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Blackpill I am tired of hearing about the NT meme [Personality theory destroyed thread] [Most people here are in fact NT]

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I want you guys to get this through your heads

personality and behavior = absolutely cope, it's cope, accept that

NT is meme too, unless you're low functioning autist (severely autistic) or something like that (aka severely mental)


Most people who claims being non-NT on .co and even on PSL forums are most likely NT, unless the person claims to have been truly diagnosed by real doctors irl, then well there's nothing much to do, even if he's larping would just be a waste of time arguing and he will probably not provide proof since he's not obliged


I would say that the true social difficulties of people here are depression, social anxiety, introversion etc... which are found in neurotypical people.

But again

People here are literally unattractive; ugly, framelet, manlet etc...
Which is why they were socially ostracized (due to being bullied etc...; negative feedback and reinforcement) during their developmental years and developed these conditions


also, an old thread of mine
https://looksmax.org/threads/personality-theory-destroyed.65213/









(out of order)

The conclusions of studies above is :

No evidence that personality plays any role In sexual attraction

Sexy people are more funnier than unattractive ones/Famales make attractive males think that they are funny (or good personality)

Being unattractive is death sentence/non perceived as a partner no matter how great your personality is

Bullies;Dark Triad guys maybe have more sex, but is just because of Physical Dominance and even more attractive face (you can't bully anyone when you're ugly, manlet for example...) ;people often confuse this, they see someone who act like an asshole with a girlfriend and start associating his success with girls due to his behavior aka dark triad, but is just a confusion of cause and affect (aka they're not understanding what is truly happening)

Attractive people with dark triad personality have more popularity, the same not occur with unattractive ones and their popularity will still be the same or lowered

Being attractive will make you get safer even behaving bad

Sexual attraction=Personality perceived


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How and why Dark Triad/Good personality exist is pure genes and enviroment combined

The looks of the person will create a feedback by himself and other people around him, because/and attract a type of enviroment and behavior/treatment of people ALSO depending in how bad or good your looks is creating a good or bad personality


Attractive/Good looking and strong = Good personality or Dark Triad (but perceived as good by women even being a Serial Killer)

Ugly and weak = Creepy loser disgusting serial killer/rapist etc..., but is in fact a loser who does nothing to anyone, and just because of his looks even if he tries the dark triad don't work, because he IS UGLY;not attractive and will be seen as a try harder and a joke


The entire concept of Personality is flawed because attraction is entirely primal (I mean, it's a more physical thing i.e physical attributes), so there's no why or reason to personality works or be somewhat important even in small percentage (imagine thinking that woman will want a children with someone because of his personality, when personality makes nothing to chances of survival and evolution) also, personality is by genes too as you can see by everything here (it still goes back to looks, by halo effect and feedback;reinforcement).
 
OWLGOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you still post on .me?

and yes
I am not incel because I am non NT
I am non NT because I am incel.
 
 
agreed. the reason i didn't have normal social development is due to my looks. i was fine through 5th grade but once i got acne in middle school my social life went to shit
 
not as much as I used to



exactly
You are posting Chad bro.
I am spending more time here too but bro I just cant without the react button ffs.
agreed. the reason i didn't have normal social development is due to my looks. i was fine through 5th grade but once i got acne in middle school my social life went to shit
Same bro I was progressing well till I developed eczema and hair thinned due to medical conditions.
It essentially marked my death.
 
agreed. the reason i didn't have normal social development is due to my looks. i was fine through 5th grade but once i got acne in middle school my social life went to shit

And I hit my head with a crowbar.
 
People here are literally unattractive; ugly, framelet, manlet etc...
Which is why they were socially ostracized (due to being bullied etc...; negative feedback and reinforcement) during their developmental years and developed these conditions
 
this thread should unironically be stickied
 
"NT" should be replaced with "Inhib"
 
0-6 Subhumans: NT and social circle doesn't matter unless you're giga status maxxed by being famous, a celebrity or filthy rich. Example https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_C._Reilly

6 -8 Normie: Needs to have a strong NT and a social circle

8 - 9 Chadlight: Needs to be NT and social circle, can on a rare occasions get away with no social circle with some NT larping.

