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Do you feel like you're wasting your life and your youth?

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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I'm in a weird position. On one hand, I've evaluated my life. I don't like or want anything in life, there's nothing I really enjoy. All I can do and really all I want to do is lay in bed with my laptop as much as possible, not bothered by anyone, living at home with my cat and my parents, with the nuisance and downside of working this job to survive. It's an easy life with little stress. And that's exactly what I'm doing.

But on the other hand, I can't help but get these moments of great panic with constant anxiety every single day, feeling that I'm growing old, that I've missed out on so many things during my youth, that I won't get those years back.

It's not like I would've done anything different, this is who I am, this is what I prefer: doing nothing. There's nothing better for me to do, there's nothing that I want to do in life, and yet I can't stop the worrying. I don't know what it is, I consciously analyzed everything and I'm not really missing out on anything since this is who I am, a recluse and a hermit. And yet I'm stressed as hell. I guess it's my biological clock, my genes screaming for me to have some contact with a female, despite my mind hating the whole lot of the, the fucking cunts.

Do you feel like you've wasted your youth and wasting your life?
 
Wasted everything blet
 
I already am wasting my youth and life and even if I didn't waste it now, I would of wasted it as soon as I got older. Might as well accelerate the process.
 
I played way to many videos games when I was in my teens (literally every waking moment playing WoW), I regret not doing something else and just saving vidya for when I'm old and can't walk.
 
One thing is sure, there is something deeply wrong with us.

It's really like sitting on the fence your whole life. Maybe not that dissimiliar to the problems a genuin transperson faces. Something does not match up in our biological code.

I really see only one chance at this point, that is Jewpills push me fully to either one or the other side of said fence.
 
Wasted my teens and early 20s.
 
Not completely, but mostly, yes. Most people definitely don't reach anywhere near their potential.
 
nah, i'm decisively wasting my life despite experimenting with like 3 sources of income and having moved out almost a decade ago. nobody cares and neither do I care about all that.

there's no way you aren't "wasting your life" if you get 0 female action and are no closer to marriage with a decent woman than you were, say, at age 13.
 
nah, i'm decisively wasting my life despite experimenting with like 3 sources of income and having moved out almost a decade ago. nobody cares and neither do I care about all that.

there's no way you aren't "wasting your life" if you get 0 female action and are no closer to marriage with a decent woman than you were, say, at age 13.
But why? Why is having a wife and children so important that not being successful in this aspect means wasting your life? You're absolutely right, of course, but I don't really understand it. I do understand that we are animals and genetic success means finding a mate and reproducing, ensuring your offspring can reproduce too, but the part that I don't understand is that I really don't care about that. I'm an avoidant autist, I honestly do not want a wife or kids, and yet I feel like my life is a huge waste. I guess this genetic programming is too strong and doesn't care about what I want or what my priorities are, it will just make me miserable anyway.
 
But why? Why is having a wife and children so important that not being successful in this aspect means wasting your life? You're absolutely right, of course, but I don't really understand it. I do understand that we are animals and genetic success means finding a mate and reproducing, ensuring your offspring can reproduce too, but the part that I don't understand is that I really don't care about that. I'm an avoidant autist, I honestly do not want a wife or kids, and yet I feel like my life is a huge waste. I guess this genetic programming is too strong and doesn't care about what I want or what my priorities are, it will just make me miserable anyway.
well I thought you figured it out, it all just becomes a grind after a point. predictable. at that point it's hard to avoid the elephant in the room, that you should be doing something else than dumb hobbies and that's naturally much more engaging and stimulating: dealing with a woman, getting her pregnant, dealing with kids, etc
 
well I thought you figured it out, it all just becomes a grind after a point. predictable. at that point it's hard to avoid the elephant in the room, that you should be doing something else than dumb hobbies and that's naturally much more engaging and stimulating: dealing with a woman, getting her pregnant, dealing with kids, etc
Well, I did figure it out, that's why I think I'm bipolar. My mind changes along with my mood, sometimes I think that the things you said are the most important things in the world, other times I think that this is utterly unimportant and that I'd rather do anything else, that women are useless and that kids are just a waste of time and money.
 
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Well, I did figure it out, that's why I think I'm bipolar. My mind changes along with my mood, sometimes I think that what the things you said are the most important things in the world, other times I think that this is utterly unimportant and that I'd rather do anything else, that women are useless and that kids are just a waste of time and money.
well I think you should enjoy it while you can, after 30 I got forever stuck in the anxious phase and it's not a good feel
 
nah, i'm decisively wasting my life despite experimenting with like 3 sources of income and having moved out almost a decade ago. nobody cares and neither do I care about all that.

there's no way you aren't "wasting your life" if you get 0 female action and are no closer to marriage with a decent woman than you were, say, at age 13.
Speak for yourself, weakcel. So, I'm wasting my life because I get 0 female validation? LMFAO, there's so much more to life than female validation, boyo.

FYI, marriage is scam, love doesn't exist. You're not blackpill, but a delusional simp.
 
I can quite literally feel myself rotting away inside
 
My youth is over bro and I wasted it. I make the conclusion that I wasted it because nothing I did lead me to anything good. I'm still at square one in every aspect of life.
 
Speak for yourself, weakcel. So, I'm wasting my life because I get 0 female validation? LMFAO, there's so much more to life than female validation, boyo.

FYI, marriage is scam, love doesn't exist. You're not blackpill, but a delusional simp.
Lol, try it when you're well over 30 years old and have been going to work and then back home to an empty apartment for close to a decade.
Even if you somehow had the money for luxurious escorts, which most don't, your life would still be a draining grind.
 
