There are things you can improve, but tbh nothing seems really impactful, there's nothing that can really increase your value considerably if you really work at it. And it's a gamble too sometimes.
Among the things that come to mind are: you can work out. Admittedly your body will never look like the dudes on the youtube or instagram or whatever cause they either use steroids and/or work out for hours every day, but with great effort it will at least look better than when you don't work out. I'll give the bluepillers this one, this is one way in which you can improve yourself. (won't get you pussy cause you'd still be ugly but that's not the immediate goal here, just self-improvement)
You can work harder at your job and generally try to improve your career. Now this one is problematic I think since hard work isn't really rewarded in today's world, it just means you'll get exploited, and only those with connections or those who kiss ass really well can get ahead. But with really hard work and also being smart, you can get a promotion or two. Though it would take going above and beyond, leaving you little time for anything else and also burning you out pretty fast. Doing this + anything else would be very hard.
What else? Idk, I guess you can get one of those hobbies that are supposed to attract women like learning guitar or poetry or whatever people do these days. But tbh if you're already an adult that's not likely, not only do you have little time to practice because you're at work all day and you come home tired, you won't really have as many chances to use these hobbies to attract women either.
Well, I can't really think of anything else. All these things require a lot of effort, energy, time, smarts and discipline. The worst is that even if you did pull all of these off it really wouldn't mean that much. Yeah you'd be better than now but not by much really. Tbh feels a bit unfair that males like us have to go through this much just to barely become of some average value. Meanwhile women can just exist. They're better than doing nothing, but I for one lack the Spartan willpower required to pull these off.
Among the things that come to mind are: you can work out. Admittedly your body will never look like the dudes on the youtube or instagram or whatever cause they either use steroids and/or work out for hours every day, but with great effort it will at least look better than when you don't work out. I'll give the bluepillers this one, this is one way in which you can improve yourself. (won't get you pussy cause you'd still be ugly but that's not the immediate goal here, just self-improvement)
You can work harder at your job and generally try to improve your career. Now this one is problematic I think since hard work isn't really rewarded in today's world, it just means you'll get exploited, and only those with connections or those who kiss ass really well can get ahead. But with really hard work and also being smart, you can get a promotion or two. Though it would take going above and beyond, leaving you little time for anything else and also burning you out pretty fast. Doing this + anything else would be very hard.
What else? Idk, I guess you can get one of those hobbies that are supposed to attract women like learning guitar or poetry or whatever people do these days. But tbh if you're already an adult that's not likely, not only do you have little time to practice because you're at work all day and you come home tired, you won't really have as many chances to use these hobbies to attract women either.
Well, I can't really think of anything else. All these things require a lot of effort, energy, time, smarts and discipline. The worst is that even if you did pull all of these off it really wouldn't mean that much. Yeah you'd be better than now but not by much really. Tbh feels a bit unfair that males like us have to go through this much just to barely become of some average value. Meanwhile women can just exist. They're better than doing nothing, but I for one lack the Spartan willpower required to pull these off.
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