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Venting Decided not to fuck an escort last second

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So here I was yesterday driving to this escorts house, it's like 20 minutes from where I live to finally finish this mental fuckery of being a virgin in 20 and on the way I don't know why but something snapped. Typed the escort to see if shes home and she said yes and just as I approached the street I changed my mind, not sure even why (felt like a combination of feeling cucked, not wanting to give the money to a bitch who doesn't deserve it, and even not wanting to dissapoint my parents was a thought that ran in my head back then :feelskek: )

Just messeged her I changed my mind with a laughing (((emoji))), bought a pack of cigs and just vibed on my way home and felt like I did the proper thing.

What are your thoughts on my autistic story? Cucked or based?
 
So here I was yesterday driving to this escorts house, it's like 20 minutes from where I live to finally finish this mental fuckery of being a virgin in 20 and on the way I don't know why but something snapped. Typed the escort to see if shes home and she said yes and just as I approached the street I changed my mind, not sure even why (felt like a combination of feeling cucked, not wanting to give the money to a bitch who doesn't deserve it, and even not wanting to dissapoint my parents was a thought that ran in my head back then :feelskek: )

Just messeged her I changed my mind with a laughing (((emoji))), bought a pack of cigs and just vibed on my way home and felt like I did the proper thing.

What are your thoughts on my autistic story? Cucked or based?
It's your money & you gotta decide if it's worth it, I say get rid of your virginity but if the whore is being disrespectful out the gate then bounce.

Don't worry about what your parents would think, they brought you in with no say so whatever.
 
Totally fine IMHO.
bought a pack of cigs
You should quit smoking.

I mean I get that you don't want to spend money to fuck a whore, but burning that money doesn't do you any good either.
 
You did good, dont give away your money to someone only because she has a vagina
 
You did good, dont give away your money to someone only because she has a vagina
It's not just because she has a vagina, it's also so she would let him put his dick into it.
 
Her pimp would have probably kidnapped you and then send pieces of you to your parents until they pay ransom.
 
Totally fine IMHO.

You should quit smoking.

I mean I get that you don't want to spend money to fuck a whore, but burning that money doesn't do you any good either.
Nah man I don't smoke that much, maybe a pack per two months.
Mostly use it to cool down and unwind sometimes and that's that
 
doesn't matter, it's over anyway. no matter what you do for the rest of your life, you will always be mentally crippled by lonely teen years
 
So here I was yesterday driving to this escorts house, it's like 20 minutes from where I live to finally finish this mental fuckery of being a virgin in 20 and on the way I don't know why but something snapped. Typed the escort to see if shes home and she said yes and just as I approached the street I changed my mind, not sure even why (felt like a combination of feeling cucked, not wanting to give the money to a bitch who doesn't deserve it, and even not wanting to dissapoint my parents was a thought that ran in my head back then :feelskek: )

Just messeged her I changed my mind with a laughing (((emoji))), bought a pack of cigs and just vibed on my way home and felt like I did the proper thing.

What are your thoughts on my autistic story? Cucked or based?
you did the right thing.

sex should mean something.

Having said that, if you ever become filthy rich, by all means fuck whores and snort coke off their asses. Hell, doing it this way is probably better than having a wife. It's practically free for you.
 
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You did good, dont give away your money to someone only because she has a vagina
I couldn't have said it better, only cucks give away money to femoids just for being a femoid.
 
I couldn't have said it better, only cucks give away money to femoids just for being a femoid.
The prices im seeing are just stupid and insane to pay for such an ugly cumdump. I'm still holding them off by just rubbing one out. I hope urges just go away.
 
sounds like you lost your nerve at the last moment
 
So here I was yesterday driving to this escorts house, it's like 20 minutes from where I live to finally finish this mental fuckery of being a virgin in 20 and on the way I don't know why but something snapped. Typed the escort to see if shes home and she said yes and just as I approached the street I changed my mind, not sure even why (felt like a combination of feeling cucked, not wanting to give the money to a bitch who doesn't deserve it, and even not wanting to dissapoint my parents was a thought that ran in my head back then :feelskek: )

Just messeged her I changed my mind with a laughing (((emoji))), bought a pack of cigs and just vibed on my way home and felt like I did the proper thing.

