Serious I Can't Relate To Anyone Who Feels "Loneliness" (I've Literally Never Felt It)

[BlkPillPres]

If there's one thing I'm grateful for, its the fact that I'm a "true introvert"

Not the currently trendy "normie trying to sound quirky" kind of introvert, but an actual introvert

I have never once in my life felt what a lot of you guys described, I've never felt bad for not having someone to talk to, or being alone

Even when I was younger I just wanted to be intimate with women, but I never had anything like a "oneitis", any cute girl would do

From a young age I had an extremely active imagination (still do tbh)

I imagined worlds and adventures, I'd spend hours outside in my back yard, with a fucking huge stick (used as a staff lol) and basically play out an entire series all from my mind (of course I'm the MC, I can still remember some of it lol), and it wasn't me forcing it, I'd literally get lost in the story, it felt natural to me

I spent most of my time alone, day dreaming (we did not have cable when I was younger). I'd day dream a lot. When we finally got cable I started watching TV, and when a computer came into the picture I was hooked, anime, gaming, etc

I do remember playing with my siblings too, we did play together a lot, but I was the only one that I remembered that played with themselves JFL (no, don't take that in the messed up way) I mean it as imaginary play

Yes I had friends at school and I wanted them to like me, but its not because I wanted to always be around them, its because it was fun to be around them, but I could have fun all by myself too, so its kind of a "take what you can get" deal with me. I can have fun and hang out with others, but I prefer to be by myself (less stressful that way)

Even though I was socially inept in my teens I still had an awareness of women's lack of attraction towards me and the importance of women being attracted to you, so when friends would ask me out, I'd never go, because I knew they'd invite girls or conversations would drift towards who is dating, etc, and I'd always be the guy left out. So going out with other people when you know you are a social failure, is pretty much you just setting yourself up to face ridicule and shame, its you placing yourself into an inconvenient scenario

A lot of you guys talk about how lonely you feel because you don't have a GF or friends, but for me its the opposite, its when I'm alone that I'm at my happiest, the moments when I felt the most at peace were the times when there were consecutive days where I never had a conversation with another person and I just played games, watched anime, etc all day

I want to be alone and I plan on being alone

I'm the kind of guy that curses when I hear a knock on the door or the bell ring at the gate and I hear a family members voice (someone came to visit), or even if its just someone who came to see someone else in the house, I hate being disturbed by other people

When I'm finished wealthmaxxing I want to do something special, I want to spend an entire week not talking to another human or seeing another human in person, just me, entertainment and food. To me that would be a dream come true. I literally feel calmed down everytime I think about doing this, its kind of part of my dream, I just want a nice week away from everyone and everything.

 

[curryboy420]

cope

 

[AnotherInsertCel1]

cope

 

[FlamingCel]

cope

 

[Deleted member 30682]

You never feel lonely; you don't desire a significant other; you're vehemently against defitism; you have le winner mentality; WEALTHMAXXIN... Seriously bro, why do you post all this shit? Stop stroking your own ego so hard

 

[InvisibleCel]

Loneliness as an incel is like slowly drowning in a pitch black swamp for decades. How you can come to terms with enjoying it is beyond me.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Didn’t knew you had siblings

 

[Deleted member 19546]

its because it was fun to be around them, but I could have fun all by myself too, so its kind of a "take what you can get" deal with me.

Yeah that’s how everyone works, people don’t go to parties just because, they need to think it’s worth it,

so when friends would ask me out, I'd never go, because I knew they'd invite girls or conversations would drift towards who is dating, etc, and I'd always be the guy left out.

Exactly, so in your case your ROI was lower for you, which is why you chose not to go. Had you been attractive and known you could easily pick up a hottie, it would’ve been different. One of the main reasons for social events is to find a date. It’s always been like that.

But you know you’re unattractive, and your interests are uncommon and not something to talk to people about. etc.

Loneliness as an incel is like slowly drowning in a pitch black swamp for decades. How you can come to terms with enjoying it is beyond me.

Because he is a delusional narcissist.

I urge OP to think about when he’s 80 and looking back

 

[BlkPillPres]

Yeah that’s how everyone works, people don’t go to parties just because, they need to think it’s worth it,

You must not talk to normies at all, it literally is not like that for everyone, most people actually feel a NEED to communicate with others, many even telling me they'd feel lonely living by themselves and they couldn't stand not going out with friends every once in a while

Whereas I'd prefer to never have to go out with others, I'd have no problem regularly going to my favorite restaurant and eating at a table for one, I'd just zone out and enjoy the food, I'd likely be surrounded by couples though

I urge OP to think about when he’s 80 and looking back

I don't plan on living to even 60, who the fuck wants to be 80?

