JFL How I banged one of the hottest chicks of my life within 6 hours of meeting her.

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Good evening

I share this story because it feels like the culmination of my whole RP journey. I hope others can see themselves in my (former) self and get inspiration to become the most attractive version of themselves as well. Safe to say I've never been more confident in my life and I hope others can achieve this bountiful frame of mind as well.

Outline: First I share the story in detail (sorry if it's long winded, I have a meticulous writing style at least for anecdotes), with my real-time thoughts in italics, then I discuss some of the RP lessons and other takeways that led to the climax of last night.

The following story takes place on February 2 2021.

1pm: I walk out of the resort bar where I had been having a beer with the guys I was skiing with. They decided to leave and I wanted to meet some other friends in the line for the gondola to ride with them. I am walking by the gondy line looking for the friends when I hear suddenly "Hey you!" directed at me. I look at the person speaking to me. All I can see about her is she is female and young. "You come in to the cafe sometimes! I recognize your jacket." She is referring to the cafe I stop by some times and the retro 80s ski jacket I wear that makes me stand out in the best way possible and also makes me instantly recognizable by anyone who can see me. "Yup, that's me". We chat briefly, I thought she was alone and asked if she needed someone to ride in the gondy with. "Yeah sure!" she replies, and I open the barrier and cut the 30 minute line to hop in with her. I can remember very clearly that a piece of my mind immediately thought "potential sex" and my penis got the smallest bit excited for the distant chance of sex. You just met her, relax. "Hey I'm [censored], nice to meet you" she says and I tell her my name. Once in the line with her she turns to the group that was standing a little off to the side and says these are her friends, nice to meet you etc. Oh great, joining a group of strangers is not what I signed up for. But at least I skipped the whole line up. We get in the gondy and the group is very chill, I cracked a couple jokes that got laughs. I notice she has gorgeous green eyes. Over the next few hours we skiied together, drank beers on the lift, got to know each other a bit more (I explain I fled the covid restrictions in my home city and am new to the ski town), and had an absolutely fantastic afternoon ripping down the mountain on pow day. [Side bar: pow day is one of the best feelings a human can experience and puts every one in the best mood they're capable of]. Since it's covid and we are fully geared up and all we can see of each other is our faces for brief periods of time - saw that she was very pretty. There was no flirting yet at this point. I mentioned I have a hot tub and invited her and her friends to come hang out and keep crushing beers after, they are open to the idea.

3:30pm: none of them wanted to stop by the same resort resto as earlier for a beer, but I had to go inside quickly so we swapped numbers and agreed to meet later. I went in to the resto to grab something I left there and had spotted some coworkers at a table and asked to join them for a pint. She texted me first saying "I am down for the hot tub, what time?" I say let's do 5. She reads the text but doesnt reply for a little while. My old beta self would surely have sent a follow up text within minutes after she had left me on read, maybe even a phone call. Don't overthink it, she will reply if she wants to. Sure enough she replies some time a little later and says "I am trying to find a friend to join" which is fine by me, she just met me and this is standard procedure for chicks that just met a guy and get invited to his place. I reply and say cool, offer to pick her up on my way in to town to which she agrees. I take my time with the beer with my coworkers before leaving. I note this because the old beta me would have chugged the beer before paying as quickly as possible, and basically sprinted to the car to get back home as quick as humanly possible.