What are your thoughts on my autistic story? Cucked or based?
Probably dodged an std or 10
 
It really just sounded like you chickened out, but if you really aren't comfortable with it then don't
 
Congrats, you get to keep your V card!

Seriously though, why not get it out of the way? My virginity hung over me for far too long, glad i finally lost with it an escort and wish i'd done it sooner. I either have to pay for sex or go without and i'm happy to pay if it means i get to have my fun with something other than my hand.
 
So here I was yesterday driving to this escorts house, it's like 20 minutes from where I live to finally finish this mental fuckery of being a virgin in 20 and on the way I don't know why but something snapped. Typed the escort to see if shes home and she said yes and just as I approached the street I changed my mind, not sure even why (felt like a combination of feeling cucked, not wanting to give the money to a bitch who doesn't deserve it, and even not wanting to dissapoint my parents was a thought that ran in my head back then :feelskek: )

Just messeged her I changed my mind with a laughing (((emoji))), bought a pack of cigs and just vibed on my way home and felt like I did the proper thing.

What are your thoughts on my autistic story? Cucked or based?
Good story. Don't escortcel. Masturbate instead.
 
Typed the escort to see if shes home and she said yes and just as I approached the street I changed my mind, not sure even why (felt like a combination of feeling cucked, not wanting to give the money to a bitch who doesn't deserve it, and even not wanting to dissapoint my parents was a thought that ran in my head back then :feelskek: )

Just messeged her I changed my mind with a laughing (((emoji))), bought a pack of cigs and just vibed on my way home and felt like I did the proper thing.
@BlkPillPres :feelsseriously:
What are your thoughts on my autistic story? Cucked or based?
Neither just egotistical that’s all. I can’t wait to see you in the next thread moaning like a martyr.
 
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What are your thoughts on my autistic story? Cucked or based?
You are pathetic, you are the kind of guy who even if he was a normie, he'd just get married and be in an open relationship, you'd be be low tier male no matter what body you were born into, your mindset is pathetic and based on all the emotional garbage you were fed all your life (which you refuse to let go of)

felt like a combination of feeling cucked
Its only cucked to have a woman that you have claimed ownership of give sexual favors to another man, a whore is not "your woman", but you idiots are so obsessed with "having a GF" that you actually get attached to whores. Reminds me of that last thread where the guy says he only fucks one whore and they talk about her life, children, etc, you guys are just all round pathetic

not wanting to give the money to a bitch who doesn't deserve it
Please see my signature for a response addressing this bullshit, you are right that she doesn't deserve it, and that's because there's no such thing as "deserve", you don't deserve anything in life either, nobody DESERVES anything.

and even not wanting to dissapoint my parents was a thought that ran in my head back then
As if you aren't already a disappointment, this was the most retarded part of your post, its like you have no self awareness

Our son is an ugly, loser, genetic dead end................ but at least he hasn't paid for sex

My goodness your parents must be proud :feelskek:
 
You are pathetic, you are the kind of guy who even if he was a normie, he'd just get married and be in an open relationship, you'd be be low tier male no matter what body you were born into, your mindset is pathetic and based on all the emotional garbage you were fed all your life (which you refuse to let go of)
How come?
Its only cucked to have a woman that you have claimed ownership of give sexual favors to another man, a whore is not "your woman", but you idiots are so obsessed with "having a GF" that you actually get attached to whores. Reminds me of that last thread where the guy says he only fucks one whore and they talk about her life, children, etc, you guys are just all round pathetic
Nah man you are missing the point, it still feels cucked to PAY a woman (you could argue that you do that either way if you are a normie in a "relationship". I get what you are saying, but it just didn't feel right that day. Honestly since then (I think it's been already two weeks or something since then) I still don't get the urge to have sex so badly that I would be willing to waste cash on an escort
Please see my signature for a response addressing this bullshit, you are right that she doesn't deserve it, and that's because there's no such thing as "deserve", you don't deserve anything in life either, nobody DESERVES anything.
Fair enough.
As if you aren't already a disappointment, this was the most retarded part of your post, its like you have no self awareness

