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Can anyone here past age 30 and who plans on living a long life tell me how they stop themselves being depressed?
 
Drowning in copes probably.
 
there is one cool trick




wanking
 
Can anyone here past age 30 and who plans on living a long life tell me how they stop themselves being depressed?

you cant. you can only stop depression with sex, girlfriend, and real friends (real not toxic crap)
 
haven't found the answer yet
 
Same boat lonely no friends and shit social skills and depression eating away at me and I think I might be losing it a bit as I am seeing shit sometimes while trying to go to sleep and waking up choking for some reason and I am talking to myself as though I am having a conversation with someone so I can't help by giving you an answer sorry.
 
Can anyone here past age 30 and who plans on living a long life tell me how they stop themselves being depressed?
I'm over 30 and I'm alone. I am totally fine with it. Copes are good definitely, but once you accept in the modern world women will only value you if you look like Hemsworth or momoa and have sub 8% bf, and bench over 120k, then you stop caring.

I am still depressed, but not so much about being alone, more about how I've been treated by foids. Then you think you may as well do shit for yourself, for your own sense of achievement.

I don't advocate LDAR or neet lifestyle, I think it is worth just working on yourself, because remember this extreme version of the world only came into effect post GFC and tinder. It is equally possible the world will change, and foids lose some of that market making power, and then maybe I can have a good life.

I know I can get a gf or a wife, but I won't because I know now they won't ever respect me and will assume I'm a simp. Any girl who I wasn't good enough for to hook up with I'm not gonna give a chance to, and that's really important when you start focusing on yourself.

Also try and avoid places where you will see the obvious. For me seeing nightlife is really depressing because of how I see normies interacting with foids, and know I can never have that (I've never even approached a foid in my pathetic life), same way poorcels avoid places where rich cels gather.
 
Can anyone here past age 30 and who plans on living a long life tell me how they stop themselves being depressed?

Make more than enough money for a comfortable living (this goes a long way), stay healthy as much as possible for as long as possible (because one day a foid who wishes you were dead might be getting paid to change your adult diapers in some retirement home), and constantly find new ways to keep your brain fresh and active with positive learning stimulation (take up a new hobby that doubles as a useful skill, like martial arts or sport shooting). If possible, get additional degrees or training certificates that complement your career - it pays massive dividends.

You're going to die one day anyway. May as well try to live it as best you can for yourself.
 
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Drowning in copes probably.
Like having many hobbies, watching or reading stuff that no one cares about.
This one is a joke: if you're looking for validation karma whoring maybe.
 
cope + seamaxxing + cope + escort maxxing @BlkPillPres thoughts?
 

Also, JFL at this ridiculous cope:
"Education" on the same page as an "option" with "Astral Projection" and "Motivation", talk about being deluded
WhitePillBSCope






Can anyone here past age 30 and who plans on living a long life tell me how they stop themselves being depressed?

Everybody else is going to give you shitty pointless blue pilled responses like - "just cope", if you take that route, just skip to the end and kill yourself, don't waste your time

If you want to be satisfied with life on your own, especially into old age, YOU NEED RESOURCES

You have to have money, money is not the root of all evil, money is the root of all happiness, the first cliche statement is something told to plebs to keep them docile and in their place

Everything that you have in life that you enjoy is because you or someone who provides for you has money, end of story

People forget that money is just the modern unit of barter, money is just a representation of resources, so saying that "money can't buy happiness" is like saying "being resourceful won't make you happy" or saying "money is the root of all evil" is like saying "being resourceful is the root of all evil"

When you break things down to their abstract form everything becomes obvious and you can see BS for what it actually is, complete bullshit, in the past you'd have to trade a cow to get produce or something, today we have money, its just as ridiculous to tell someone that owning and rearing livestock is bad as it is ridiculous to tell someone that having more money is bad and pursuing more of it is bad

MONEY IS JUST THE MODERN DAY UNIVERSAL UNIT TO REPRESENT A RESOURCE

If you want to be "happy" YOU NEED MONEY

There's no point in having "copes" if you don't have the energy or free time to enjoy them, waking up every week day to force a shit and quickly brush your teeth so you can be off to work and make someone else rich, only to "enjoy your copes" on friday evenings and weekends is not what I would call an enjoyable life, especially when you are incel
 
There's no point in having "copes" if you don't have the energy or free time to enjoy them, waking up every week day to force a shit and quickly brush your teeth so you can be off to work and make someone else rich, only to "enjoy your copes" on friday evenings and weekends is not what I would call an enjoyable life, especially when you are incel
Ldar + neetbuxx.
 