5pm: we are at my place and about to get in my hot tub. No friends of hers wanted to come. She strips and the first thing I look at is her bust, which excites me. The rest of her body is very stimulating and the whole package is far better than I could have expected given how this whole situation was just falling in to my lap on basically no effort on my part. I am still not thinking about any outcome for the night, but the old beta would have been utterly fixated on what his penis desired so badly as a vagina came somewhat closer within reach. What happened next is probably the best part of the entire memory, which was the (figurative) game that we played in the hot tub, where all my skills and experience over the years were put to the test as it was just her and I face to face in the hot tub while the sexual tension increased the more we spoke and drank. First we talk about my tattoos. This was a strong indication of what she was thinking because I learned long ago that 9 times out of 10 when a woman asks me about my tattoos it means she's sexually attracted to me. The conversation moved on to music. Then we talk about sex. Then we talk about drugs. Then we talk about doing all three at the same time. We are definitely on the same wavelength. This chick is getting even hotter the more she talks. The sexual tension is detectable, but not yet at level high enough to be acted upon. She says "I love your belly button!" To which I'm like, k, I'll take it. Lol. She wants to see it so I raise my stomach above the water and am angled so that my junk protruding from my bathing suit but I do not detect any effect this had on her (women are naturally skilled at hiding lustful feelings). I should ask her about her tattoos. The thought had barely finished crossing my mind when she says "Want to see my tattoos?". I was just about to ask, I say. She shows me her first two tats and then stands up and turns around practically shoving her ass in my face to show me the little tattoo on her butt cheek. I remain calm and still refuse to allow my thoughts to go towards where my penis wants them to go, in fact I can clearly remember thinking don't get excited yet, this would be a classic female move to just get up and go at the height of the sexual tension and have a laugh about it at home with her roommates. I know by now the touching needs to start, and I am thinking of ways to do it. I start grazing her gently under the water with my feet, testing for a response. There wasn't a strong response but she didn't back away either. We keep talking, I can't remember what it was but suddenly she couldn't take it any more and she jumped in to my arms and we started making out. Hard. All the tension of the last couple hours snapping spectacularly as we kissed intensely. Things escalated quickly. "You have the green light"my brain tells my penis. "I want to suck your pussy" I say. The only resistance from her was due to us being outdoors, there being neighbours. This concern quickly faded and we did things in full view, looking back I was kind of drunk at this point and was possibly seen by neighbours which is fucking greasy but what can you do. So now sex is on the table and based on what I had seen out of her personality over the past 6 hours I decide she is worth exploring beyond one night of fucking so I tell her "let's hold off on having sex, I generally don't like sex on the first night I met people so let's just build the tension and it makes it even better next time we see each other." I honest to god meant every word and she agreed with it.

7pm: we are on my bed doing doggy. I have a fist full of her hair, and a titty in the other hand and am pounding hard. As I promised her in the hot tub, I am sending her in to another dimension.

Now for the takeaways, which have been on my mind all day.

  1. Firstly and most importantly, or holding frame. As you probably noticed I had to continuously block my penis from wrestling control of the wheel throughout the entire process. I've slowly learned over time that allowing your dick to do any thinking is pure beta behaviour and is what leads to fuckups and disappointment in oneself most especially when combined alcohol for lowered or non existent impulse control. After yesterday, I wonder how important holding frame was to the final outcome. Had I broke form and allowed any beta behaviour whether excessively complimenting, texting too quickly, gone in for the kill to early, etc would she have been been turned off? Or let some of it slide? I can't be sure, it depends at which point in time she decided she wanted the D, something I plan to ask now I think of it.
  2. Related to point 1, the whole "not wanting it" thing. I have seen this paradox spoken of frequently in RP literature and for years could not wrap my head around it. RP tells you to lift, dress well, be groomed, go out and socialize basically spend huge amounts of time bettering yourself for the end goal of sexual attractiveness but it also tells you not to care about getting laid because women have this magical ability to know when you are not getting any or desperate. Totally contradictory to me because I know what not giving a fuck really looks like from certain friends, it is long unkempt hair, and beer, weed, vidya in a basement. Now I understand. The dick is the compass. You let it point you in a certain direction and nothing more than that. You do not under any circumstance allow it to start making the decisions on how to get to the destination, that is the brain's job. The brain must remain at the wheel right up until the dick is in her hand or wherever. That is the line to be walked to achieve success.
  3. Striking while the iron is hot. I honestly meant it when I said we should hold off. Yeah in my perfect world we would have held off and met up some time later this week and tried to pick up where we left off. But then I realized there may not be a next time. The girl is young and living her best YOLO life in a ski town. This could happen again to her again with another guy tomorrow. Am I really that special for it to be a one time thing? Maybe? Doubt it.
  4. Stand out somehow. I'm normally a very lowkey guy. My angle is to be stylish but not the least bit flashy. The ski jacket is actually very flashy and I have seen how positive a reaction is elicits from literally everyone. I am not saying be flashy and I am most definitely not going to try flashiness out as a general strategy but it has to be said that this flashy retro ski jacket with a fucking torn sleeve is this strange object that opened the door for the path I took in my universe.
  5. This win is not necessarily about the sex. Yes pussy is important and all that. But as I mentioned briefly at the beginning, it's about the knowledge that it's possible. I will carry this memory with me for all future interactions with women. I know what I'm capable of and this frame of mind is what it's all about.
  6. Dumb luck. I'd be lying if I said there wasn't an element of blind luck involved. How many girls were within eyesight of me and also prepared to have sex with a new guy that day? Likely just the one. I mean had we simply not crossed paths at all that day then the thing never would have happened. It's a strange thought.
Well that is all I can think of. I hope you enjoyed the story and please offer any thoughts you have, I spent way too much time typing this up lol.
 
