It's Over Did your parents beat you as a kid? I think its why Im high inhib

[Total Imbecile]

My mom especially would get fed up with me and just straight up beat me or threaten to beat me for basically everything

I remember once drawing on walls, I wasnt even in elementary yet but I remember it because it was scary as fuck when she blew up at me

In middle shcool Id get grounded from everything like if she heard about me hanging out with or talking to this one guy in my class who was a bad student (he has a gf now, I dont, lol so much for me getting good grades and being a model student, how absolutely pointless)

Over the years to avoid getting into trouble I just kind of stopped doing things and taking risks, ended up retreating online where I could do whatever the fuck I wanted without getting punished

This stopped this around my second year of high school but it was too late by that point tbh

Im risk averse as fuck and scared of everything and I think its cause of my mom

Anyone else w/ similar experience?

 

[imsorry]

No but she definitely instilled fear into me, she would punish me psychologically.

 

[Total Imbecile]

No but she definitely instilled fear into me, she would punish me psychologically.

Same shit tbh

She only has to beat you once and then threaten you every time you do something "wrong" for it to be extremelly traumatic

 

[Over_this_Life]

Yeah my mom used to beat the shit out of me with a belt

 

[trying to ascend]

Sometimes, but wasn't nothing strong.

But I need to admit, I was a really annyoing kid, I really deserved some of these punishiments

 

[imsorry]

Same shit tbh

She only has to beat you once and then threaten you every time you do something "wrong" for it to be extremelly traumatic

Mine was overprotective helicopter single smother, i wasn't allowed to do sports, never fit in with other boys. She though of sex as something a criminal would do. Sex = bad.
Basically just ruin your life with having kids (sex) and then start screaming like a psycho if you find word sex in google search engine history. She did everything so she could reap off the fruits like: he will study hard, i will be able to boast to others how successful and rich my child is.. well guess what i'm on the verge of dropping out i failed to write my fucking thesis, now i have to redo 1 year and i haven't written shit.
Parents are selfish they only see you as an extension of themselves, you are not a feeling human, you are someone who can be exploited for their benefit. Ask your self this question and view it from your parents' perspective: "What is the advantage to give my child everything (if i cuck my child out of every pleasure = he will be strong, he faced hardships, a real man teehee)?" No advantage for them to see us happy.

 

[Caesercel]

Yes she did. You have no idea. I would dare say no one on this forum had it worse than me in that aspect.

 

[Deleted member 28903]

Everyone's parents in every generation boomers and earlier beat them, and people are way more high inhib now than they were then.

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

Interesting, my mom used to be controling in that regard as well. (but never cared in other stuff, just as you described inyour other thread.


Beaten up? Not really, but may dad cornered me and raised his hand. A few times he strangled me then and one time he hit me.

Idk, if this counts.

 

[VindalooCell]

Mine was overprotective helicopter single smother, i wasn't allowed to do sports, never fit in with other boys. She though of sex as something a criminal would do. Sex = bad.
Basically just ruin your life with having kids (sex) and then start screaming like a psycho if you find word sex in google search engine history. She did everything so she could reap off the fruits like: he will study hard, i will be able to boast to others how successful and rich my child is.. well guess what i'm on the verge of dropping out i failed to write my fucking thesis, now i have to redo 1 year and i haven't written shit.
Parents are selfish they only see you as an extension of themselves, you are not a feeling human, you are someone who can be exploited for their benefit. Ask your self this question and view it from your parents' perspective: "What is the advantage to give my child everything (if i cuck my child out of every pleasure = he will be strong, he faced hardships, a real man teehee)?" No advantage for them to see us happy.

Same, although my mother was more subtle in doing it. We would often see "chavs" when walking late at night, these teenagers would be drinking and she would always make negative remarks about them. She would also talk about how the West is immoral for having this hookup culture where the girl is with one boy one week and another the next. Although the last part is pretty true, these things made me extremely averse to socialising with girls.

 

[andinocel]

Yes, I would get the shit beat out of me by both parents; sometimes bloody. They really deserved to be arrested.

Reasons for the beatings were not doing my homework, accidently breaking things, or not wanting to go to church. On more than one occasion, my father beat me in public, and no one intervened. Those were beatings that left me in pain and/or occasionally bloody; I'm not including the almost daily occurrences of getting smacked on the side of my head or have objects thrown at me for inane, stupid things (interrupting an adult, forgetting to turn off a light, losing a clothing item, etc)

 

[Deleted member 30682]

My father was the one beating me but not very often and he always did it for good reasons ngl. My mother hit me a bunch of times but she always preferred psychological abuse. I remember once she took my pants off and made me sit on a tall chair next to the window as punishment. I was crying in shame and trying to cover my parts with my t-shirt. I think she got the idea from our neighbors who used to force their son to walk on the street without pants sometimes when he stole shit.