Ldar + neetbuxx.

kys + kys

1. Were not all living in the same country, so neetbux isn't an option to everyone

2. Neetbux is limited, you can't really enjoy much of anything on it, the only people who would choose neetbux over wealthmaxxing are individuals who are more attracted to the idea of "doing nothing" than attracted to the idea of "doing what you want"

Sorry I don't wake up smiling at the thought of sitting in front of my computer all day or sleeping, I'd just hit the skip button and off myself at that point
 
kys + kys

1. Were not all living in the same country, so neetbux isn't an option to everyone

2. Neetbux is limited, you can't really enjoy much of anything on it, the only people who would choose neetbux over wealthmaxxing are individuals who are more attracted to the idea of "doing nothing" than attracted to the idea of "doing what you want"

Sorry I don't wake up smiling at the thought of sitting in front of my computer all day or sleeping, I'd just hit the skip button and off myself at that point
So you gonna enjoy slaving away for cope you can't enjoy until you get old and shit in a diaper? Muh money, muh resources won't makes you happy and won't change shit.
 
Embrace the Waifu Laifu, keep on coping until our Waifubots get here.
 
So you gonna enjoy slaving away for cope you can't enjoy until you get old and shit in a diaper?

I said wealthmaxx not wage cuck, the whole point of wealthmaxxing is to get passive income streams that allow you to retire early, you need to spend more time reading properly rather than LDAR
 

Also, JFL at this ridiculous cope:
"Education" on the same page as an "option" with "Astral Projection" and "Motivation", talk about being deluded
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That website is Sarge approved. It's his website.
 
I said wealthmaxx not wage cuck, the whole point of wealthmaxxing is to get passive income streams that allow you to retire early, you need to spend more time reading properly rather than LDAR
The end goal is still you, old, shitting in a diaper. No amount of money or resources will make you attractive to foids, blinding yourself enough to believe that wealthmaxxing just to cope even more will make you life any better is pure delusion.
 
I live in a big city so I buy tickets to techno clubs and chill there until 6am since I wouldn't be able to sleep anyway, or I'll go for walks in the park and sit on a bench in the drizzle for a few hours with my headphones
 
The end goal is still you, old, shitting in a diaper. No amount of money or resources will make you attractive to foids

These two statements literally have nothing to do with eachother, if the end result is still everyone old shitting in a diaper wtf does that have to do with being attractive to women, not even you know what you're arguing right now, you sound deluded, you literally moved the goal posts twice in one sentence

blinding yourself enough to believe that wealthmaxxing just to cope even more will make you life any better is pure delusion.

The irony of you saying anyone is deluded, retard here's some common sense

Your path is:
Ldar + neetbuxx.

How is LDAR + Rich not better than LDAR + Neetbux?

You aren't even making sense, its like arguing 1+1 is better than 1+2, you've already stated your preferred choice is LDAR + Neetbux, if I wealthmaxx I can do what you do to an even greater degree, I can enjoy things you can only dream of

Who is really the deluded one here?




That website is Sarge approved.

And?

It's his website.

My response had nothing to do with whose website it was, its a ridiculous cope anyways, I've always told Sarge the White Pill is BS

THE WHITE PILL IS MEN ROMANTICIZING RETREAT

Its just "New Age" pseudo religious "find yourself" nonsense, I might as well just start doing yoga and mediation, and join a "spiritual enlightenment" group where we do hallucinogenic drugs to "become one with the universe"

The white pill is a retard tier cope
 
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I said wealthmaxx not wage cuck, the whole point of wealthmaxxing is to get passive income streams that allow you to retire early, you need to spend more time reading properly rather than LDAR
There is no road to wealthmax for a poor fag. The only option is to wageslave.
Passive income is rent or investment dividends and shit like that, how tf are you supposed to have that shit from nowhere?
 
There is no road to wealthmax for a poor fag. The only option is to wageslave.

"Poor people never become rich"

Passive income is rent or investment dividends and shit like that

"The internet does not exist nor do online businesses"

I can tell from your responses, that you never even took any time at all to even google how people make money online, there are so many different avenues to pursue, are they guarnateed, no, but due to this quarantine I'm pretty much home all day doing nothing and I'm getting paid, so my time and money is going to go into trying these things

Do some research

how tf are you supposed to have that shit from nowhere?

If there was a definite and obvious answer everybody would be doing it, and then it wouldn't work because that market would be over saturated

The great irony is, wealth building only works because most people never try because they think it won't work
 
"Poor people never become rich"



"The internet does not exist nor do online businesses"

I can tell from your responses, that you never even took any time at all to even google how people make money online, there are so many different avenues to pursue, are they guarnateed, no, but due to this quarantine I'm pretty much home all day doing nothing and I'm getting paid, so my time and money is going to go into trying these things

Do some research



If there was a definite and obvious answer everybody would be doing it, and then it wouldn't work because that market would be over saturated

The great irony is, wealth building only works because most people never try because they think it won't work
Join this pyramid scheme and you be making 1k an hour.
That is boomer mentality that you have to pull yourself by your bootstraps as if some rando can simply make money by wanting to.
It's just like saying that any incel can fuck, they just have never googled it and the great irony is that most incels never try because thinkinh it won't work.
Blue pill useless argument.
 
Copes + delusion
 
Join this pyramid scheme and you be making 1k an hour

JFL you know I literally knew you were going to say some shit like this, guys like you are the biggest NPC's, its like you're all going off of the sames script, you're just moving the goal posts

1. If you start an online business that's not a pyramid scheme

2. Even if its a pyramid scheme that you join, IF YOU GET RICH, DIDN'T IT WORK?

What you're saying makes no sense, you are grasping for straws

That is boomer mentality that you have to pull yourself by your bootstraps as if some rando can simply make money by wanting to.

