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Blackpill From cumming too soon, to lasting too long -- An important development in shaming male sexuality

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In late 2000s during one of our sex ed classes a girl remarked about her intimate experience with boyfriend: "he gets hard while we make out, is it normal?" laughter erupted in the classroom and another girl yelled out loud "eww, is he really that sex deprived or what haha". I couldn't fathom what was so strange about getting hard while kissing, but I was an incel.

Back then getting sexually excited too fast was a serious stigma. For girls it meant they were dealing with a inexperienced virgin loser. In those times everyone was still strategizing how not to cum in the first 30 seconds after putting it in -- last longer was the motto -- and every rag had a column in the health section on how to increase your stamina.

Today taking 'too long' to finish has become a red flag. It's a sign that you're a pornsick coomer, which is also synonymous with inexperienced virgin loser. Female dating strategists list "If he is not hard while kissing" and if a man "needs more than just nice underwear to get hard" as signs of impotence.

What a fucking ontological predicament.
 
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Porn has ruined me tbh.
Could only keep it up if she was sucking my dick.
 
In late 2000s during one of our sex ed classes a girl remarked about her intimate experience with boyfriend: "he gets hard while we make out, is it normal?" laughter erupted in the classroom and another girl yelled out loud "eww, is he really that sex deprived or what haha". I couldn't fathom what was so strange about getting hard while kissing, but I was an incel.

Back then getting sexually excited too fast was a serious stigma. For girls it meant they were dealing with a inexperienced virgin loser. In those times everyone was still strategizing how not to cum in the first 30 seconds after putting it in -- last longer was the motto -- and every rag had a column in the health section on how to increase your stamina.

Today taking 'too long' to finish has become a red flag. It's a sign that you're a pornsick coomer, which is also synonymous with inexperienced virgin loser. Female dating strategists list "If he is not hard while kissing" and if a man "needs more than just nice underwear to get hard" as signs of impotence.

What a fucking ontological predicament.
Basically "incel bad" in any era.
 
"he gets hard while we make out, is it normal?" laughter erupted in the classroom and another girl yelled out loud "eww, is he really that sex deprived or what haha". I couldn't fathom what was so strange about getting hard while kissing, but I was an incel.
i get hard when i makeout with my pillow
Basically "incel bad" in any era.
 
preselection is one of the most dominant forces in women's selection process. if other women want you, then they want you too. any indication that you are a virgin is considered repulsive, because if you were worth it, other women would have fucked you by now.

i mean other than that, the criteria just adapted to technology. we didn't have massive unending feeds of internet porn 20 years ago. that does shit to you, none of it good.
 
Porn has ruined me tbh.
Could only keep it up if she was sucking my dick.
Same. I can only stay erect if I’m actively jerking off.
 
If you say so. I honestly have absolutely no idea what the expectation for men are when it comes to sex, its really fascinating how far off I'm from the rest of society.
 
It's a masculine trait to get erect quickly and "prematurely" ejaculate. There's no biological advantage to pleasuring the female. A female orgasm neither increases the chance of pregnancy nor the quality of the offspring. It's better to be able to spread your seed quickly and widely while reducing time in actual coitus.
 
It's a masculine trait to get erect quickly and "prematurely" ejaculate. There's no biological advantage to pleasuring the female. A female orgasm neither increases the chance of pregnancy nor the quality of the offspring. It's better to be able to spread your seed quickly and widely while reducing time in actual coitus.
Exactly
 
Porn has ruined me tbh.
Could only keep it up if she was sucking my dick.
Brutal. But then again it's not like something like that would ever happen anyway
 
Am I the only person who wasn't fucked up by porn? I can still get hard at the thought of a woman, I have no idea how I would perform during sex but that is an utterly irrelavant matter anyway. Just sounds like a load of old shit made up by our jolly pals who bleed from their genitals for seven days each month.
 
Am I the only person who wasn't fucked up by porn? I can still get hard at the thought of a woman, I have no idea how I would perform during sex but that is an utterly irrelavant matter anyway. Just sounds like a load of old shit made up by our jolly pals who bleed from their genitals for seven days each month.
Same lol. Keep in mind however that anti-porn fellas do have a (((point)))
 
I think the girls in your sex ed class are fucking retards... which makes sense since they're 12 and don't know shit. The female dating strategists is right.
 
The world revolves around pleasing foids and bullying incels
 
Women can't make up their minds, yet we let them do decisions
 
Am I the only person who wasn't fucked up by porn? I can still get hard at the thought of a woman, I have no idea how I would perform during sex but that is an utterly irrelavant matter anyway. Just sounds like a load of old shit made up by our jolly pals who bleed from their genitals for seven days each month.
Fucking preach bro. Ive been jerking off to porn aggressively since age 11 so 17 years now and i can still get hard np just fantasizing about my female coworker or neighbor.

Also in my case the claim we need sicker and sicker porn to get off is false too, my favourite theme is still vanilla passionate porn with cute.slim actress just like 15yrs ago

Pornshaming is a load of bullshit whether it comes from the red or pink side
 
If you say so. I honestly have absolutely no idea what the expectation for men are when it comes to sex, its really fascinating how far off I'm from the rest of society.
Whether you're in your 20s you're expected to know how to fuck, women hate teaching men how to fuck once they have been manhandled by confident Chads in their youth. But if you're a beta she's settling with, then I advise you not to even try to be 'acting alpha' in the sheets . Heard it too many times where women got 'creeped out' when her mr. nice guy got too kinky.

preselection is one of the most dominant forces in women's selection process. if other women want you, then they want you too. any indication that you are a virgin is considered repulsive, because if you were worth it, other women would have fucked you by now.

i mean other than that, the criteria just adapted to technology. we didn't have massive unending feeds of internet porn 20 years ago. that does shit to you, none of it good.
A pretty brutal selection system they got there... It would be a shame if someone deconstructed it as a toxic.

Basically "incel bad" in any era.
Forget incels here, this is being used a as a vetting system on their boyfriends.
 
Am I the only person who wasn't fucked up by porn? I can still get hard at the thought of a woman, I have no idea how I would perform during sex but that is an utterly irrelavant matter anyway. Just sounds like a load of old shit made up by our jolly pals who bleed from their genitals for seven days each month.
yeah I'm fortunate enough to have not suffer ED
 

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