Venting How is my mom so fucking clueless about dating?

[Total Imbecile]

She basically told me last week that she wants grandkids and then asked me for the 30940293th time when am I going to get a gf

The thing is I cant tell if shes just clueless or if she genuinely thinks I could just go out and get a gf whenever I want

When she was in her teens and 20s tons of guys pursued her but she literally ended up rejecting all of them, her rejection rate mustve been like 99.999% and then later she had to settle with my beta dad because playing hard to get made all the guys pursuing her realize its pointless to even try because shes a stuckup bitch

I get that she might not be aware of Tinder and how it gives women infinitely many options and shes probably not aware of the gender ratio imbalance but fuck I just dont see how she can be so clueless when she herself used to reject guys left and right

I think she thinks because Im her son Im somehow special and that any girl would be lucky to have me

She literally told me once to try to make a female friend and then convert her to a gf, like LOL no girl wants to date her friends, if a girl sees you as a friend its over, girls become friends with guys they dont feel attracted to

My sisters on the other hand know the truth and both have at some point in the past told me that I dont have a girlfriend because I cant get one despite me trying to lie that "Im focusing on school now" when asked about it

So annoying tbh

 

[Pain And Hatred]

she's a woman, thats why

 

[Gymcelled]

The thing is I cant tell if shes just clueless or if she genuinely thinks I could just go out and get a gf whenever I want

Sex is like buying mints for women. Hell it's probably easier considering mints cost something
Ever noticed how women talk about abortions as if sex fall out of the fucking sky? If that's the case then pregnancy also comes from nowhere in their mind.

Your mom probably thinks you're actively trying to NOT get a gf/sex, like you're doing it on purpose

 

[Meus]

She basically told me last week that she wants grandkids and then asked me for the 30940293th time when am I going to get a gf

The thing is I cant tell if shes just clueless or if she genuinely thinks I could just go out and get a gf whenever I want

When she was in her teens and 20s tons of guys pursued her but she literally ended up rejecting all of them, her rejection rate mustve been like 99.999% and then later she had to settle with my beta dad because playing hard to get made all the guys pursuing her realize its pointless to even try because shes a stuckup bitch

I get that she might not be aware of Tinder and how it gives women infinitely many options and shes probably not aware of the gender ratio imbalance but fuck I just dont see how she can be so clueless when she herself used to reject guys left and right

I think she thinks because Im her son Im somehow special and that any girl would be lucky to have me

She literally told me once to try to make a female friend and then convert her to a gf, like LOL no girl wants to date her friends, if a girl sees you as a friend its over, girls become friends with guys they dont feel attracted to

My sisters on the other hand know the truth and both have at some point in the past told me that I dont have a girlfriend because I cant get one despite me trying to lie that "Im focusing on school now" when asked about it

So annoying tbh

Projection. She was constantly pursued and thinks men also get that much interest when in reality we get fucking jackshit.

Any girl would kill herself immediately if she had to live as a male.

 

[Gymcelled]

how she can be so clueless when she herself used to reject guys left and right

She thinks this is universal. That everyone rejects tons of people

She literally told me once to try to make a female friend and then convert her to a gf, like LOL no girl wants to date her friends, if a girl sees you as a friend its over, girls become friends with guys they dont feel attracted to

Typical. Women can fuck any of their friends IF they wanted to. Men can't do that. But she can never put herself in the place of a man and imagine what it's like

 

[Edmund_Kemper]

My mom thought I’d get to a uni and finish in 4 years and have a good job right after and marry at 27. She still has hope. I’m 23 and my future... I don’t have one!

 

[Babica Yaga]

My sister and mom keep fucking nagging me to use Tinder. Even after I told them I hadn't any success after 6 months they keep fucking nagging me about it... I seriously need to move back out again

 

[Total Imbecile]

My sister and mom keep fucking nagging me to use Tinder. Even after I told them I hadn't any success after 6 months they keep fucking nagging me about it... I seriously need to move back out again

LOL they will probably tease you once youre not able to a single match

Its not even worth trying to use tinder if youre sub5, you will just further destroy your self esteem

 

[Deleted member 17606]

When it comes to these things women dont think they feel.

