With all due respect, my feeling is those statements are based on sensational circumstances and eccentric articles on the net, yes there is truth to it but a lot of Incels pushes those narratives in way that are not tied to reality.
The rape thing is a FANTASY and only that.
Yes girls might dream and fantasize about being ''raped'' by a dominant assertive attractive male, but as such, they like it to be a fantasy where they still mostly feel ''safe''. Hence why its called rape play.
Its just like BDSM, its basically sex acts based on physical pain, violence and torture, that does not mean women, from day to day enjoy being physically assaulted. Its also why they have ''safe words'' so they can stop whenever they feel uncomfortable.
I think one of the things foids hate the most about rape done outside of that controlled environment with safe words you described is the fact they have no control over how it happens indeed. Pretty much all power females have (which is a shitload of it) comes from their sexuality and the manipulations they do using it, so rape is pretty much a big "fuck you" shouted to their faces, stripping them of all that power instantly.
Also, even though most foids would prefer to engage in forced sex with Chad in a safe environment with a safe word and all that, it's naive to think their desire for things like "rapeplay", submission and pain doesn't stem for an overall characteristic of their brains, which is, THEY ENJOY RAPE, PAIN AND BEING FORCED. It's not like they would suddenly not enjoy it anymore if there was no safeword stuff anymore, the pleasure would just get mixed with fear, but would still exist. I can tell you with 100% certainty that I would experience no pleasure whatsoever from being raped by a man, can a foid tell you that? A: no.
Summing things up, of course foids want to have a cake and eat it too, but it doesn't mean they wouldn't enjoy just eating it, so to speak. It would just get mixed with other feelings, which is natural.
Some Incels here genuinely think an attractive guy can jump onto a women walking by, strip off her clothes and forcefully engage in sexual acts because she will enjoy it. That is nonsense.
Rape are fantasy for women.
I'm 100% sure the overwhelming majority of women would have the orgasm of their lives if a Chad raped them like that. But such intense pleasure would be accompanied by things like fear, guilt, cultural repulsiveness to rape, and what I described about being stripped of their power, etc, causing cognitive dissonance. Also, such cognitive dissonance also happens in "safe" rape "play" anyway. Haven't you heard about pornstars who cry after a scene, foids who feel like shit after engaging in such humiliation/rape sex, etc? It's very telling that the foids who have the least amounts of self-esteem are the ones who are into rape"play" and being degradaded the most.
Nonsense again, with all due respect. I will not even talk about the psychological consequences outcoming with that mentality but go read about young girls who conceive baby at a young age.
Some women have their first period at the age of 12, sometimes even younger (extreme cases may arise at even 5-6 year old).
Women who give birth before 16 often have a fuckload of pregnancy complications, often resort to C-Section when giving birth, damaged painful cervical areas and often have their genital function permanently damaged, making them sterile.
There are tons of research and articles on that.
I grew up in a family of 4 women (mostly conservative and traditional thank god) so I know how their bodies develop and what they can endure during their teenage years.
I had my sisters having their first periods around 9 and 10. The idea that they were fit for sex and pregnancy by those ages is COMPLETELY ABSURD. They were still little kids who spent their time watching Pokemon and playing dress up games online.
When you say stuff like that, it mostly shows that you have no idea of what you're talking about and have probably never been too much around females.
If people were overly concerned about young pregnancies, they'd be telling young foids not to fuck at all, not pushing agecuckoldry and outlawing young marriage. Young teen guys can impregnate young teen girls just the same as adult guys. Here in Brazil, plenty of foids get pregnant at 12, 13, etc in the favelas. In the vast majority of cases, by young teens like themselves, to whom they aren't married, of course.
Bodily development varies wildly from girl to girl, some girls are already super developed at 12, some are still skinny and narrow-hipped at 18. If you think your wife is still not prepared for a pregnancy yet, just wait. Marriage is supposed to be for life anyway and sex isn't just vaginal penetration. But if she's post-puberty, she does have a libido and such libido should be used with her husband, not with random hookups.
I'm not saying all foids should absolutely be married at day one of puberty, but once they hit puberty, the clock is ticking and they won't be able to hold it much time before fornicating if they're not married. Especially in a degenerated, gynocentric, harem society like ours.
To close this already long post, I feel like it's very pertinent to add that though it's biologically natural that women have sexually masochist/submissive tendencies and men have sexually sadistic/dominant tendencies, I think it ideally should be curbed to an extent, just like we curb our sugar ingestion and stuff like that. In the bible, we are told to:
1 Thessalonians 4 KJV:
1 Furthermore then we beseech you, brethren, and exhort you by the Lord Jesus, that as ye have received of us how ye ought to walk and to please God, so ye would abound more and more.
2 For ye know what commandments we gave you by the Lord Jesus.
3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
4 That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour:
5 Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God:
6 That no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified.
7 For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness.
8 He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.
9 But as touching brotherly love ye need not that I write unto you: for ye yourselves are taught of God to love one another.
I don't think a married couple is limited to vaginal penetration with the intent of having a baby only, of course, but I also don't think extreme BDSM and rape"play" are healthy (though they can be pleasurable of course).