Do you really want to even make it to that age?

 

[Deleted member 30682]

Loneliness as an incel is like slowly drowning in a pitch black swamp for decades. How you can come to terms with enjoying it is beyond me.

If OP wasn't affected by loneliness at all he wouldn't be on an incel forum talking to fellow lonely guys, isn't that obvious?

 

[To koniec]

cope and you probably write this to feel superior to others

 

[BlkPillPres]

Loneliness as an incel is like slowly drowning in a pitch black swamp for decades. How you can come to terms with enjoying it is beyond me.

Its obviously not just me, a lot of people go around calling themselves "introverts" but they really aren't, the definition has been broadened a lot over time to where the meaning is pretty much lost, we'll have people posting tiktok videos that call themselves introverts (its just trendy to try and have a "quirk" these days)

People like me are introverts in the truest sense, we literally don't feel any desire to interact with other people period, and the only time we'll make an exception is if there are no alternatives or there is some benefit to us

I laugh and joke around with normies at work, because at work its boring and doing so helps pass the time, but when its time to clock out its like I "shift modes", I smile and wave and tell everyone "see you tomorrow" and when I'm out the building I just shift right back into BlkPillPres - "Man I gotta hurry up and get the fuck out of here, hope this wealthmaxxing shit works" lol

cope and you probably write this to feel superior to others

I don't see how this makes me superior, seems like you are projecting and its you that see's it as a "superior trait", I'm just pointing out that I can't relate to this specific thing I always see other incels complaining about

When I'm trying to assert my superiority on this forum you'll know, it will be my thread declaring I'm wealthmaxxed lol

 

[BummerDrummerOG]

Seriously bro, why do you post all this shit?

Schizophrenia

 

[Deleted member 30682]

Schizophrenia

I can't think of other reason really

 

[Babica Yaga]

Schizophrenia

wealthmaxxed

You will never wealthmaxx if you're posting here. Just cut the shit. For such a so called "blackpilled" incel you sure have a bluepilled fantasy thinking that you'll ever become rich

 

[Deleted member 26358]

Im the same way, my dad is too. He refers to it as "being a hermit."

 

[Deleted member 24297]

cope

 

[Lone-Star]

cope

 

[Deleted member 24297]

Also youre posting a lengthy thread on a forum.

95% of the internet is social interaction.


Your schizoid points wont stop you from breaking the first few hours in true solitary confinement

 

[Adachi]

I've just searched up what loneliness is and I cannot believe I've been using it wrong for so long. I thought loneliness was an objective state of being alone but apparently it is the unhappiness of being alone. In this regard I lend myself more to solitude and thinking about it now I actually never really understood this feeling of loneliness too.

As a kid I hated whenever anyone would describe me as timid as it suggested I was cowardly to make friends but in fact I just didn't like most people in general. Most people just assumed I was timid and they'd often attempt to include me with others which bothered me to no end. Though I did have friends throughout my life I never really had "close friends" I'd hang out with outside our shared interests because I liked what they could do for me but not for their character. I also never really had this covet for a girlfriend either because I saw most girls as annoying cunts and for good reason as I was very aware that they didn't like me (even though I never bothered them) which I guess is why I was easily swayed to the introduction of MGTOW.

This solitude is honestly a blessing. I've gained self love, self respect and self dignity, I wouldn't ever dare end my life because I don't have a girlfriend, I actually find that absurd.

 

[Atavistic Autist]

I believe the OP and this is one of the advantages of autism, unless and until you are socialized into defining your worth via interaction with others.

Before this happened to me in 1st grade, I was totally fine with being on my own, and in fact preferred it.

 

[Deleted member 818]

For me I enjoy being alone more than being around other people, but I've always wanted a friend or 2 who I could talk the shit and have fun with. I always fantasized about hanging with a group of people and doing silly stuff. Despite this I never really put much effort into socialising with my peers, I always liked to put my head in the clouds. If I'm ever invited to a party or outing I just end up going on my phone most of the time because I don't have anything to talk about with people. I think if you're with the right people socialising can be fun once in a while, but I prefer my own company most of the time.

 

[dirtykombatcel]

You've grown accustomed to loneliness throughout your life, it's your "comfort zone", you don't TRULY enjoy it.

And saying it's when you're at your "happiest" goes to show how beaten into darkness you were by your own life: you're calling a classic comfort-zone-level cope your "happiest moment".

Also, it's obvious how much ego-stroking you're doing, seeming proud by this trait of yours that makes you so "quirky" and "self-dependent" compared to others you deem weak.

To me you seem like a guy whose happiness and general well being relies around feeding into your ego, one way or another, usually by doing your best to detach from "social norms" you deem unacceptable or dumb without actually paying as much attention to them as you think you do.