Our son is an ugly, loser, genetic dead end................ but at least he hasn't paid for sex

My goodness your parents must be proud :feelskek:
Oh boy trust me they are pretty proud.
I secured my financial future through going through a lot of shit while high school, and not only helping them financially but basically allowing myself to become NEET for the rest of my life 9 months from now after I finish my shitty military service.
Your parents (unless you have psychos for parents) are the only ones who will actually care about other things about you rather than just your looks.
My mom and dad are probably the only reason I still keep going anyway, so this part was the most idiotic thing out of your post
imo.
 
glad i finally lost with it an escort and wish i'd done it sooner
In what age?
I secured my financial future through going through a lot of shit while high school, and not only helping them financially but basically allowing myself to become NEET for the rest of my life 9 months from now after I finish my shitty military service.
How? So you are very young, if you are doing your mandatory military service now.
 
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You made the right choice.
 
How is that even possible? How old are you now?
37.

When I reached my early 30's desperation took hold, so i was left with a choice, either fuck an escort or remain a virgin. I think i made the right decision...
 
37.

When I reached my early 30's desperation took hold, so i was left with a choice, either fuck an escort or remain a virgin. I think i made the right decision...
I am now early 30's, but my desperation took hold years ago already.
 
I still don't get the urge to have sex so badly that I would be willing to waste cash on an escort

Then I guess you are going to be logically consistent, and never complain about not having sex from now on, right? :feelskek:

You guys just have a childish mindset and a martyr complex, you can't have it both ways, is it something you want or not

If it is, stop fucking complaining and accept the options available

If it isn't, stop fucking complaining and accept that you don't really want to have sex

But you can't have it both ways, that's just childish whining, that's just you refusing to accept reality, you either want something or you don't, saying "I want it, but I have to get it specifically this way that allows me to stroke my ego else its no good" is not a valid argument, because what that means is you don't really want it, you just want to be able to take pride in it

You guys never apply this logic to anything else in your life though, that's the funny part



In the past hunters took pride in their ability to kill their prey and feed their communities, as a modern man your pride is not staked in such things, you go to grocery stores and buy meat, and you don't "feel cucked" doing so, but I'd bet that if you took a man from that era and placed him in ours, he'd be glad for the convenience, but buying meat rather than hunting for it would somewhat make him question his manhood, it would feel weird to him, and that's because he was raised in an era in which his ego revolves around his ability to provide food for himself and others through hunting

In fact that's the reason why hunting is still a "sport" today, its about testing your masculinity, a lot of men today still stake their pride in this act

Today, we live in an era in which a man's ego is staked on his ability to "get laid" (be desired by women) rather than "pay for sex" (ironically in the past paying for sex was a norm with little to no shame associated with it, everything has reversed)

In other words, your mindset is primitive, you are unable to see that what is the "ego status" of today is nothing tomorrow, and one day paying for sex will be something so normal, no man would even be having the thoughts you do about it, it would be like buying food

So why are you taking on the mindset of a normie male, unable to think outside the box, unable to operate outside his own ego, and ironically you'll be calling yourself "black pilled" in other threads and saying that blue pilled males are unable to think for themselves, but the truth is, the majority of users on this forum are just failed normies, you have a normie mindset, you just happen to be ugly.
 
Pretty based. Preserving self-worth is always important.
 
You should of escortceled, you would be able to backshot the fuck out, slap her with your cock, and explode your seed on her face, and just knowing that she hated every second of it is worth giving her some jewbucks. You could always make more money she will never get over fucking a subhuman.
 