But tbh my parents never went over the top abusing me or anything, they weren't bad parents in that regard.

 

[Deleted member 31641]

My mother is bipolar so she just fucking attacked me for the slightest mistakes i made and her cuck bf did nothing so yeah, but this kinda made me a bit unphased by punches and kicks, but also made me a submissive bitch

 

[Deleted member 10124]

Yes. Can relate.

 

[Tenshi]

they did but I'd say it was more the emotional abuse who did the job of turning me awkward and shy

 

[Speed]

Yes my mom's a bitch. Bi-polar, and schizo and beat the shit out of me for the smallest offenses because that's how her mother raised her, and in turn how her mother raised her. Didn't really start questioning her mental health until I started getting older. Now she believes she's being gang-stalked and everything. Its luncacy. I thought this was kind of normal growing up, but looking back no doubt it did irreparable psychological damage to me.

I can only recall maybe a handful of times my dad ever got mad at me, and one time where he whooped me, and it was always because I deserved it. He's pretty chill NGL.

 

[PHp]

Everyone's parents in every generation boomers and earlier beat them, and people are way more high inhib now than they were then.

Yeah, I think getting beat when we were kids is another reason for our high inhib, but not the main one, by far. By being ugly or subhuman we are naturally discouraged by the world, by how people treat us, to be outgoing.

You guys have all seen it before, if Chad hits on a girl he is an alpha, or has attitude or any shit like that, if we subhumans do it we are creeps or pervs. It also happens with stuff that we do alone most of the times, if Chad plays games, "oh wow he is such a geek teehee I wanna suck his dick", if we do it we are a bunch of creepy manchild virgins. Hell, they don't want us to be outgoing but we can't even mind our own business, if Chad is timid: "oh he is so shy, so cute! I want his cock inside of me". If we are timid we are, again, creepy weirdos. JFL we just can't win, and it only gets worse if you're a mentalcel and voicelet as well.

 

[Pitar62]

I remember once drawing on walls, I wasnt even in elementary yet but I remember it because it was scary as fuck when she blew up at me

SAME MAN. I was drawing on walls and my mother took my crayons and threw them in the fire. They were also brand new and I was really excited about them. I will never forget that moment.
JFL at all spoiled kids now who get everything and they don't even appreciate it. And most of them draw on walls too, literally. Their walls are full of drawings.

 

[Blackcel rigth wing]

Yes this apply especially to ethnicels. Black parents beat the shit out of their children. My grandma beat when I tried running away from her abuse. When she was done beating and dragging me she locked me in a room so i never really interacted with anyone but myself regularly. My mom also beat and stopped when I was around 16 years old. I’ve been abused for most of my childhood and teenage years physically and mentally. I barely had clothes too. I don’t want to go in further much detail.

 

[Deleted member 17889]

meh, sometimes

thanks to that i'm not a faggot soyboy

 

[Edmund_Kemper]

my mom infantilized me during my life. didn't do it to my siblings. so my siblings grew up easily while i'm 23 and mentally 15

 

[TINMAN]

It will definitely do that. My childhood was similar.

 

[Sennacherib]

Did your parents beat you as a kid?​

Many,many times,in particular my ''mother''.She used to whip me with a hazel switch till i couldn't sit down.
The worst thing wasn't the whipping though,it was the fact the she used to call me names like retard and the likes.
And this shit was happening when i 6 or 7.
My father only beat me once iirc with his belt when i was older and it wasn't really painful,maybe it's because i got toughened after all the shit my ''mother'' put me through when i was younger.

 

[Deleted member 32255]

yeah, my mom beat me up quite often for stupid shit in my formative years but as i got older she did it less. she's a nut who has absence seizures and ocd. she also controlled my social life, basically didn't want me making friends. i think that's why i'm such a high inhib fag, i was scared and shy and almost never happy during my upbringing

 

[erenyeager]

God we really are the eldians. We are kept inside theses “walls” and these forums as “birdcages” and the entire world sees us as a “forum of devils” instead of an island of devils...

 

[Saigon Depression]

Yes, often in front of other people. They also liked to humiliate me publicly
They are terrible parents, ugly disgusting humanoids with fucked up genetics, helicopter personalities, etc.

They got their punishments though.
All of their children are fucked up in some way, nobody more though than me.