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AMOR FATI
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I honestly believe that having helicopter parents is an even bigger hurdle to tackle when you are growing up than any sort of poverty or traumatic situation. They stunt any sort of social milestones that naturally occur during adolescence and get in the way of any sort of ascension even if that is possible during teenage years. One example is that my parents refused me to hang out with this one guy and his friendgroup when I was 14 because they were "urban exploring" (look up this term if you are not familiar) another example is that my parents refused me to hang out with this other guy in highschool when they found out he smoked weed. They constantly said things like "thats too dangerous" and acted as if im a 6 year old girl during my teenage years. Im not a teenager anymore but I bet if I did not grow up under extreme social scrutiny as a child and adolescence I would not be as high inhib as I am now. Any other helicoptercels can relate?