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Blackpill CollegeHumor video shows the kind of courtship considered romantic and that worked decades ago is considered creepy and stalker-like today

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View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lz7S4tCQhvo

Yeah it seems at first it's just a matter of age difference (the opinion of a young woman versus a much older woman). But really you could interpret it as a commentary between the difference of opinion of a woman in older times versus a woman now.

Notice the people in the comments wishing more obvious romantic gestures and effort were still appreciated. Well they say that but their actions IRL and how they consider such things creepy and stalker-like behavior (if not coming from an attractive male) show that this is the kind of world they've created. And now they want to walk back on that just to seem sentimental and deep.
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Cope, if chad did that lady would have loved it
 
Cope, if chad did that lady would have loved it
They weren't talking about chad in this though and it's obvious too. Most men are not chads but in older times nonchad males that were romantic were still able to "win" over a woman's affections. But if they did that today it would be considered stalker-like and predatory behavior.
 
Sad we will never experience a time like that
 
Sad we will never experience a time like that
@Gymcelled has said that "simping" behavior like that would be really likely to get a guy laid back then.

And yeah such a time isn't coming back. And so romantic stories of a woman being "won" over by a nonchad male like the one the older woman recounted will not repeated.
 

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lz7S4tCQhvo

Yeah it seems at first it's just a matter of age difference (the opinion of a young woman versus a much older woman). But really you could interpret it as a commentary between the difference of opinion of a woman in older times versus a woman now.

Notice the people in the comments wishing more obvious romantic gestures and effort were still appreciated. Well they say that but their actions IRL and how they consider such things creepy and stalker-like behavior (if not coming from an attractive male) show that this is the kind of world they've created. And now they want to walk back on that just to seem sentimental and deep.
@Gymcelled @Edmund_Kemper

Tbh I just want to dive into a time when I could respectfully give a foid flowers as a gesture of affection and not be shamed by both the soy world AND the manosphere for it. But as it stands, it's literally more acceptable to make rap songs about how they all fuck dogs (cuz it's true and they know it)
 
Tbh I just want to dive into a time when I could respectfully give a foid flowers as a gesture of affection and not be shamed by both the soy world AND the manosphere for it.
Redpillers are really arrogant this way. They want to make it more of an obvious free for all where chad can do anything and get full approval for being "alpha" while guys that are sincere but timid and literally just "being themselves" are considered beta males worthy of death.
But as it stands, it's literally more acceptable to make rap songs about how they all fuck dogs (cuz it's true and they know it)
Rap songs sexualizing women and showing the more unflattering ways women can act was the redpill before the redpill was a thing dedsrs.
 
That's because the society has changed and the male - female dynamic is radically different too. In the past, women still depended on their husbands' income and being an unmarried spinster was shamed and ridiculed. Nowadays all initiatives to accept courtship from non-Chad men is gone. Thus the only value a man has are his looks, which leads to gradually eliminating the bottom 80% of men from the dating market. Chad doesn't need to give her flowers or engage in any other courtship ritual. It's completely unnecessary for him to do so.
 
That's because the society has changed and the male - female dynamic is radically different too. In the past, women still depended on their husbands' income and being an unmarried spinster was shamed and ridiculed. Nowadays all initiatives to accept courtship from non-Chad men is gone.
It really is brutal for nonchad guys nowadays that just want to give it a shot and show their affection in a way that is pouring their heart and soul out without getting judged too harshly or seen as a predator if they do that.
Thus the only value a man has are his looks, which leads to gradually eliminating the bottom 80% of men from the dating market. Chad doesn't need to give her flowers or engage in any other courtship ritual. It's completely unnecessary for him to do so.
tbh that's what nonchad males mean when they say romance is dead.
OTOH when women say romance is dead they mean they still want nonchad males to chase after them to flatter their ego but even more so they want chads to show more of these romantic gestures to them so they can feel "special."
 
It really is brutal for nonchad guys nowadays that just want to give it a shot and show their affection in a way that is pouring their heart and soul out without getting judged too harshly or seen as a predator if they do that.

tbh that's what nonchad males mean when they say romance is dead.
OTOH when women say romance is dead they mean they still want nonchad males to chase after them to flatter their ego but even more so they want chads to show more of these romantic gestures to them so they can feel "special."
The modern man is reduced to being a disposable worker drone, an emotional tampon for foids and a dedicated punching bag for the society at large.
 
The modern man is reduced to being a disposable worker drone, an emotional tampon for foids and a dedicated punching bag for the society at large.
No wonder a lot of nonchad males are roping or at least feeling suicidal earlier on in their life now.
 
Tbh I just want to dive into a time when I could respectfully give a foid flowers as a gesture of affection and not be shamed by both the soy world AND the manosphere for it. But as it stands, it's literally more acceptable to make rap songs about how they all fuck dogs (cuz it's true and they know it)
 
Tbh I just want to dive into a time when I could respectfully give a foid flowers as a gesture of affection and not be shamed by both the soy world AND the manosphere for it.
Total inversion of all values in that sick so(y)ciety, nothing but hatred and contempt for it. Today if you are anything except an asexual drone in so(y)ciety you only get shunned/attacked, when you try to do what worked for your parents/their parents before you get shamed by everyone, even when you remove yourself from the dating pool by giving up, fucking escorts and watching porn you get shamed, everything except being a bugman is frowned upon.
It really is brutal for nonchad guys nowadays that just want to give it a shot and show their affection in a way that is pouring their heart and soul out without getting judged too harshly or seen as a predator if they do that.
tbh that's what nonchad males mean when they say romance is dead.
OTOH when women say romance is dead they mean they still want nonchad males to chase after them to flatter their ego but even more so they want chads to show more of these romantic gestures to them so they can feel "special."
As usual high IQ, eloquent and spot-on.
 
Total inversion of all values in that sick so(y)ciety, nothing but hatred and contempt for it. Today if you are anything except an asexual drone in so(y)ciety you only get shunned/attacked, when you try to do what worked for your parents/their parents before you get shamed by everyone, even when you remove yourself from the dating pool by giving up, fucking escorts and watching porn you get shamed, everything except being a bugman is frowned upon.

As usual high IQ, eloquent and spot-on.
Here in the "Land of the Free," we're denied even the scraps of whorecelling.
 
Remember how boomers always say you should spam an employer, show up or call everyday, "insist", "barge in" etc? Until they give you a job? This is like the job market version of this
Both will get you in trouble if not in jail these days

Boomer life smh @ReturnOfSaddam
 
Remember how boomers always say you should spam an employer, show up or call everyday, "insist", "barge in" etc? Until they give you a job? This is like the job market version of this
Both will get you in trouble if not in jail these days

Boomer life smh @ReturnOfSaddam
Imagine how if things were consistent through time and it wasn't acceptable for nonchad males to do that back then either, a lot of people here wouldn't have been born.
 

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