I'm only writing this because I really fucking miss it and don't think any womens pussy comes as remotely close - despite having never put my dick in one.
I only bought it because literally NO ONE would come in my room while I was a student. I got rid of over a year ago as I couldn't possibly take it home without getting caught. It was literally the first thing on my mind and the only thing I'd look forward to most of the time when most of my work was done for the day.
Which Fleshlight did you buy?
I bought the Stamina Training Unit initially. Then, bought the Stoya Detroya. Both are expensive as fuck, not to mention the lube you would need to buy as they're impossible to fuck without some form of lubrication.
Didn't you feel embarrassed about buying/using it?
Yes, definitely and I still kind of am. But it's been two years since I last used one, and honestly the day I've put my dick into one, I haven't looked back. I can't wait for the day to be able to use one again. I would buy again if I could - but it's something I would only do so if the circumstances are right. Currently an unemployedcel living with mom so don't have the opportunity to do so - my stuff gets checked every other day lol. When I bought one while at uni, I used Amazon locker so nobody knews where I lived as I ordered it. I wish there was a way to truly anonymize buying stuff online, but this is the closest you'll get I guess.
Which Fleshlight is better?
They were both unbelievably amazing. I would recommend both, but since its expensive, go for Stamina Training Unit if its your first time. The intensity on Stoya Destroya is the best you can get and will leave your dick feeling like a king. So I'm pretty certain you will end up buying another one after buying the STU and in terms of feeling the Stoya Destroya wins. But Fleshlight virgins are probably better off with STU first. Also, on a side note you need an average dick at least to feel the pleasure, so dickcels can gtfo and cope with something else.
Isn't it the same as masturbation/isn't a vagina better?
Firstly I can't say anything about experience compared to a vagina (obviously). But countless people have concurred that a fleshlight feels better than an actual vagina. Most people who say the "real thing" is better say all these kind of bullshit like 'its a hassle to clean up', you have a deep psychological connection and emotional feelings with a real girl blah, blah blah. If you're taking into account pure sexual gratification, then nothing beats a fleshlight - it specifically tailored for maximum pleasure.
As for using a hand, a fleshlight is a no brainer. The sensation you get from a fleshlight is unparalleled and this is a feeling even Chads will never experience.
Does it really feel better?
Yes, yes and fucking YES. It's like nerve ending on your dick is being caressed by a whole army of angels until you finally explode. If you edge your dick and resist the urge to cum a while (you need to be a pro for this), then you will ejaculate so intensely that even your mind will fizzle out for a few secs. The rest of your body will be in total and utter shock. I would sometimes almost fall over when cumming because I couldn't make myself stand.
What are the negatives?
As you can imagine, for the best experience you will need lube - a lot of it. Also, warming it up can be a headache, plus if your on a long teasing wank session it'll get cold by the end of it anyway. This can be quite expensive and time-consuming, but think about all the bullshit you've dodged all these years (flowers, chocolates, movies) that would've cost a fuck ton of more money and time.
Another constant issue is trying to position the fleshlight to a good position/angle while fucking it, you do NOT want to fuck it with your hand, just your body.
Did you watch porn while using the fleshlight?
This is very common. But I actually didn't the majority of the time. When I got the fleshlight initially, I did fuck it while watching porn - JOI videos (jerk off instructions) are very good for this. But later on I felt all exhibitionist and went on to do it online on places like chatroulette.
I didn't flash or show my dick, I just spammed 'wanna see me fuck a fleshlight?' every time a girl popped across my screen. I never showed my face (initially), but the response rate from this was usually 20% of girls were interested in seeing you fuck a fleshlight. I would then ask for girls to show tits so I get a boner and started fucking it. Only about half of that 20% would be interested, so 10% . Next I would ask them to show their ass/or face and I would cum for them. Again, only about half of the girls obliged at this stage (so 5%), if they showed face I would show mine also and would fuck the fleshlight while watching them play with there tits or ass. Some would even rub their clit and very rare occasions we cummed together. Bearing in mind the chances of seeing a girl on Chatroulette was and still is like 1 in 20, so the chances of this happening is rare, but I wouldn't stop until it happened. Some days I would be on chatroulette for hours and hours - up to 9 or 10 hours a day waiting for the right girl. Depends on how horny I was - and how much I wanted the girl to get freaky. The freakier I wanted them the harder they were to catch. Trying to find a girl who would show her face and cum with you was like once or twice a month.
Since Chatroulette have got rid of chat functions (over a year ago) and traffic on website has gone to shit, I can't/don't do this anymore. Literally hundreds of foids have seen my dick and watched me fuck. I used to feel insecure about my dick and face but it did give me a slight confidence boost, ngl.
Did it stop you from going out/studying/concentrating on other stuff?
Hard to tell. I bought it 2 years into my study so obviously wasn't going anywhere. Although I'm not awkward I'm an anti-socialcel who doesn't drink and didn't like the clubbing scene. My grades did drop off but whether the fleshlight was responsible I don't know. It depends more on you than the fleshlight. Obviously my life could've been more productive - especially given I spent hours on chatroulette looking for that hotspot. But same could be said currently - instead of fucking on cam, I spend all day on videogames, reddit and watching sports.