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Good evening

I share this story because it feels like the culmination of my whole RP journey. I hope others can see themselves in my (former) self and get inspiration to become the most attractive version of themselves as well. Safe to say I've never been more confident in my life and I hope others can achieve this bountiful frame of mind as well.

Outline: First I share the story in detail (sorry if it's long winded, I have a meticulous writing style at least for anecdotes), with my real-time thoughts in italics, then I discuss some of the RP lessons and other takeways that led to the climax of last night.

The following story takes place on February 2 2021.

1pm: I walk out of the resort bar where I had been having a beer with the guys I was skiing with. They decided to leave and I wanted to meet some other friends in the line for the gondola to ride with them. I am walking by the gondy line looking for the friends when I hear suddenly "Hey you!" directed at me. I look at the person speaking to me. All I can see about her is she is female and young. "You come in to the cafe sometimes! I recognize your jacket." She is referring to the cafe I stop by some times and the retro 80s ski jacket I wear that makes me stand out in the best way possible and also makes me instantly recognizable by anyone who can see me. "Yup, that's me". We chat briefly, I thought she was alone and asked if she needed someone to ride in the gondy with. "Yeah sure!" she replies, and I open the barrier and cut the 30 minute line to hop in with her. I can remember very clearly that a piece of my mind immediately thought "potential sex" and my penis got the smallest bit excited for the distant chance of sex. You just met her, relax. "Hey I'm [censored], nice to meet you" she says and I tell her my name. Once in the line with her she turns to the group that was standing a little off to the side and says these are her friends, nice to meet you etc. Oh great, joining a group of strangers is not what I signed up for. But at least I skipped the whole line up. We get in the gondy and the group is very chill, I cracked a couple jokes that got laughs. I notice she has gorgeous green eyes. Over the next few hours we skiied together, drank beers on the lift, got to know each other a bit more (I explain I fled the covid restrictions in my home city and am new to the ski town), and had an absolutely fantastic afternoon ripping down the mountain on pow day. [Side bar: pow day is one of the best feelings a human can experience and puts every one in the best mood they're capable of]. Since it's covid and we are fully geared up and all we can see of each other is our faces for brief periods of time - saw that she was very pretty. There was no flirting yet at this point. I mentioned I have a hot tub and invited her and her friends to come hang out and keep crushing beers after, they are open to the idea.

3:30pm: none of them wanted to stop by the same resort resto as earlier for a beer, but I had to go inside quickly so we swapped numbers and agreed to meet later. I went in to the resto to grab something I left there and had spotted some coworkers at a table and asked to join them for a pint. She texted me first saying "I am down for the hot tub, what time?" I say let's do 5. She reads the text but doesnt reply for a little while. My old beta self would surely have sent a follow up text within minutes after she had left me on read, maybe even a phone call. Don't overthink it, she will reply if she wants to. Sure enough she replies some time a little later and says "I am trying to find a friend to join" which is fine by me, she just met me and this is standard procedure for chicks that just met a guy and get invited to his place. I reply and say cool, offer to pick her up on my way in to town to which she agrees. I take my time with the beer with my coworkers before leaving. I note this because the old beta me would have chugged the beer before paying as quickly as possible, and basically sprinted to the car to get back home as quick as humanly possible.

5pm: we are at my place and about to get in my hot tub. No friends of hers wanted to come. She strips and the first thing I look at is her bust, which excites me. The rest of her body is very stimulating and the whole package is far better than I could have expected given how this whole situation was just falling in to my lap on basically no effort on my part. I am still not thinking about any outcome for the night, but the old beta would have been utterly fixated on what his penis desired so badly as a vagina came somewhat closer within reach. What happened next is probably the best part of the entire memory, which was the (figurative) game that we played in the hot tub, where all my skills and experience over the years were put to the test as it was just her and I face to face in the hot tub while the sexual tension increased the more we spoke and drank. First we talk about my tattoos. This was a strong indication of what she was thinking because I learned long ago that 9 times out of 10 when a woman asks me about my tattoos it means she's sexually attracted to me. The conversation moved on to music. Then we talk about sex. Then we talk about drugs. Then we talk about doing all three at the same time. We are definitely on the same wavelength. This chick is getting even hotter the more she talks. The sexual tension is detectable, but not yet at level high enough to be acted upon. She says "I love your belly button!" To which I'm like, k, I'll take it. Lol. She wants to see it so I raise my stomach above the water and am angled so that my junk protruding from my bathing suit but I do not detect any effect this had on her (women are naturally skilled at hiding lustful feelings). I should ask her about her tattoos. The thought had barely finished crossing my mind when she says "Want to see my tattoos?". I was just about to ask, I say. She shows me her first two tats and then stands up and turns around practically shoving her ass in my face to show me the little tattoo on her butt cheek. I remain calm and still refuse to allow my thoughts to go towards where my penis wants them to go, in fact I can clearly remember thinking don't get excited yet, this would be a classic female move to just get up and go at the height of the sexual tension and have a laugh about it at home with her roommates. I know by now the touching needs to start, and I am thinking of ways to do it. I start grazing her gently under the water with my feet, testing for a response. There wasn't a strong response but she didn't back away either. We keep talking, I can't remember what it was but suddenly she couldn't take it any more and she jumped in to my arms and we started making out. Hard. All the tension of the last couple hours snapping spectacularly as we kissed intensely. Things escalated quickly. "You have the green light"my brain tells my penis. "I want to suck your pussy" I say. The only resistance from her was due to us being outdoors, there being neighbours. This concern quickly faded and we did things in full view, looking back I was kind of drunk at this point and was possibly seen by neighbours which is fucking greasy but what can you do. So now sex is on the table and based on what I had seen out of her personality over the past 6 hours I decide she is worth exploring beyond one night of fucking so I tell her "let's hold off on having sex, I generally don't like sex on the first night I met people so let's just build the tension and it makes it even better next time we see each other." I honest to god meant every word and she agreed with it.