9-10 Chad: Can literally be a retard, say or do anything and foids will think "it's so sweet". Foids will laugh and think he has a great "heart" even with severe tourette's syndrome.
 
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Why tf does the linked thread glow orange? Made me think something was wrong with my monitor. :feelsUgh:

Of course chad will always smash even if non NT. Looks>everything. The thing is that the vast majority of non NT are uglier and more retarded than NT, and NT are already invisible to foid due to being -8/10. So being non NT is twice the death sentence, there is just no hope if your aren't born a chad.
 
Framelet, weak jawed manlets will become non-NT from the bullying/social rejection growing up.

Even if they magically became tall and musclular, they''ll still have phychologial tramau from their development years, which will make incredibly nervous around people.

Being ugly turns you non-NT
 
The low functioning vs. high functioning dichotomy of autism is a false one, which only concerns whether you are exploitable enough to become a wageslave (high functioning) or not (low functioning).

Paradoxically, "low functioning" autists are better at social relationships than "high functioning" ones, and are more likely to get disability buxx and less likely to commit suicide, because what matters here isn't your capability to relate to others or self-actualize through your libido, but be a cog in the technological-industrial machine, whose highest standard is social alienation.
 
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I am diagnosed with autism, but I am a mild case. Even I think that the importance of being NT is overrated though. My height is a much bigger issue than my autism.
 
Personality doesn’t matter
 
If you can't recognize that a significant portion of the active users here are autistic (30%) then I don't know what to tell you.

Certainly you're not very observant. In the poll or any survey around 30% say they are diagnosed with autism. It's very easy to tell everyone that has autism apart even here.

Being bullied doesn't make people develop congenital autism it makes you socially awkward which is different. Not to mention many here were diagnosed as children.

The reason why it isn't a cope is because being social/socially functioning or trying is a requirement to know if you're an incel and considering that many autists and people on this forum do neither.
Well it makes sense why people would deny it.

It's not about personality. It's about increasing exposure/opportunities/access to women largely. Also the fact that even of someone was into them an autist would not be able to tell.

I don't know if you can be incel just because you're autistic. I know that many end up as virgins who otherwise wouldn't because of it but it always seems to come back to a lack of effort.

Granted I wouldn't know how hard it is to be social and talk to peoole as an autist given the fact that I'm not one.
 
Officially diagnosed & social anxiety, bullying at school, lack of investment from parents & rampant mental health problems present in parents, no support network, grew up in poverty.

I can see how a NT with a shit start can go on to exhibit symptoms associated with ASD but the brains functioning is still different. Getting tired from interaction v charging up is a major indicator.
I don't know if you can be incel just because you're autistic. I know that many end up as virgins who otherwise wouldn't because of it but it always seems to come back to a lack of effort.

Granted I wouldn't know how hard it is to be social and talk to peoole as an autist given the fact that I'm not one.

Many wouldn't be permavirgins if NT, I'm not saying they'd be slayers but could certainly get something, marriage etc..

An attractive autistic guy can get bitches & be a complete retard, probably arrogant too due to looks overriding the impulse of ppl to shit on a sperg.

Can't speak for others but socialising with ASD is like:

Not sure what to talk about or say
Expecting your response or opener to receive negativity.
Can't relate to experiences others talk about.
Small talk is boring & a waste of time.
Hard to tell when there's a gap to get your say, like merging on a blind corner & you're the slower car.
Ignored.
Misunderstandings.
Not getting the subtlety of something said.
Taking things at face value, too logical.
Body fucking you up like shaking, stuttering while you're in your head saying quit fucking up.
Mind racing, 100 thoughts about all different things happening at once.
Something said in a conversation finally dawning on you 10 minutes or an hour later.
Struggling to have tunnel vision & block out background distractions like noise & movements.
Eye contact sucks & reading 8f body language is compromised while your body language or lack of facial expressions confuse others.
Losing track of your thoughts as you're talking if forcing eye contact while talking.
Using too verbose a vocabulary, struggling to get your point across with as few words as possible.
What you actually want to say or talk about is not socially acceptable.
 
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Officially diagnosed & social anxiety, bullying at school, lack of investment from parents & rampant mental health problems present in parents, no support network, grew up in poverty.