I only bought it because literally NO ONE would come in my room while I was a student. I got rid of over a year ago as I couldn't possibly take it home without getting caught. It was literally the first thing on my mind and the only thing I'd look forward to most of the time when most of my work was done for the day.
Which Fleshlight did you buy?
I bought the Stamina Training Unit initially. Then, bought the Stoya Detroya. Both are expensive as fuck, not to mention the lube you would need to buy as they're impossible to fuck without some form of lubrication.
Didn't you feel embarrassed about buying/using it?
Yes, definitely and I still kind of am. But it's been two years since I last used one, and honestly the day I've put my dick into one, I haven't looked back. I can't wait for the day to be able to use one again. I would buy again if I could - but it's something I would only do so if the circumstances are right. Currently an unemployedcel living with mom so don't have the opportunity to do so - my stuff gets checked every other day lol. When I bought one while at uni, I used Amazon locker so nobody knews where I lived as I ordered it. I wish there was a way to truly anonymize buying stuff online, but this is the closest you'll get I guess.
Which Fleshlight is better?
They were both unbelievably amazing. I would recommend both, but since its expensive, go for Stamina Training Unit if its your first time. The intensity on Stoya Destroya is the best you can get and will leave your dick feeling like a king. So I'm pretty certain you will end up buying another one after buying the STU and in terms of feeling the Stoya Destroya wins. But Fleshlight virgins are probably better off with STU first. Also, on a side note you need an average dick at least to feel the pleasure, so dickcels can gtfo and cope with something else.
Isn't it the same as masturbation/isn't a vagina better?
Firstly I can't say anything about experience compared to a vagina (obviously). But countless people have concurred that a fleshlight feels better than an actual vagina. Most people who say the "real thing" is better say all these kind of bullshit like 'its a hassle to clean up', you have a deep psychological connection and emotional feelings with a real girl blah, blah blah. If you're taking into account pure sexual gratification, then nothing beats a fleshlight - it specifically tailored for maximum pleasure.
As for using a hand, a fleshlight is a no brainer. The sensation you get from a fleshlight is unparalleled and this is a feeling even Chads will never experience.
Does it really feel better?
Yes, yes and fucking YES. It's like nerve ending on your dick is being caressed by a whole army of angels until you finally explode. If you edge your dick and resist the urge to cum a while (you need to be a pro for this), then you will ejaculate so intensely that even your mind will fizzle out for a few secs. The rest of your body will be in total and utter shock. I would sometimes almost fall over when cumming because I couldn't make myself stand.
What are the negatives?
As you can imagine, for the best experience you will need lube - a lot of it. Also, warming it up can be a headache, plus if your on a long teasing wank session it'll get cold by the end of it anyway. This can be quite expensive and time-consuming, but think about all the bullshit you've dodged all these years (flowers, chocolates, movies) that would've cost a fuck ton of more money and time.
Another constant issue is trying to position the fleshlight to a good position/angle while fucking it, you do NOT want to fuck it with your hand, just your body.
Did you watch porn while using the fleshlight?
This is very common. But I actually didn't the majority of the time. When I got the fleshlight initially, I did fuck it while watching porn - JOI videos (jerk off instructions) are very good for this. But later on I felt all exhibitionist and went on to do it online on places like chatroulette.
I didn't flash or show my dick, I just spammed 'wanna see me fuck a fleshlight?' every time a girl popped across my screen. I never showed my face (initially), but the response rate from this was usually 20% of girls were interested in seeing you fuck a fleshlight. I would then ask for girls to show tits so I get a boner and started fucking it. Only about half of that 20% would be interested, so 10% . Next I would ask them to show their ass/or face and I would cum for them. Again, only about half of the girls obliged at this stage (so 5%), if they showed face I would show mine also and would fuck the fleshlight while watching them play with there tits or ass. Some would even rub their clit and very rare occasions we cummed together. Bearing in mind the chances of seeing a girl on Chatroulette was and still is like 1 in 20, so the chances of this happening is rare, but I wouldn't stop until it happened. Some days I would be on chatroulette for hours and hours - up to 9 or 10 hours a day waiting for the right girl. Depends on how horny I was - and how much I wanted the girl to get freaky. The freakier I wanted them the harder they were to catch. Trying to find a girl who would show her face and cum with you was like once or twice a month.
Since Chatroulette have got rid of chat functions (over a year ago) and traffic on website has gone to shit, I can't/don't do this anymore. Literally hundreds of foids have seen my dick and watched me fuck. I used to feel insecure about my dick and face but it did give me a slight confidence boost, ngl.
Did it stop you from going out/studying/concentrating on other stuff?
Hard to tell. I bought it 2 years into my study so obviously wasn't going anywhere. Although I'm not awkward I'm an anti-socialcel who doesn't drink and didn't like the clubbing scene. My grades did drop off but whether the fleshlight was responsible I don't know. It depends more on you than the fleshlight. Obviously my life could've been more productive - especially given I spent hours on chatroulette looking for that hotspot. But same could be said currently - instead of fucking on cam, I spend all day on videogames, reddit and watching sports.