Life is a complete waste anyway. We are here to die and there is no way you gonna make it out alive. So learn to live with it.
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I think part of the problem is the social pressure.
In a hypothetical world where everyone is living like an hermit, you probably wouldn't have the feeling of wasting your life because that kind of life would be seen as normal.
but since all normies want and do the same things,the fact of being different increase the anxiety and the stress.
 
I just spent six hours trying to learn how to make Doom maps. Yes.
 
I just spent six hours trying to learn how to make Doom maps. Yes.
making custom levels and mods was a good high school level cope, now not so much
 
y i see you , im content indifferent , but always ldar and not caring will destroy you in the long run , i dont want to please this society neither do i own society something , yet my dna wants me to do something about it , i get those anxiety or wtf moments here and there too ,

if you where reclusive all your life all introverted and shit but society only tolerateds extroversion you will start to hate it , hate society , hate this very concept of playing some role , of fitting the status quo that is being an extroverted piece of shit , bonus points if your good looking

i despised this idea to change to the worst , but it seems to be the best conclusion , changing to an extroverted asshole
 
If I were a normie then Id say yes but I was never meant to be a part of this sick little game. There is nothing I can do besides slave away for nothing but my own survival or claim my freedom. Everything else is a waste of time
 
These is no sense of purpose or belonging in a feminist society. Why explains why some men go Cho, ER, or AM.
 
Absolutely. I don't have much to lose, to be honest.
 
ofc it was wasted but i have no way of not wasting it due to countless factors i cant control
 
I already lost at 14 years old
 
Jfl yes, I know for a fact that I'm wasting my youth. It's a shame really, I wanted to go in to the nba when I was a kid if only I was 16 inches taller.
 
I played way to many videos games when I was in my teens (literally every waking moment playing WoW), I regret not doing something else and just saving vidya for when I'm old and can't walk.
Don't regret it.
 
Any meaning life sort of had in the past (religion, community, family) is long gone. All you can do now is live for yourself. Find something that makes you happy and dedicate yourself to that. Vidja probably won't do it, nor will capeshit or internet points or whatever. You might never find it, it's harder and harder to find passion in these days of instant (but low-quality) gratification. But, what else can you do?
 
Don't regret it.
Impossible not to regret it. I did the same, and despite all the effort I've spent trying to convince myself that I shouldn't regret it, that there's nothing better that I could've done, that time spent enjoying yourself is not time wasted - you can't, you just can't not regret it.
 
I wasted everything, everyone I know has a lot of stories to tell, but the only things that I've ever experienced was sitting at home alone doing drugs in front of my computer. I've completely fucked up my life in any way possible. The time to kill myself is creeping up on me
 
My youth is pretty much wasted... I feel that way even if i'm "only" close to 30. But my life, not really. Whatever happens... Happens.
 
I have wasted everything
 
That ship has sailed. Should have worked harder in college. Who knows, maybe I'd be at the same point, but at least I'd have no regrets. I've gotten to the point where I'm not bitter, not that much anyway, but even though I got a bad roll of the dice I could have moved around the board more effectively than I did rather than moping.
 
You may have wasted time, but you can choose to be wasting time now. Live for you as best you can.
 
I have wasted everything, but what other option did I have?
 
Reality is so harsh that make us feel numb
 
I never had other choice. I didn't ask for it.
 
Yes im wasting my youth as we speak
 
wow i thought im going crazy. i feel exactly like you. day by day im more depressed and can't stop that nature instinct whatever i do.
 
Yes bro. It's all gone and it ain't coming back.
 
Utterly and completely, yes. My youth and now young adult years are being wasted.
 
Youth ends at 25 so I've already wasted it.
 
Trial and error.
 
Between the ages of around 18 to 23, I had a fairly active, fulfilling life. I went abroad regularly, I had a decent group of friends and reasonably busy social life. So I don't feel like those years were wasted.

Now I'm 29, I have no social circle, and for the past few years my life has consisted of working my low end job and doing very little else. I don't go out socialising; I spend the vast majority of my free time alone, in my home, only going out to get food. Am I wasting my life? Well, I don't know what else I would be doing. I'm naturally very introverted and reclusive, so I don't want to go out and socialise with lots of people. But sometimes it does feel like I'm missing out on something. There has to be more to life than going to work, coming home, rinse and repeat.

Ultimately, I'm just too lazy and uninspired and don't have the drive to make big changes in my life. As such, my life will likely continue on this flat continuum for the foreseeable future.
 
Now I'm 29, I have no social circle, and for the past few years my life has consisted of working my low end job and doing very little else. I don't go out socialising; I spend the vast majority of my free time alone, in my home, only going out to get food. Am I wasting my life? Well, I don't know what else I would be doing. I'm naturally very introverted and reclusive, so I don't want to go out and socialise with lots of people. But sometimes it does feel like I'm missing out on something. There has to be more to life than going to work, coming home, rinse and repeat.

Ultimately, I'm just too lazy and uninspired and don't have the drive to make big changes in my life. As such, my life will likely continue on this flat continuum for the foreseeable future.
I don't know how to help you exactly, but I'm here to do whatever I can.
 
Yes, I already wasted all of my teenage years doing exactly the same thing I'm doing right now. It can only get worse from here on out.
 
I'm already wasted my teenage years with vidya and anime. There's nothing more that I've could done in that period because I was constantly bullied at middleschool and highschool (So I couldn't experience teen love either, something that I always wanted :cryfeels:).

My future is going to be the same, LDARing in my bedroom. At least I'm not a wagecuck.
 

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