 

[Over_this_Life]

My mom isn’t around anymore so i dont have to worry about her complaining about grand children

she's a woman, thats why

My weight in pounds iq

 

[Deleted member 27204]

she's a woman, thats why

 

[kikecel]

she's a woman, thats why

 

[ReconElement]

She's not clueless, a woman can never be clueless about lookism, it's inherent to them. At best she's just acting.

 

[Cessetto]

My mum used to be like that when I was in my 20s and I still lived in family. Clueless, bluepilled and she also seemed like searching for reasons for arguing about this topic. She used to yell at me also about my lack of social life even though I was full of friends.
As I moved to another city for working and I am being close to my 30s as a KVV she seems like having accepted it is not and was not my fault. She also accepted the idea that a poor appearance is the only reason of a lack of romantic and sexual life. This is why she finally gave up on telling me to get a girlfriend.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

She basically told me last week that she wants grandkids and then asked me for the 30940293th time when am I going to get a gf

The thing is I cant tell if shes just clueless or if she genuinely thinks I could just go out and get a gf whenever I want

When she was in her teens and 20s tons of guys pursued her but she literally ended up rejecting all of them, her rejection rate mustve been like 99.999% and then later she had to settle with my beta dad because playing hard to get made all the guys pursuing her realize its pointless to even try because shes a stuckup bitch

I get that she might not be aware of Tinder and how it gives women infinitely many options and shes probably not aware of the gender ratio imbalance but fuck I just dont see how she can be so clueless when she herself used to reject guys left and right

I think she thinks because Im her son Im somehow special and that any girl would be lucky to have me

She literally told me once to try to make a female friend and then convert her to a gf, like LOL no girl wants to date her friends, if a girl sees you as a friend its over, girls become friends with guys they dont feel attracted to

My sisters on the other hand know the truth and both have at some point in the past told me that I dont have a girlfriend because I cant get one despite me trying to lie that "Im focusing on school now" when asked about it

So annoying tbh

My mum used to be like that when I was in my 20s and I still lived in family. Clueless, bluepilled and she also seemed like searching for reasons for arguing about this topic. She used to yell at me also about my lack of social life even though I was full of friends.
As I moved to another city for working and I am being close to my 30s as a KVV she seems like having accepted it is not and was not my fault. She also accepted the idea that a poor appearance is the only reason of a lack of romantic and sexual life. This is why she finally gave up on telling me to get a girlfriend.

I am envious reading these experiences. My mother has never asked about a GF/GFs, demanded me to do something to get a one etc. I have never talked with her anything related to sexuality or not having a GF, ever. Once or twice I have complained about acne spot (the pain, not the look even!) to her, and she always just completely goes silent and does not want to talk about it at all and changes subject or goes away.

Neither of you is a truecel. If you are a truecel, your mother never talks about these things with you.

 

[Cope_Time]

I am envious reading these experiences. My mother has never asked about a GF/GFs, demanded me to do something to get a one etc. I have never talked with her anything related to sexuality or not having a GF, ever. Once or twice I have complained about acne spot (the pain, not the look even!) to her, and she always just completely goes silent and does not want to talk about it at all and changes subject or goes away.

Neither of you is a truecel. If you are a truecel, your mother never talks about these things with you.

Tbh, they never asked, never, I guess they knows that I'm a failure.

 

[Trump2020]

My mom never really talked much about dating and stuff, but she used to do it every once in a while years ago. Now I think she has just assumed I'm an incel and will be one forever.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

Actually I want to ban all these non-truecels who live in a totally different reality than us whose parents never mention anything related to getting a girlfriend. You are so-called "fakecel" if your parents nag about getting a girlfriend.

I can't even imagine the joy of some day introducing my (real, not paid escort/actor) GF to my mom to her big surprise, but it's 99,98 % not going to happen.

 

[Dr. Dicklet]

Projection. She was constantly pursued and thinks men also get that much interest when in reality we get fucking jackshit.

Any girl would kill herself immediately if she had to live as a male.