 

[TINMAN]

I think it's actually the opposite. You've never felt what it's like to not be alone, so you don't realize how bad it is. Loneliness is a state of being for you.

 

[Blackpill Bishop]

I do relate to this cause I've been a 'Natural Introvert' ever since I was a small kid

My teachers would always complain to my parents that I'm not mixing with other children and 'doing my own thing'

Also, 99% of conversation people have on a daily basis is absolute utter inconsequential garbage

If you consciously analyze peoples conversations, you'll realize most of it is about things they absolutely have no control over, like the weather, traffic, celebrity gossip, sports, politics which has no bearing on their day to day lives

 

[Deleted member 25707]

You will never wealthmaxx if you're posting here. Just cut the shit. For such a so called "blackpilled" incel you sure have a bluepilled fantasy thinking that you'll ever become rich

@BlkPillPres has been here since early 2018. That's about 2.5 years. I wonder how much many he's made after all these years or maybe he's just a day dreamer afterall.

 

[Deleted member 19546]

You must not talk to normies at all, it literally is not like that for everyone, most people actually feel a NEED to communicate with others,

And so do you JFL you signed up here to talk about your feelings, beliefs, life.

we literally don't feel any desire to interact with other people period, and the only time we'll make an exception is if there are no alternatives or there is some benefit to us

Nigga then what are you doing here, do you get paid for posting here? Do you know how much better your life would be if you put those 1900+ hours to anything remotely productive?

like the weather, traffic, celebrity gossip, sports, politics which has no bearing on their day to day lives

The goal of those conversations is that each gives their little opinion and reaction to those events, however far they are, from that overtime you learn about the person and how they would behave in situations that actually involve them or you in the future.

Also more in depths conversations can evolve, if a detail is brought up that directs the convo to a more fruitful topic.

It’s not all useless formalities.

 

[happiless]

I want to spend an entire week not talking to another human or seeing another human in person, just me, entertainment and food.

Been there done that. Longterm utter isolation fucks with your mind as a human with instinctual needs. Despite being non-NT I still started to want social experiences like in all those anime I was watching. Here are some results of long term isolation: https://wizchan.org/dep/res/228904.html

Nowadways I'm still isolated, but I at least get to use my voice sometimes as a result of wageslaving.

 

[Deleted member 19079]

cope

 

[Deleted member 19546]

You've never felt what it's like to not be alone, so you don't realize how bad it is.

Yeah that’s a big part, I never felt much alone either until I realized I was getting older and missing out.

You've grown accustomed to loneliness throughout your life, it's your "comfort zone", you don't TRULY enjoy it.

And saying it's when you're at your "happiest" goes to show how beaten into darkness you were by your own life: you're calling a classic comfort-zone-level cope your "happiest moment".

Also, it's obvious how much ego-stroking you're doing, seeming proud by this trait of yours that makes you so "quirky" and "self-dependent" compared to others you deem weak.

To me you seem like a guy whose happiness and general well being relies around feeding into your ego, one way or another, usually by doing your best to detach from "social norms" you deem unacceptable or dumb without actually paying as much attention to them as you think you do.

High IQ, BTFO’d

 

[Harvester]

very legit tbh

Spoiler

not a letter

 

[Pengwin]

For me I enjoy being alone more than being around other people, but I've always wanted a friend or 2 who I could talk the shit and have fun with. I always fantasized about hanging with a group of people and doing silly stuff. Despite this I never really put much effort into socialising with my peers, I always liked to put my head in the clouds. If I'm ever invited to a party or outing I just end up going on my phone most of the time because I don't have anything to talk about with people. I think if you're with the right people socialising can be fun once in a while, but I prefer my own company most of the time.

This sums it up very well for me except for the fact that I haven't been to any parties and that despite my efforts I can't socialize or find peer friends.

 

[Deleted member 29001]

cope

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

Huge cope.

Why you are on this site in the first place if you never felt loneliness.

NO SOCIALIZE = LONELINESS (writing on internet is socialize)

You felt it but you are lying to boost your ego like a bitch.

 

[Deleted member 26140]

I can relate. For me, most of the pressure to socialize comes from external factors such as family and societal expectations.

 

[Deleted member 26923]

If OP wasn't affected by loneliness at all he wouldn't be on an incel forum talking to fellow lonely guys, isn't that obvious?

Tbh.

We are ALL social animals, humans are built like this, unless you are a schizo or something you definitely need, at leaat every once and awhile, physical contact with other human beings.

