Have you accepted you're incel for life and nothing will change? If so, how do you feel about life in general?

[mylifeistrash]

If you've accepted this, how do you feel about living like this for the rest of your life?

How do you deal with the fact you will only become much uglier as time marches on and you become fat, wrinkled, bald, and grey?

How do you deal with the fact it will probably be harder for you to find jobs and make money, thus making homeless and being broke a huge risk?

So many men are in their mid 20s or above and still cling onto the hope of getting a girl, something they're 10+ years too late on.

 

[Deleted member 23682]

I delusionmaxx because I haven't hit 30 yet

 

[Over_this_Life]

I try not to think about it and instead focus on my copes

 

[OnGP]

I'm slowly drifting towards that realisation, and trying to find out what to do to face that cold hard truth.

 

[radishman]

Well, what difference does getting more ugly matter if you already can't attract foids or get respect from society? It would actually be worse to be good looking and then have your looks fade. As a wageslave I can tell you I honestly fantasize about being unemployed and not having to commute and deal with people. You clearly don't have a job as a neet if you think that way.

I've long since accepted I won't get my dick wet with any foid unless I pay beforehand. I do okay in life and don't let it stress me too much. I still hate toilets, but it's not worth noting unless I'm shitposting to vent.

 

[RedIce]

I've already accepted that fate, it is the fate of all incels. How do I deal with it? by moneymaxxing until i find a proper place to live by myself, away from soyciety. Living a minimalist life isn't that hard for us incels, we dont need much to survive.

 

[Deleted member 17719]

I already have my suicide planned, when I am in my 50s, I am 28 now

 

[Deleted member 23682]

I already have my suicide planned, when I am in my 50s, I am 28 now

why wait til 50's? what do you have to look forward to in 30's and 40's?

 

[randomcel92]

I only live for copes now.

 

[radishman]

why wait til 50's? what do you have to look forward to in 30's and 40's?

Most men don't live long after that anyway.

 

[Deleted member 18193]

I just want to have sex man but if I can't I may as well just give up for now

 

[Deleted member 17719]

why wait til 50's? what do you have to look forward to in 30's and 40's?

Nothing but killing myself will ruin my parents lives hence why I am waiting until after they die.

 

[Deleted member 23682]

Nothing but killing myself will ruin my parents lives hence why I am waiting until after they die.

cucked tbh.

 

[happiless]

I've given up on foids. I fap to them every morning, and then attempt to avoid thinking about them for the remaining hours. I drink alcohol every weekend, as a routine to avoid the feeling of variationless rotting. I cope every day, in an effort to utilize my autism to avoid suffering. I will start wageslaving soon, and if I can maintain the normie LARP I might be able to cope for some more years. If not, I'll attempt to order some druggies from the deepweb (allegedly). I dont do drugs, but I did take oxys (however many years ago which makes me not legally liable) years ago. They felt nice, so mommy morphine can kill me if I can't integrate into the wageslave life. Else, I will wageslave and spend my money on copes. I will lose my virginity to a whore in a suitable country, and then spend every vacation doing the same thing. If all of the latter gets old, plan drug death can be back on the menu

 

[MaxZM98]

it's a bleak existence. i just hope i can see the occasional hooker....

 

[Deleted member 22685]

Yes i have given up on women and pray to God Almighty that he gives me catgirls, if not in this life then on the next.
I still worry about the financial part sometimes and really want to have a stable income and at least cope, but on the other hand i know im just kinda cursed and that no matter what i do it will always end in disaster and there is fuckall i can do about it.

 

[Wiz32BlackJiggaboo]

OP the idea of 100% acceptance seems unprovable but I certainly feel closer to that stat than I did in previous years.

Maybe >50% at least in terms of fulfilling relationships even if I still >50% think I could get sex via a non-escort non-landwhale means.

A big part of my mentalceldom aspects is I guess that even though I want sex, I want it in a relationship where we get to know each other really well. But I feel like it would be dangerous to reveal enough of my personality to a foid to satisfy how I want us to understand each other.

This would doom me to either:
1) superficial hookups (chad only)
2) lie to a foid and ultimately break her heart to trick her into sex (undesirable)
3) hope that a foid would want to have sex with me over superficial connections despite holding most of myself back for fear of judgment

I really don't see it as volcel though (because I want a relationship and sex) I just don't know how to make it happen in a safe way where I can back out if it turns out I entrusted private information about myself to the wrong person who would abuse that to harm me.

Due to that lack of safety I am terrified and never do it... and since I don't do that, I can never really feel close or honest with a foid, which is something I really value in a romantic relationship.