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Theory Do we even want sex?

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Why do women want wide shoulders, chiseled jaws and muscles? Because they are a sign of high testosterone. High T = High sex drive. In other words, women are attracted to men with high sex drives. That can only mean that incels are men who have a very low sex drive. So why do we lament about something that we do not actually want? Just look at all the incels visiting prostitutes and not being able to get erections. I personally believe that if you want something really bad you will eventually get it. I think we are only brainwashed into thinking we want sex because of porn, societal pressure, and stigma against virginity, and sexualized culture that where sex is used in commercials, films etc...
 
i read title
AND YES I DO WANT TO HAVE SEX
 
My mind sometimes says no, but my pipi always says YES.
 
im also high testosterone but i have autism
 
we want sex because of porn, societal pressure, and stigma against virginity, and sexualized culture that where sex is used in commercials, films etc...
Yes bro, bonner is just a social construction, not a natural sexual desire
 
If we didn't we wouldn't be having this conversation on this very forum now, would we?
 
incels are men who have a very low sex drive
you need to cut off your bals or something to not want sex, just being ugly isn't enough
Just look at all the incels visiting prostitutes and not being able to get erections.
that's because their brains are wired to get hard from porn instead of real stuff, normies also have trouble the first time because of nervousness and stuff
 
if you want something really bad you will eventually get it.
Just go out and r@pe foids bro!
I think we are only brainwashed into thinking we want sex because of porn, societal pressure, and stigma against virginity, and sexualized culture that where sex is used in commercials, films etc...
Just ignore your biology bro, sex is no need and overrated :soy: :bluepill: :feelsohh::feelstastyman:
 
you've been socialised to contain your desires as a ugly man, my soshoku danshi friend
 
i know a lot of guys are unhealthy and have dick or sex drive problems, probably because of vices like smoking and alcohol, but i never had that problem
 
Have you measured your testosterone levels? Mine are around 9 nmol/L(or 280 ng/dl) which is a level of a 70 year old man.
i'm horny all the time so yeah.
but tbh, it could indeed be that you have a temporally low sex drive. but that could be because your nutrition or stress levels.
if somebody is asexual, something is wrong with their health, change my mind
i know a lot of guys are unhealthy and have dick or sex drive problems, probably because of vices like smoking and alcohol, but i never had that problem
 
i'm horny all the time so yeah.
but tbh, it could indeed be that you have a temporally low sex drive. but that could be because your nutrition or stress levels.
if somebody is asexual, something is wrong with their health, change my mind
You are probably horny because of porn. It fucks up your brain. If you were really horny you would probably jump on the first girl that says "Hi" to you. Just check your levels, and you will see that I am right.
 
i did some blood screening once and i checked rn but testosterone levels were not included.
You are probably horny because of porn. It fucks up your brain.
i 100% agree that porn can mess with ur brain
but that doesnt mean im not horny without porn
i always try to see a foids panties when i see one in a skirt in real life, and i have no problem fapping without
 
I would like to have sex with a virgin I'm not asking much tbh
 
I think we are only brainwashed into thinking we want sex because of porn

Nobody is forced to watch porn. Young men are attracted to it because it depicts an act they would really, really want to perform. Merely watching it causes arousal, because it tricks our brains into thinking the real deal is just about to happen (obviously it's not).

Just because we're low T doesn't mean we have no sexual desire. That desire is just not strong enough to elicit a sexually successful behavior (assuming the :redpill: is not entirely BS).

Otherwise, women would have very little sex-drive since they have very little T. Obviously they do have a sex drive. Saying that sexual desire is just about testosterone sounds like a gross oversimplification, IMHO.

That being said, if we didn't know what sex is, that is if porn didn't exist and if we lived in a world where sex is taboo, we would probably be blissfully ignorant and not having sex would not be a problem.

It's the curse of the forbidden knowledge, and no, you can't just forget about sex or pretend you don't want it. It doesn't work that way.

Once the fruit has been eaten, it's too late.