JFL, this has nothing to do with that

You really have three options:

1. Try to get rich so you can have an enjoyable life
2. Do nothing and spend the rest of your life complaining
3. Kill yourself

Guys like you are just too lazy to go with option 1 and too much of a coward to go with option 3, so you are left in this weird kind of "purgatory" of a life where you want to die and won't kill yourself, and you want your life to be better but won't do anything to change it, you're stuck

It's just like saying that any incel can fuck, they just have never googled it and the great irony is that most incels never try because thinkinh it won't work.
Blue pill useless argument.

No that's literally how it works, people can become rich because others simply stop trying, in order to make money in a specific market, especially a niche market, you need to have less competition, when people give up on becoming rich others thrive, we all need people to fail in order to succeed, that's the truth about life, I'm just hoping other incels would try to be in the success group but either way it makes no difference as long as I make it

Enjoy waking up a sad lonely single and poor man in your 50's, I'm sure that's going to be an enjoyable experience

Now I'm done arguing this, i'm not going to spend all this time trying to convince you to want better for yourself :feelskek:

If you want to fail fail
 
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yeah just find a career or hobby to cope with forever
 
JFL you know I literally knew you were going to say some shit like this, guys like you are the biggest NPC's, its like you're all going off of the sames script, you're just moving the goal posts

1. If you start an online business that's not a pyramid scheme

2. Even if its a pyramid scheme that you join, IF YOU GET RICH, DIDN'T IT WORK?

What you're saying makes no sense, you are grasping for straws



JFL, this has nothing to do with that

You really have three options:

1. Try to get rich so you can have an enjoyable life
2. Do nothing and spend the rest of your life complaining
3. Kill yourself

Guys like you are just too lazy to go with option 1 and too much of a coward to go with option 3, so you are left in this weird kind of "purgatory" of a life where you want to die and won't kill yourself, and you want your life to be better but won't do anything to change it, you're stuck



No that's literally how it works, people can become rich because others simply stop trying, in order to make money in a specific market, especially a niche market, you need to have less competition, when people give up on becoming rich others thrive, we all need people to fail in order to succeed, that's the truth about life, I'm just hoping other incels would try to be in the success group but either way it makes no difference as long as I make it

Enjoy waking up a sad lonely single and poor man in your 50's, I'm sure that's going to be an enjoyable experience

Now I'm done arguing this, i'm not going to spend all this time trying to convince you to want better for yourself :feelskek:

If you want to fail fail
Whatever makes you feel high iq
 
if I wealthmaxx I can do what you do to an even greater degree, I can enjoy things you can only dream of
Yes, you can C O P E.
You are beyond retarded.
:feelsugh:
 
Can anyone here past age 30 and who plans on living a long life tell me how they stop themselves being depressed?
Christ pill start a family pill live the path of Jesus pill
Help the community (start small dont need to be big, helping even relatives works) pill pass this world with good deeeds pill
Can somebody meme this into a "pill" dont know what to call it
 
I'm over 30 and taking things one day at a time, trying to enjoy my copes or sleeping. I don't have plans to live a long life, fuck carrying on like this for another few decades!
 
I recently turned 40.

> careermaxxx
> gymmaxxx
> cope, cope, cope with entertainment (vidya, books, movies, music, anything)
> try to find some fellow incel friends (rl or interweb)
> I meditate but I’m not sure if it does any good

You’ll still get depressed but it might be bearable.
 
either cope very hard or earn money. 1st is impossible without money so the 2nd is the only real option.
 
Can anyone here past age 30 and who plans on living a long life tell me how they stop themselves being depressed?

I'm 38 and haven't found a way to stop the depression. I have figured out how to get by being alone though. Basically what others have already said, learn to be self sufficient so you're not worrying about money. It's easier to be alone if you're not struggling to survive. Avoid places where you're likely to see happy families, people with their friends, night life, etc. as seeing it in front of you can leave you dwelling on it. Find interests and hobbies to fill your time with. Yeah sure, everybody here is going to tell you you're coping, but once you're older you're better off accepting you've been dealt a shitty hand and just make the best of it. There are other things that can bring some enjoyment to your life. And you better focus on those other things because women, friends, and families obviously aren't in your future if you've reached 30's without them.
 
Stay preoccupied within your own mind. Shut everything else out. Nobody will ever accept you so stop trying to be apart of their world.

Im personally wishing sexbots and AI advance by leaps and bounds so that way I can at least experience physical and virtual sex before I die.
 
Yeah, you could hermit/monkmaxxx, but there's this pesky thing called government that demands money at gun point all the time forcing us to work..... There's a path that everybody overlooks, a path of inner awe and discovery of our true nature. They want you to be a good wageslave go work, pay tax, consume..... Not find out what you really are, and they demand our obedience. We deny our true potential and are dominated because of it.
 

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