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Can't imagine a scenario/future where I get to date a woman, no chance. Do you see such a possibility for yourself?

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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We're overly negative and pessimistic on this site, but I am telling you by analyzing my situation realistically: it's just not going to happen. There's no scenario that I can imagine that will lead to me dating/having sex.

One big problem is that I don't ever leave the house, it's the only place where I'm not very anxious. I don't have any friends, not even acquaintances. Also I've rotted in bed in front of a screen my whole life, it's the only lifestyle I know. Since I was a kid after school I used to rush straight home. Every weekend and every holiday in my life has been spent at home, voluntarily. Thing didn't change since childhood to this day. Hell, even when I was an alcoholic I'd just get drunk in my own room.

I could change my lifestyle, but I won't. There just isn't any point, there's no chance. And even if there were a 1% chance, I wouldn't go through the process of transforming my entire life and letting go of the one thing that gives me comfort in this life (rotting in my bed with my laptop), just to maybe but not really have a chance. Also I'm pathologically lazy.

And even if I did change my entire lifestyle and magically became a spartan focused on self-improvement. There are some things I Just can't help. Looks: This is important, the fact that I'm now bald is a BIG problem. Even if I fix my teeth, acne, wore contacts, lost weight etc... I'm already bald and I'll never afford to fix it. Also I'm way too lazy to go through all the shit that would require fixing it and even if I had a full-time job the salaries in this country won't pay for it. In addition, the lack of social circle, social skills etc... It's just not going to happen, even if I get over my depression, anxiety, laziness etc...
 
Not at all.
My hiki lifestyle, living in a small village and the complete lack of social contacts make it impossible for me.
 
No, unless she come to my house and jump on me.
 
I used to dream about it all the time, but it’s waning.
 
We're overly negative and pessimistic on this site, but I am telling you by analyzing my situation realistically: it's just not going to happen. There's no scenario that I can imagine that will lead to me dating/having sex.

One big problem is that I don't ever leave the house, it's the only place where I'm not very anxious. I don't have any friends, not even acquaintances. Also I've rotted in bed in front of a screen my whole life, it's the only lifestyle I know. Since I was a kid after school I used to rush straight home. Every weekend and every holiday in my life has been spent at home, voluntarily. Thing didn't change since childhood to this day. Hell, even when I was an alcoholic I'd just get drunk in my own room.

I could change my lifestyle, but I won't. There just isn't any point, there's no chance. And even if there were a 1% chance, I wouldn't go through the process of transforming my entire life and letting go of the one thing that gives me comfort in this life (rotting in my bed with my laptop), just to maybe but not really have a chance. Also I'm pathologically lazy.

And even if I did change my entire lifestyle and magically became a spartan focused on self-improvement. There are some things I Just can't help. Looks: This is important, the fact that I'm now bald is a BIG problem. Even if I fix my teeth, acne, wore contacts, lost weight etc... I'm already bald and I'll never afford to fix it. Also I'm way too lazy to go through all the shit that would require fixing it and even if I had a full-time job the salaries in this country won't pay for it. In addition, the lack of social circle, social skills etc... It's just not going to happen, even if I get over my depression, anxiety, laziness etc...

Not really no.
 
Well. Sometimes I like to dream.
But in reality, the probability is slightly more than zero.
 
The black pill is all I see the world through. I'm enveloped in it. There is no way I'd enjoy any date, let alone the presence of a foid in a social setting.

She would be a vapid shell. There would be nothing interesting to talk about with her. If she's not there for me to be fucking her, I won't see any real reason why she should be there with me or why I should tolerate her presence.
 
The only way for me to ascend is back in my country, where there's no Tinder and only the rich can afford internet. No chance here in the U.S.
 
no theres literally zero chance for me
 
It's really not worth it. What's the point of ascending, even if by a miracle that happened to me, I'd just get super attached to the girl and then get absolutely crushed when she invariably dumped me for some frivolous reason or no reason at all shortly after. Not even Chadlites I know have been able to hold a relationship in 2020, it's over. Young women will always leave you.
 
As I am now? No, I guess it would be possible if she was extremely fat AND ugly, but I most likely would be repulsed by her.
Next year when I’m steroid maxed and shredded it is much more possible.
 
I want to be loved by a woman more than anything, but that wont ever happen. Gonna have to stick with escorts & robots once they get good.
 
There's no way it could happen, foids just don't want to talk to me
 
I cant imagine a future, period.
 

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