You should of escortceled, you would be able to backshot the fuck out, slap her with your cock, and explode your seed on her face, and just knowing that she hated every second of it is worth giving her some jewbucks. You could always make more money she will never get over fucking a subhuman.
Good convicing.
Then I guess you are going to be logically consistent, and never complain about not having sex from now on, right? :feelskek:

You guys just have a childish mindset and a martyr complex, you can't have it both ways, is it something you want or not

If it is, stop fucking complaining and accept the options available

If it isn't, stop fucking complaining and accept that you don't really want to have sex

But you can't have it both ways, that's just childish whining, that's just you refusing to accept reality, you either want something or you don't, saying "I want it, but I have to get it specifically this way that allows me to stroke my ego else its no good" is not a valid argument, because what that means is you don't really want it, you just want to be able to take pride in it

You guys never apply this logic to anything else in your life though, that's the funny part



In the past hunters took pride in their ability to kill their prey and feed their communities, as a modern man your pride is not staked in such things, you go to grocery stores and buy meat, and you don't "feel cucked" doing so, but I'd bet that if you took a man from that era and placed him in ours, he'd be glad for the convenience, but buying meat rather than hunting for it would somewhat make him question his manhood, it would feel weird to him, and that's because he was raised in an era in which his ego revolves around his ability to provide food for himself and others through hunting

In fact that's the reason why hunting is still a "sport" today, its about testing your masculinity, a lot of men today still stake their pride in this act

Today, we live in an era in which a man's ego is staked on his ability to "get laid" (be desired by women) rather than "pay for sex" (ironically in the past paying for sex was a norm with little to no shame associated with it, everything has reversed)

In other words, your mindset is primitive, you are unable to see that what is the "ego status" of today is nothing tomorrow, and one day paying for sex will be something so normal, no man would even be having the thoughts you do about it, it would be like buying food

So why are you taking on the mindset of a normie male, unable to think outside the box, unable to operate outside his own ego, and ironically you'll be calling yourself "black pilled" in other threads and saying that blue pilled males are unable to think for themselves, but the truth is, the majority of users on this forum are just failed normies, you have a normie mindset, you just happen to be ugly.
Nice motivation man.
 
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Escorts would only be worth it if you can afford to hire them for an entire night and they do the "girlfriend experience" thing.

I was looking around on London escort websites and such an arrangement costs around £2000-2500 ($2800-3500)
 
Escorts would only be worth it if you can afford to hire them for an entire night and they do the "girlfriend experience" thing.

I was looking around on London escort websites and such an arrangement costs around £2000-2500 ($2800-3500)
Its incredibly infuriating how escorts can earn so much money by just being women.
 
Her pimp would have probably kidnapped you and then send pieces of you to your parents until they pay ransom.
:feelskek: :feelskek:
Escorts would only be worth it if you can afford to hire them for an entire night and they do the "girlfriend experience" thing.

I was looking around on London escort websites and such an arrangement costs around £2000-2500 ($2800-3500)
I paid $100 in the US for 30 minutes with an escort
 
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Lol if you went as far as driving up to her place, you’ll end up escortcelling at some stage anyway.
Think back to when you really wanted to fap but decided to go out for a jog or something instead.
Did the need to want to fap go away? No, it just came back later.
Having sex, even paid sex, is better for you than smoking btw
 
Then I guess you are going to be logically consistent, and never complain about not having sex from now on, right? :feelskek:

You guys just have a childish mindset and a martyr complex, you can't have it both ways, is it something you want or not

If it is, stop fucking complaining and accept the options available

If it isn't, stop fucking complaining and accept that you don't really want to have sex
Some people want to have sex, but only with a woman who likes them back. And who enjoys the sex with them. Paid sex cannot substitute satisfactorily for real girlfriend sex.
 
Some people want to have sex, but only with a woman who likes them back. And who enjoys the sex with them. Paid sex cannot substitute satisfactorily for real girlfriend sex.