Hit the nail on the head

 

[The Abyss]

Tell her to go find you one lol.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

I got brutally blackpilled when my mom told me about all the guys she rejected. then she chose my truecel dad because he was IQ mogger

 

[Ellsworth]

she's a woman, thats why

 

[cvh1991]

She basically told me last week that she wants grandkids and then asked me for the 30940293th time when am I going to get a gf

The thing is I cant tell if shes just clueless or if she genuinely thinks I could just go out and get a gf whenever I want

When she was in her teens and 20s tons of guys pursued her but she literally ended up rejecting all of them, her rejection rate mustve been like 99.999% and then later she had to settle with my beta dad because playing hard to get made all the guys pursuing her realize its pointless to even try because shes a stuckup bitch

I get that she might not be aware of Tinder and how it gives women infinitely many options and shes probably not aware of the gender ratio imbalance but fuck I just dont see how she can be so clueless when she herself used to reject guys left and right

I think she thinks because Im her son Im somehow special and that any girl would be lucky to have me

She literally told me once to try to make a female friend and then convert her to a gf, like LOL no girl wants to date her friends, if a girl sees you as a friend its over, girls become friends with guys they dont feel attracted to

My sisters on the other hand know the truth and both have at some point in the past told me that I dont have a girlfriend because I cant get one despite me trying to lie that "Im focusing on school now" when asked about it

So annoying tbh

Women are always fucking clueless on dating — they live in a bubble where they can always get sex and relationships trivially and get to be extremely picky all their lives at least til they hit the wall (even then their options are often better than most men).

Do not ask women for advice on dating, they have no idea what they’re talking about and are always dishonest about their actual motives vs stated motives.

Alpha fucks/beta bux, hypergamy, dual mating strategy and all that are all true and men should go to the science/blackpill studies that have been done rather than ask women for advice which doesn’t work.

Non Chads are invisible to women and they only compare themselves to Chad has been my observation so that probably also contributes to their incorrect perceptions.

 

[Emba]

Is your mom single?

 

[Deleted member 27161]

she's a woman, thats why

 

[Deleted member 33472]

Because women think we can just go and pick up a date at complete will.

 

[Pixycel]

A. she is a women and pretty much any guy would be willing to go out with her if given the chance.
B. She grew up in a different era before the internet and online dating.

Better yet ask her about all the guys she rejected in the past and then ask how she thought they ended up later in life.

 

[Dregster]

 

[radishman]

I literally never left the house except for food and work (when I did work) and she still expected grandkids. Foids, especially older ones are delusional to the struggles of males that aren't chads.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

She basically told me last week that she wants grandkids and then asked me for the 30940293th time when am I going to get a gf

The thing is I cant tell if shes just clueless or if she genuinely thinks I could just go out and get a gf whenever I want

When she was in her teens and 20s tons of guys pursued her but she literally ended up rejecting all of them, her rejection rate mustve been like 99.999% and then later she had to settle with my beta dad because playing hard to get made all the guys pursuing her realize its pointless to even try because shes a stuckup bitch

I get that she might not be aware of Tinder and how it gives women infinitely many options and shes probably not aware of the gender ratio imbalance but fuck I just dont see how she can be so clueless when she herself used to reject guys left and right

I think she thinks because Im her son Im somehow special and that any girl would be lucky to have me

She literally told me once to try to make a female friend and then convert her to a gf, like LOL no girl wants to date her friends, if a girl sees you as a friend its over, girls become friends with guys they dont feel attracted to

My sisters on the other hand know the truth and both have at some point in the past told me that I dont have a girlfriend because I cant get one despite me trying to lie that "Im focusing on school now" when asked about it

So annoying tbh

Just blackpill her already and stop letting people cope with the bluepill.

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

Sex is like buying mints for women. Hell it's probably easier considering mints cost something

 

[Linesnap99]

she is just gaslighting you. actually they want us dead anyway.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

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Strange image.

 

[IceStorm]

she's a woman, thats why

 

[Rixinuj]

This is so true, my mom (despite being attractive) never fucking realized how many better genetic partners she could have bred me to but no she chose a beta male narcissistic short guy. She was stacy tier but settled for the bottom of the barrel smv and me and my brother are suffering because we know we're undesireable. She rejected a white guy that had his life together and would have made chad babies.

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

It's like asking a cow how to cook a steak.

Women say they want a million things but we all know what they want, an attractive men ,preferably high status and high earner in good shape, scale it down based on age and SMV voila there's the blackpill.

 

[Thaway]

All femoids are retarded, your mom is no exception.

 

[Rixinuj]

All femoids are retarded, your mom is no exception.

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