Imagine actually believing such ludicrous garbage. Your state of mind does indeed matter, but you can only attract your looks match at max. Maybe even +1 or +2, if you have enough wealth or power. Also this is only under the condition, that there is no social media, no online dating, etc. So no easy access to chads. In today's world a 5/10 foid would rather be pumped and dumped by chads than choosing her looks match, who would be more than happy to be in a stable relationship with her like it used to be before the internet and the sexual revolution.
But when you don't have the social skills, you're instantly out of the game, if you're sub 8. If you're 6/10 and want to attract your looks match, you need more than just equal physical attractiveness. You need to be successful in social matters. You need to be better than other 6/10 guys. It's always physical attractiveness + social status for a man. If you lack either, it's over.