Yeah, but what is common today, and was uncommon in the past, was for a man's desire
FOR FEMALE ATTRACTION to exceed his desire
FOR A FEMALE
All these things that you guys act like was always the norm clearly wasn't
It wasn't always a norm for men to get down on one knee to propose, it wasn't always a norm for men to basically chase women and beg them for companionship, it wasn't always a norm for men to chase the concept of "love"
Marriages of the past had more to do with political reasons or a man simply wanting to have children and carry on his lineage, there wasn't this big hang up on "love", I've made a thread about this very thing:
I seriously think this mindset I see so many men expressing is due to socializing, masculinity itself has been feminized, and that's the trick of it all, all men are going around telling themselves - "this is what a man wants" based on the standard of masculinity they were raised and socialized...
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The extreme desire men today show for "love"
IS SOCIALIZED NOT BIOLOGICAL
Raping, kidnapping women and making them your wife, making the women of pillaged towns wives, etc
WAS A NORM FOR MEN OF THE PAST, where did all their love craving went in those eras.......... exactly, it didn't exist, because these men were not socialized to value these concepts
So whenever I see one of you guys say - "its natural for me to want this and refuse any other alternative"
I CALL BS
The men of way back when didn't give a fuck about what the men today do when it comes to women, they'd have no problem paying for sex or even taking a woman by force, men today have mentally cucked themselves with blue pilled moral restrictions, and ironically incels by majority have done this to themselves
Think of the arranged marriage practices of certain cultures that still exist today, that was a fucking norm, love wasn't something to "fell into", "loving someone" was something
YOU LEARNT TO DO
YOU LEARNED TO LOVE SOMEONE
ITS A COMMITMENT NOT A FEEL
IT WAS MORE OF A CONTRACTUAL AGREEMENT IN THE PAST WHILE TODAY ITS JUST CODE FOR FEELINGS OF LUST