust her at all. Casual fuck buddy girl with whom I could talk occasionally would be perfect.
 
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The thing is women feel scammed when they settle for their looksmatch, even when he has money and shit.

They feel like they got screwed. They think about all the chads they've been with and think they were entitled to them, those guys are the ones who were supposed to commit. So they look at their husbands with pure hatred, disgust and disdain. Every day they hate more and more. They make sure to give him mediocre sex or no sex at all (le dead bedroom :soy: ). They either stay with him or eventually just snap and cheat on him or divorce him.

And when they do cheat/divorce him ... they feel like that was their revenge, they feel like they're in the right and he harmed them by not being chad. They're the victim in their mind. Scary stuff
Of course, she will always want a better looking/manlier/stronger/richer guy. And the uglier you are the more she will resent you. But she will settle down with the best guy she can get her hands on at that age, and there are plenty of vile cunts out there who can get people to fuck them but can't get people to settle down with their vile ass, so she'll settle for slightly less (but still the best she can get, not just anyone).
 
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If you are a woman in that situation, don't ever breed.
 
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no. The more you have a great life after ascension, the more your scars will eventually heal and you'll be able to enjoy the better quality of life you got.
What would be grim is to cuck yourself betabuxxing because that is no ascension, betacucking is the ultimate form of torture for an incel after years of already being tortured by life.
 
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I usually love how the incel community have that idealistic idea of ascension. Ascension has no roots, it's a pie-in-the-sky delusion that many irrational FOMO-having incels like to believe in. For fuck's sake, there's no such thing as ascension, everyone but chad gets shit on. If you're an incel, you should only focus on yourself and your social life (by which i mean being treated like a normal human being, which is far easier to achieve than "ascension"), and forget about women by coping as much as you can, because there is no light at the end of the tunnel and there's no prime 18yo virgin waiting for you, only betabuxxing, divorce, shitty sex and crippling depression.
 
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no. The more you have a great life after ascension, the more your scars will eventually heal and you'll be able to enjoy the better quality of life you got.
What would be grim is to cuck yourself betabuxxing because that is no ascension, betacucking is the ultimate form of torture for an incel after years of already being tortured by life.
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In theory many here can be applied to betabuxx and depending on how it is handled it can be useful (many here just want a little daily attention pfff); Or the ones who use escorts from time to time, while concentrating on their careers or friends. You think Stacy will solve everything, this is not anime.
 
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Only read 1st paragraph. Based tho
 
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:feelshaha::feelshaha:
In theory many here can be applied to betabuxx and depending on how it is handled it can be useful (many here just want a little daily attention pfff); Or the ones who use escorts from time to time, while concentrating on their careers or friends. You think Stacy will solve everything, this is not anime.
genuine attention from a loving gf will solve most of my problems. and it makes every other problem in life more bearable in comparison to inceldom.
plus there are no upsides to betabuxx, you would literally be cucked and abused by a roastie that only wants a slave and someone else to pay her bills.
 
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no. The more you have a great life after ascension, the more your scars will eventually heal and you'll be able to enjoy the better quality of life you got.
What would be grim is to cuck yourself betabuxxing because that is no ascension, betacucking is the ultimate form of torture for an incel after years of already being tortured by life.
You got a point here.
 
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genuine attention ( :feelsseriously::lul::lul:) from a loving gf will solve most of my problems. and it makes every other problem in life more bearable in comparison to inceldom.
plus there are no upsides to betabuxx, you would literally be cucked and abused by a roastie that only wants a slave and someone else to pay her bills.
Good luck with that, ah the idealization still permeates many here, even chads are replaced by others and so on. Although it would just be replaced with another problem, betabux is crap but it works for many, as I said just having someone around is enough.
In my case having friends is a good help.
 
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They think about all the chads they've been with and think they were entitled to them, those guys are the ones who were supposed to commit. So they look at their husbands with pure hatred, disgust and disdain.
I was about to write exactly those words.

And by the way, one thing that can protect you if you can keep an eye out for it, is that they are so entitled, and they believe they are stooping so very low when they grace you with their (false) attention, that it takes very little provocation to get them to reveal their true nature. What I mean is, she's smiling but she's gritting her teeth and doesn't want to - and if something doesn't go her way, she wont be able to hold back her disdain.

It's like in that movie A Few Good Men - the general is lying, but he doesn't want to lie. It pisses him off that he has to lie because he views everyone else as beneath him.

I've seen this happen in real life. A guy I work with has a nosy, busybody wife who wanted to set me up with one of her friends. When I wasn't interested, the friend got angry at me.
 
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I usually love how the incel community have that idealistic idea of ascension. Ascension has no roots, it's a pie-in-the-sky delusion that many irrational FOMO-having incels like to believe in. For fuck's sake, there's no such thing as ascension, everyone but chad gets shit on. If you're an incel, you should only focus on yourself and your social life (by which i mean being treated like a normal human being, which is far easier to achieve than "ascension"), and forget about women by coping as much as you can, because there is no light at the end of the tunnel and there's no prime 18yo virgin waiting for you, only betabuxxing, divorce, shitty sex and crippling depression.
Very true my man, well said.
 
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Ascension coppers are giga coppers
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That ship has sailed long ago, that's why you're posting in .co.
Unless you're 15 yo tho, it's over.
 
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not reading an essay. either way sounds like cope
 

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