Debunking the personality meme

[Deleted member 306]

Pesonality cannot be important in sexual attraction because it is not on constant display. Let me explain this. A couple has many silent moments. They don't talk to each other all the the time. When they drink coffee, when they are eating, when they are kissing, when they are having sex, they are not conversating. They are just acting on their instincts. The only thing holding them together in those moments is mutual physical attraction. No personality is involved during those moments.

And even when people are still dating and are not officially a couple most of the things they discuss are banal. There just talk about something before they go to fuck. Wether you have sex with a girl or not is decided in the first 5 seconds of meeting her. The rest is just formalities. Just lol at the personality meme. As I said, couples spend lots of moments where no sort of personality is presented. Looks are the only constant in relationships. They are always there no matter what the couple is doing.

Moreover, there is no scientific proof correlating female arousal with a man's personality. In fact, all scientific evidence shows that female arousal is strictly ascociated with looks. And it makes sense, cause men can fuck a girl regardless of personality if they are turned on by her nakedness. It would be naive to assume females have any sort of different behavior (well they kinda do since it's the face that turns them on  but that' still part of looks).

 

[Deleted member 56]

Exactly. As you said: They act on instinct. Back in our primal days we didn’t mate based on personalities. It was looks. We instinctively picked out the most attractive females and females instinctively picked out the best males. The best genes were able to be passed down. Personality is very much a bullshit concept because most all people are the same nowadays. Normies keep up with all the lates shows, songs, artists, etc. Trends form and everyone acts in line. Personalities rarely differ in today’s cucked society where acting out will get you expelled from the hive.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Exactly. As you said: They act on instinct. Back in our primal days we didn’t mate based on personalities. It was looks. We instinctively picked out the most attractive females and females instinctively picked out the best males. The best genes were able to be passed down. Personality is very much a bullshit concept because most all people are the same nowadays. Normies keep up with all the lates shows, songs, artists, etc. Trends form and everyone acts in line. Personalities rarely differ in today’s cucked society where acting out will get you expelled from the hive.

And tbh all sexually active people coincidentally are Normies and all of them happen to be socially integrated. Why? Because they pass the looks threshold.

 

[QuantumDummy]

This should be common sense, but normal people want to deny it.

 

[coldmachinery]

I'm more inclined to believe that women dehumanize sub 8 men to the point where they don't even have a soul to them. Just extras in their movie.

 

[Mr_Mercedes]

Tinder debunks the personality meme

The lack of a 'Personality version of Tinder' debunks it as well

Girls don't even have profiles on the app anymore, and if they do, it's the usual drivel:  foodie, travel, blah, blah, blah

 

[Deleted member 306]

This should be common sense, but normal people want to deny it.

Thye want to believe they possess individuality

 

[Mr_Mercedes]

And tbh all sexually active people coincidentally are Normies and all of them happen to be socially integrated. Why? Because they pass the looks threshold.

When a girl talks about the importance of personality, this is what she really means: "If you look just as good as this other set of guys, then I'm going to choose the one with the best personality."

That's it.  Personality cannot compensate for even half of a point on the looks-scale