Perhaps a more accurate comparison is with that famous monkey experiment I like to mention from times to times :


View: https://youtu.be/-KSryJXDpZo

People usually say this experiment is about fairness, and I suppose to a degree it is, but I think it's also about envy and frustration.

You see, the monkey was initially totally fine with getting just cucumbers, until he saw the other monkey getting grapes. That infuriated him. Watching people having sex when we don't get any does something similar to us. We would be better off not seeing it at all, and even not even knowing it exist, and that's why people don't walk around naked or fuck in the streets. Sex is supposed to be taboo.
 
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No, why would I want to be humiliated because of my dick. I'd rather be sexless
 
>I personally believe that if you want something really bad you will eventually get it.

so retarded, infiltrators are getting dumber and dumber
 
I want interaction.
 
>I personally believe that if you want something really bad you will eventually get it.

so retarded, infiltrators are getting dumber and dumber
Well when talking about sex specifically, OP kinda has a point, just maybe not in precisely the manner he intended. Chances are that if you want sex bad enough, then you'll probably eventually get it, at least if it's a possibility for you at all. Personally I suspect a lot of men here don't really get too hung up on a lack of sex, but rather women simply not wanting them. The physical act isn't the goal for them, it serves as a confirmation of attraction and approval, which is what they truly want.
 
Death would be nice I guess
 
You can have low testosterone levels and still have a properly functioning sex drive.
 
I have a high sex drive, so speak for yourself, but I did read a quote/premise somewhere that I think is true for a lot of people including us even with high sex drives:

Many people would rather be seen as fuckable than actual do the fucking. Being seen as fuckable is validation, but sometimes the sex act itself is take it or leave it. I bet a lot of guys here, if they could manage to pull it off, would rather improve to the point they could turn down sex with attractive foids, rather than actual have it. Think about it, it's possible to get off more by being chosen as worthy of fucks and then not giving any.
 
Why do women want wide shoulders, chiseled jaws and muscles? Because they are a sign of high testosterone. High T = High sex drive. In other words, women are attracted to men with high sex drives. That can only mean that incels are men who have a very low sex drive. So why do we lament about something that we do not actually want? Just look at all the incels visiting prostitutes and not being able to get erections. I personally believe that if you want something really bad you will eventually get it. I think we are only brainwashed into thinking we want sex because of porn, societal pressure, and stigma against virginity, and sexualized culture that where sex is used in commercials, films etc...
what the fuck are you talking about. I'm a framelet and I jack off constantly even as I push 40. My testosterone was also tested to be 770 which is above average for my age. (and I jacked off right before they tested too)
 
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If I didn't, I wouldn't pay for it.

But we want more than just sex -- we want the dignity that every non-subhuman has.
 
he's obvious troll, idk why forum's members are low IQ?!
 
Tbh I just want to wear other people's skin.
 
You see, the monkey was initially totally fine with getting just cucumbers, until he saw the other monkey getting grapes. That infuriated him. Watching people having sex when we don't get any does something similar to us. We would be better off not seeing it at all, and even not even knowing it exist, and that's why people don't walk around naked or fuck in the streets. Sex is supposed to be taboo.
Brilliant post.
 
Why do women want wide shoulders, chiseled jaws and muscles? Because they are a sign of high testosterone. High T = High sex drive. In other words, women are attracted to men with high sex drives. That can only mean that incels are men who have a very low sex drive. So why do we lament about something that we do not actually want? Just look at all the incels visiting prostitutes and not being able to get erections. I personally believe that if you want something really bad you will eventually get it. I think we are only brainwashed into thinking we want sex because of porn, societal pressure, and stigma against virginity, and sexualized culture that where sex is used in commercials, films etc...
I'm fine with fapping tho.
 
Brilliant post.
Thanks but I'd like to add that I don't advocate for making sex taboo again. I hate secrets and I think a sexually liberal society can absolutely be fully functional, provided some mitigation measures like prostitution exist, and that the upbringing of bastards is not socialized (I know it's harsh but there's no way around it).
 
No I dont, but my brain punishes me for not having sex.
 

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