I can see how a NT with a shit start can go on to exhibit symptoms associated with ASD but the brains functioning is still different. Getting tired from interaction v charging up is a major indicator.


Many wouldn't be permavirgins if NT, I'm not saying they'd be slayers but could certainly get something, marriage etc..

An attractive autistic guy can get bitches & be a complete retard, probably arrogant too due to looks overriding the impulse of ppl to shit on a sperg.

Can't speak for others but socialising with ASD is like:

Not sure what to talk about or say
Expecting your response or opener to receive negativity.
Can't relate to experiences others talk about.
Small talk is boring & a waste of time.
Hard to tell when there's a gap to get your say, like merging on a blind corner & you're the slower car.
Ignored.
Misunderstandings.
Not getting the subtlety of something said.
Taking things at face value, too logical.
Body fucking you up like shaking, stuttering while you're in your head saying quit fucking up.
Mind racing, 100 thoughts about all different things happening at once.
Something said in a conversation finally dawning on you 10 minutes or an hour later.
Struggling to have tunnel vision & block out background distractions like noise & movements.
Eye contact sucks & reading 8f body language is compromised while your body language or lack of facial expressions confuse others.
Losing track of your thoughts as you're talking if forcing eye contact while talking.
Using too verbose a vocabulary, struggling to get your point across with as few words as possible.
What you actually want to say or talk about is not socially acceptable.
I have all the interests, small-talk, and stuff like that which isn't surprising because it's the only area I would rate as autistic in. The end result of that is I'm able to my social in classroom settings and the sort, but I can't have an actual meaningful conversation with most people because either: 1) I have nothing in common with them or 2) can't really talk about that stuff in public anyways.
 
I want you guys to get this through your heads

personality and behavior = absolutely cope, it's cope, accept that

NT is meme too, unless you're low functioning autist (severely autistic) or something like that (aka severely mental)


Most people who claims being non-NT on .co and even on PSL forums are most likely NT, unless the person claims to have been truly diagnosed by real doctors irl, then well there's nothing much to do, even if he's larping would just be a waste of time arguing and he will probably not provide proof since he's not obliged


I would say that the true social difficulties of people here are depression, social anxiety, introversion etc... which are found in neurotypical people.

But again

People here are literally unattractive; ugly, framelet, manlet etc...
Which is why they were socially ostracized (due to being bullied etc...; negative feedback and reinforcement) during their developmental years and developed these conditions


also, an old thread of mine
https://looksmax.org/threads/personality-theory-destroyed.65213/
NT might be exaggerated but it's true
 
I have all the interests, small-talk, and stuff like that which isn't surprising because it's the only area I would rate as autistic in. The end result of that is I'm able to my social in classroom settings and the sort, but I can't have an actual meaningful conversation with most people because either: 1) I have nothing in common with them or 2) can't really talk about that stuff in public anyways.
End result, you feel cut off & isolated. Can't be yourself as it would be met with a lot of negativity & strife but bullshitting to fit in either doesn't sit well with you, seems a waste of time or you wouldn't be able to pull it off.
 
Redneckmaxxing disproves lookism. NT is alpha and omega.
 
If you can't recognize that a significant portion of the active users here are autistic (30%) then I don't know what to tell you.

Certainly you're not very observant. In the poll or any survey around 30% say they are diagnosed with autism. It's very easy to tell everyone that has autism apart even here.

Being bullied doesn't make people develop congenital autism it makes you socially awkward which is different. Not to mention many here were diagnosed as children.

The reason why it isn't a cope is because being social/socially functioning or trying is a requirement to know if you're an incel and considering that many autists and people on this forum do neither.
Well it makes sense why people would deny it.

It's not about personality. It's about increasing exposure/opportunities/access to women largely. Also the fact that even of someone was into them an autist would not be able to tell.

I don't know if you can be incel just because you're autistic. I know that many end up as virgins who otherwise wouldn't because of it but it always seems to come back to a lack of effort.

Granted I wouldn't know how hard it is to be social and talk to peoole as an autist given the fact that I'm not one.
:feelswhere: do I have autism?
 
:feelswhere: do I have autism?
It's possible. I think you mentioned before that you had trouble making eye contact and it caused you a lot of stress trying to do it IIRC. There's different causes for that than autism though.