7pm: we are on my bed doing doggy. I have a fist full of her hair, and a titty in the other hand and am pounding hard. As I promised her in the hot tub, I am sending her in to another dimension.

Now for the takeaways, which have been on my mind all day.

  1. Firstly and most importantly, or holding frame. As you probably noticed I had to continuously block my penis from wrestling control of the wheel throughout the entire process. I've slowly learned over time that allowing your dick to do any thinking is pure beta behaviour and is what leads to fuckups and disappointment in oneself most especially when combined alcohol for lowered or non existent impulse control. After yesterday, I wonder how important holding frame was to the final outcome. Had I broke form and allowed any beta behaviour whether excessively complimenting, texting too quickly, gone in for the kill to early, etc would she have been been turned off? Or let some of it slide? I can't be sure, it depends at which point in time she decided she wanted the D, something I plan to ask now I think of it.
  2. Related to point 1, the whole "not wanting it" thing. I have seen this paradox spoken of frequently in RP literature and for years could not wrap my head around it. RP tells you to lift, dress well, be groomed, go out and socialize basically spend huge amounts of time bettering yourself for the end goal of sexual attractiveness but it also tells you not to care about getting laid because women have this magical ability to know when you are not getting any or desperate. Totally contradictory to me because I know what not giving a fuck really looks like from certain friends, it is long unkempt hair, and beer, weed, vidya in a basement. Now I understand. The dick is the compass. You let it point you in a certain direction and nothing more than that. You do not under any circumstance allow it to start making the decisions on how to get to the destination, that is the brain's job. The brain must remain at the wheel right up until the dick is in her hand or wherever. That is the line to be walked to achieve success.
  3. Striking while the iron is hot. I honestly meant it when I said we should hold off. Yeah in my perfect world we would have held off and met up some time later this week and tried to pick up where we left off. But then I realized there may not be a next time. The girl is young and living her best YOLO life in a ski town. This could happen again to her again with another guy tomorrow. Am I really that special for it to be a one time thing? Maybe? Doubt it.
  4. Stand out somehow. I'm normally a very lowkey guy. My angle is to be stylish but not the least bit flashy. The ski jacket is actually very flashy and I have seen how positive a reaction is elicits from literally everyone. I am not saying be flashy and I am most definitely not going to try flashiness out as a general strategy but it has to be said that this flashy retro ski jacket with a fucking torn sleeve is this strange object that opened the door for the path I took in my universe.
  5. This win is not necessarily about the sex. Yes pussy is important and all that. But as I mentioned briefly at the beginning, it's about the knowledge that it's possible. I will carry this memory with me for all future interactions with women. I know what I'm capable of and this frame of mind is what it's all about.
  6. Dumb luck. I'd be lying if I said there wasn't an element of blind luck involved. How many girls were within eyesight of me and also prepared to have sex with a new guy that day? Likely just the one. I mean had we simply not crossed paths at all that day then the thing never would have happened. It's a strange thought.
Well that is all I can think of. I hope you enjoyed the story and please offer any thoughts you have, I spent way too much time typing this up lol.
 
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Congrats on the ascension, but you seem pretty low inhib to just be able to know what to do in that situation, or to have a big group of friends to be hanging out in a ski town with.
 
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Congrats on the ascension, but you seem pretty low inhib to just be able to know what to do in that situation, or to have a big group of friends to be hanging out in a ski town with.
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