Yes and some children want the double chocolate fudge flavor when mom and pop takes them to the ice cream shop, they can either throw a tantrum and refuse to eat any, and pout, because there's only vanilla flavor, or they can simply just eat vanilla and be glad they even get to eat some ice cream

Like I said, your mindset is childish

For guys who claim to believe in the "black pill" and to understand "harsh realities", you guys don't seem to grasp the simple concept of "playing with the cards you have"

Life is not about what you want, life is about what you can get, if you spend your entire life chasing wants, you'll end up with nothing, and that goes double for low tier males

Now if you want to choose nothing, ok great, fuck yourself over then lol, but don't complain about it afterwards like it wasn't your choice, talking all this "woe is me" shit in other threads as if you aren't denying yourself other options
 
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Yes and some children want the double chocolate fudge flavor when mom and pop takes them to the ice cream shop, they can either throw a tantrum and refuse to eat any, and pout, because there's only vanilla flavor, or they can simply just eat vanilla and be glad they even get to eat some ice cream

Like I said, your mindset is childish

For guys who claim to believe in the "black pill" and to understand "harsh realities", you guys don't seem to grasp the simple concept of "playing with the cards you have"

Life is not about what you want, life is about what you can get, if you spend your entire life chasing wants, you'll end up with nothing, and that goes double for low tier males

Now if you want to choose nothing, ok great, fuck yourself over then lol, but don't complain about it afterwards like it wasn't your choice, talking all this "woe is me" shit in other threads as if you aren't denying yourself other options
There are two schools of thought: one thinks like you, the other thinks that paying to have sex is not even real sex (or sex worth having), but assisted masturbation.
 
the other thinks that paying to have sex is not even real sex (or sex worth having), but assisted masturbation.

1. Isn't sex "worth having"?, that's based on opinion, I'll let you have that, it may not be "worth having" to you, but I doubt that decision is based on any objective reasoning

BUT AGAIN, if you don't think its worth it, then you should never complain about not having sex then

It makes no sense (its illogical) to complain about lacking something, but YOU REFUSE every alternative to gain access to it because that alternative "is not worth it" (doesn't stroke your ego)

You either want something or you don't, you can't have it both ways

If someone wants to be rich (and I mean really want it), they'll be willing to kill for it just as much as they are willing to "earn" it "legally"

I'd argue if you aren't willing to go to extremes to get something you don't really want it at all, what you want is the gratification that comes with the attainment of that thing, rather than the thing itself



2. The other parts about it not being "real sex" or being "assisted masturbation"

:feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:

Like come on dude, aren't incels supposed to be the logical ones here, that's what worries me about you guys, you will always call normies illogical but you do the same shit

Define "real sex"?

Saying sex isn't real because one participant was paid is like saying hitmen (contract killers) don't "really" murder people because they were paid to do it

What makes an act real IS THE ACT ITSELF (AND THE END RESULT), NOT WHETHER SOMEONE WAS PAID TO DO IT

So if one engages in sexual intercourse (the act itself) and they have an orgasm (the end result), then that act (sex) "really" did take place

You really just using mental gymnastics right now to justify your childishness, you are making up personal definitions, last time I checked, what makes masturbation what it is, is the fact that you are doing it to yourself rather than doing it to someone else

You have to see how retarded it is to argue that a woman deepthroating you for $50 is "assisted masturbation", this just sounds like self delusion, like you are lying to yourself and downplaying the act so you don't feel like you are "missing out"
 
Give it up @BlkPillPres , we've agreed that escorts are not a valid way out of inceldom. Just because you have a lizard brain and can't understand the need for affection and validation doesn't mean the rest of us aren't human.
You think fucking whores is all you need, fine but why are you here? You should be earning money for whores and you're not going to do that rotting with us here.
 
I’ve done this a couple of times now I some times search up listings just to see and fantasize. But I always decide it’s not worth it anyways and give up cause I’m too lazy.
I’ve done this a couple of times now I some times search up listings just to see and fantasize. But I always decide it’s not worth it anyways and give up cause I’m too lazy.
I’ve done this a couple of times now I some times search up listings just to see and fantasize. But I always decide it’s not worth it anyways and give up cause I’m too lazy.
 

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