But that's just from reading the content you write. I was more so talking about people's behavior and writing style on the forum rather than them detailing their personal experiences. So in that regard I would say no, not really.
 
damn you're pretty postmaxxed on looksmax ngl :feelsokman:
 
It's possible. I think you mentioned before that you had trouble making eye contact and it caused you a lot of stress trying to do it IIRC. There's different causes for that than autism though.

But that's just from reading the content you write. I was more so talking about people's behavior and writing style on the forum rather than them detailing their personal experiences. So in that regard I would say no, not really.
I remember watching videos of eye contact and practicing on that, took alot of years before I could do it jfl
 
Never deny the autismpill. As someone who was clinically diagnosed with ASD, and seen all the black pill studies on autism and sex/romance, it irks me when this is pushed aside like it means nothing, when it seems that (genuine cases, at least) autism is one of the biggest factors of inceldom. 40% of autists are sexless, as a low-end estimate, according to studies, and that exceeds the most liberal estimates of sexlessness amongst the general population (of which ugly, NT men are a part of) at 30%.

Autism is a game ender, and I'm tired of pretending it's not.
 
If personality doesnt matter then why do 90% incels have the same type of personality? High inhib, introvert, quiet, nervous, anxious, dont know what to say etc etc.

Sure you can argue this is result of inceldom/bad looks rather than cause but my experience irl suggests the opposite because vast majority of incels i have known are normal looking but mental wrecks
 
Autism is a game ender, and I'm tired of pretending it's not.
People like the OP have a problem admitting this because they fundamentally agree with the presupposition that a personality is alterable, and that it is your fault if you have a "bad" personality, when it is really not. Personality is, more or less, etched in stone during your early childhood. And autism is actually conducive to several personality types, depending upon your upbringing and mental constitution.

If you are a high functioning autist who is acutely aware of your social alienation, for example, then it is likely that you've developed Avoidant Personality Disorder with Borderline characteristics, which causes massive inhibition, fear of intimacy, love/hate cycles with your "favorite person," sado-masochism, and ego-dystonic NEETdom. This describes not just a few people on this board, including me.
 
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Hard to tell when there's a gap to get your say, like merging on a blind corner & you're the slower car.

Brutal driver licence pill.

Not sure what to talk about or say
Expecting your response or opener to receive negativity.
Can't relate to experiences others talk about.
Small talk is boring & a waste of time.
Hard to tell when there's a gap to get your say, like merging on a blind corner & you're the slower car.
Ignored.
Misunderstandings.
Not getting the subtlety of something said.
Taking things at face value, too logical.
Body fucking you up like shaking, stuttering while you're in your head saying quit fucking up.
Mind racing, 100 thoughts about all different things happening at once.
Something said in a conversation finally dawning on you 10 minutes or an hour later.
Struggling to have tunnel vision & block out background distractions like noise & movements.
Eye contact sucks & reading 8f body language is compromised while your body language or lack of facial expressions confuse others.
Losing track of your thoughts as you're talking if forcing eye contact while talking.
Using too verbose a vocabulary, struggling to get your point across with as few words as possible.
What you actually want to say or talk about is not socially acceptable.

That is me...
 
and yet a constantly increasing neuroticism is one of the reasons younger people are having less sex.
not only men but even women(starting from the millenial gen) are having less sex and since "the look theory" can't be applied to women there must also be others reasons.
and anyway considering how easily available men are, why choose a 8/10 retard when they can have a 8/10 interesting,extroverted and charismatic guy?
 
Lol @ people in this thread saying theyre actually autistic, and the guy saying dont you know alot of people here are autistic. Doesnt that go hand in hand with this thread post? Being NT just means being attractive and being non-NT is just being ugly. An incel cannot "become NT" like PUApillers would suggest, because at the end of the day, the incel is excluded from all of the sex and dating events that happen in the NT world, thus making incel never capable of fully integrating into their world. You would simply be the clown, the loud filler guy, the entertainer, the third wheel, who if you lose your entertianment value you lose your seat at the table.
 
Might wanna get that looked at if you feel that list is you & the car obsession makes sense now.

