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https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/husband-penis-size-fixation-advice.html
Some foid wrote in to an advice column. It's a short read but here's what she says anyway:
Holy fuck guys, there is literally no way to win unless you are the chadiest of gigachads. Even if your cock is long and girthy enough to pleasure her, it still isn't enough. Because it's not even about pleasure ultimately, but STATUS and unchangeable genetic traits (notice she mentions height in the same fucking sentence as well). There is just nothing you can fucking do, it's over. Even if you do ascend this is what you have to look forward to.
At least the columnists sided with the husband, but lord the mental gymnastics they had to jump through.
"I wonder if there are other relationship issues that haven’t been mentioned or even thought out by our writer. Are they using this as an excuse, in other words?"
" Do you have any strategies for getting rid of unwelcome thoughts? Meditation is my go-to. But besides that, and some minor refocusing/perspective, I’m not sure what else is to be done "
JUST HAVE HER MEDITATE BRO!!! Surely women can't be that shallow and warped in their thinking! Right guys... right? JFL
Some foid wrote in to an advice column. It's a short read but here's what she says anyway:
I have a recurring thought that might turn into a problem. I’m married to a man I adore, and we have an incredible sex life that I wouldn’t change for the world. Passionate, fun, multiple orgasms per session. However, while my body is overjoyed, my mind is struggling. My husband is slightly shorter than average, and his dick is slightly smaller than average as well. This is something I’ve always known and has never impacted our sex life. But I had a friend complaining about a below-average-sized lover, and it got me all in my head. Now when I look at my husband in bed, I can’t not notice that he’s smaller than what society says he should be. I never thought about it before, but it’s making me feel less attracted to him now. I find myself less inclined to give him hand jobs or blow jobs because I don’t want to think about his size. Why am I obsessing over this when I find sex with him so pleasurable? How do I get over this?
Holy fuck guys, there is literally no way to win unless you are the chadiest of gigachads. Even if your cock is long and girthy enough to pleasure her, it still isn't enough. Because it's not even about pleasure ultimately, but STATUS and unchangeable genetic traits (notice she mentions height in the same fucking sentence as well). There is just nothing you can fucking do, it's over. Even if you do ascend this is what you have to look forward to.
At least the columnists sided with the husband, but lord the mental gymnastics they had to jump through.
"I wonder if there are other relationship issues that haven’t been mentioned or even thought out by our writer. Are they using this as an excuse, in other words?"
" Do you have any strategies for getting rid of unwelcome thoughts? Meditation is my go-to. But besides that, and some minor refocusing/perspective, I’m not sure what else is to be done "
JUST HAVE HER MEDITATE BRO!!! Surely women can't be that shallow and warped in their thinking! Right guys... right? JFL