Well, I took a crowbar to my head (temple). So, there mgiht be something wrong with my brain and it would explain a lot, but why would it explain my obession with cars though? Cars are pretty much significant and if yo ucannot drive as a grown up man, you are being emasculated by females for the rest of your life.
 
Still don't know what NT means but yeah yall are autistix
 
agreed. the reason i didn't have normal social development is due to my looks. i was fine through 5th grade but once i got acne in middle school my social life went to shit
Have you read this? A guy cleared his skin and his life improved immensely. Then his acne came back and everything turned to shit again.

 
Well, I took a crowbar to my head (temple). So, there mgiht be something wrong with my brain and it would explain a lot, but why would it explain my obession with cars though? Cars are pretty much significant and if yo ucannot drive as a grown up man, you are being emasculated by females for the rest of your life.
How'd that series of events go?

True about cars but most would figure out a way to make it stick & pass or give up & move on, you talk about the license pill so much it's like an obsession & autists are known for being absolutely obsessed with a handful of niche subjects & not caring for a wide variety of subjects. On the contrary normies like to have about a 2 minute windows worth of talking point information on everything so as to deceive others that they're not clueless on anything as they fear being knowledge mogged so they tend to learn a handful of go to words on stuff.

They're in the main only clued up on whatever subject their job is about but not deeply versed in much else.
 
True about cars but most would figure out a way to make it stick & pass or give up & move on, you talk about the license pill so much it's like an obsession & autists are known for being absolutely obsessed with a handful of niche subjects & not caring for a wide variety of subjects. On the contrary normies like to have about a 2 minute windows worth of talking point information on everything so as to deceive others that they're not clueless on anything as they fear being knowledge mogged so they tend to learn a handful of go to words on stuff.

I just cannot anymore. For normal people it is so easy and they can get behind of it without any efforts whatsoever, while me on the other hand, I cannot stop thinking about this topic, I even have dreams about it, and yet I am unable to overcome it.
 
I just cannot anymore. For normal people it is so easy and they can get behind of it without any efforts whatsoever, while me on the other hand, I cannot stop thinking about this topic, I even have dreams about it, and yet I am unable to overcome it.
What's the problem? You're on the simulator still right, not even behind the wheel of the real thing? Is it a spacial thing, gear selection, clutch, brake, accel smoothness? There's some major thing blocking the rest.
 
What's the problem? You're on the simulator still right, not even behind the wheel of the real thing?

I am done with it and I did not make any progress with driving simulation whatsoever. I also started with real driving first but I was so bad, that the driving teaher told me to do driving simulation first.
 
I am done with it and I did not make any progress with driving simulation whatsoever. I also started with real driving first but I was so bad, that the driving teaher told me to do driving simulation first.
Did he state what was bad specifically? Something that trumped the rest.
 
Did he state what was bad specifically? Something that trumped the rest.

Basically just everything. He told me I have no foundation whatsoever and he also told me, that I can see it for myself that I did not make any progress therefore I should do driving simulation first because it is also less expensive.
And despite the fact that he might be a bit too direct, he is still right.
 
Basically just everything. He told me I have no foundation whatsoever and he also told me, that I can see it for myself that I did not make any progress therefore I should do driving simulation first because it is also less expensive.
And despite the fact that he might be a bit too direct, he is still right.
How can someone be bad at everything, do you struggle to walk in a straight line or nearly bump into things often?

Did you get nervous & freeze up or your short term memory went to shit? Get distracted?
 
How can someone be bad at everything, do you struggle to walk in a straight line or nearly bump into things often?

I am not bad at everything though. I am kinda fit and I am kinda good at sports. I am also on a competitive level when it comes to certain games. At least I have something going on for me but that is basically it.
When it comes to normal topics I am unable to get behind of it and I am struggling with it. I have no or little working memory.

Did you get nervous & freeze up or your short term memory went to shit? Get distracted?

I do get somewhat nervous when it comes to certain social situations, for example I might get even nervous when I have to hand over the money in order to pay. Afterwards I think about it and how I moved myself. My memory is also somewhat weird. I can remeber specific information, but I also forget significant information.
I also get distracted easily and I also think often about alternative realities where I am in a much better position, basically daydreaming like @anon1822
It is most likely a defensive mechanism and I am very well aware of it. It is like, I am just watching myself doing things.
 

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