 

[CleverJester]

If there's one thing I'm grateful for, its the fact that I'm a "true introvert"

Not the currently trendy "normie trying to sound quirky" kind of introvert, but an actual introvert

I have never once in my life felt what a lot of you guys described, I've never felt bad for not having someone to talk to, or being alone

Even when I was younger I just wanted to be intimate with women, but I never had anything like a "oneitis", any cute girl would do

From a young age I had an extremely active imagination (still do tbh)

I imagined worlds and adventures, I'd spend hours outside in my back yard, with a fucking huge stick (used as a staff lol) and basically play out an entire series all from my mind (of course I'm the MC, I can still remember some of it lol), and it wasn't me forcing it, I'd literally get lost in the story, it felt natural to me

I spent most of my time alone, day dreaming (we did not have cable when I was younger). I'd day dream a lot. When we finally got cable I started watching TV, and when a computer came into the picture I was hooked, anime, gaming, etc

I do remember playing with my siblings too, we did play together a lot, but I was the only one that I remembered that played with themselves JFL (no, don't take that in the messed up way) I mean it as imaginary play

Yes I had friends at school and I wanted them to like me, but its not because I wanted to always be around them, its because it was fun to be around them, but I could have fun all by myself too, so its kind of a "take what you can get" deal with me. I can have fun and hang out with others, but I prefer to be by myself (less stressful that way)

Even though I was socially inept in my teens I still had an awareness of women's lack of attraction towards me and the importance of women being attracted to you, so when friends would ask me out, I'd never go, because I knew they'd invite girls or conversations would drift towards who is dating, etc, and I'd always be the guy left out. So going out with other people when you know you are a social failure, is pretty much you just setting yourself up to face ridicule and shame, its you placing yourself into an inconvenient scenario

A lot of you guys talk about how lonely you feel because you don't have a GF or friends, but for me its the opposite, its when I'm alone that I'm at my happiest, the moments when I felt the most at peace were the times when there were consecutive days where I never had a conversation with another person and I just played games, watched anime, etc all day

I want to be alone and I plan on being alone

I'm the kind of guy that curses when I hear a knock on the door or the bell ring at the gate and I hear a family members voice (someone came to visit), or even if its just someone who came to see someone else in the house, I hate being disturbed by other people

When I'm finished wealthmaxxing I want to do something special, I want to spend an entire week not talking to another human or seeing another human in person, just me, entertainment and food. To me that would be a dream come true. I literally feel calmed down everytime I think about doing this, its kind of part of my dream, I just want a nice week away from everyone and everything.

I can relate 99% your story but :
Would you still be a true introvert if you were a Chad ? The answer is probably no. You would have never heard of the word "blackpill". You are blackpilled by necessity (incel) just like the fact that you cope by necessity in order not to go insane, thinking that loneliness is not that bad while currently socializing with us.
Pure cope.

 

[Blackpill Bishop]

The goal of those conversations is that each gives their little opinion and reaction to those events, however far they are, from that overtime you learn about the person and how they would behave in situations that actually involve them or you in the future.

Also more in depths conversations can evolve, if a detail is brought up that directs the convo to a more fruitful topic.

It’s not all useless formalities.

I agree, it can certainly lead to more indepth conversations, but that is not what 95% of people do

I've been through school, university and the 9-5 job environment, and from what I've experienced most of these conversations do not lead anywhere

Everytime I've tried to steer the topic into more indepth issues, people ALWAYS reign the topic back to surface level shallow chatter and then I'm known as the 'serious boring guy'

The people who want to have indepth conversations are few and far between and its up to you if you think its worth your time to speak to hundreds of people to weed them out

 

[CrackingYs]

Being around people stresses me the fuck out. I literally cannot stand human beings anymore. I'm planning on Kaczinsky-maxxing.

 

[Deleted member 818]

This sums it up very well for me except for the fact that I haven't been to any parties and that despite my efforts I can't socialize or find peer friends.

Damn that’s too bad.

 

[Hate_my_life]

I'm the kind of guy that curses when I hear a knock on the door or the bell ring at the gate and I hear a family members voice (someone came to visit), or even if its just someone who came to see someone else in the house, I hate being disturbed by other people

Ok so it's not just me.

I even loathe texting my parents. I have nothing against them at all, yet every time I receive a message from them it sort of "disturbs" my flow. My existence. I just float through life. Living the same routine everyday in isolation. If it wasn't for my mother and father, I could easily go decades without speaking to someone and it wouldn't phase me.
I do have my periods where the magnitude of my situation does hit, but I prefer to be alone, however I have no influence on the outcome so I'm sent to be alone.

 

[Osentaku Otje]

I think it's actually the opposite. You've never felt what it's like to not be alone, so you don't realize how bad it is. Loneliness is a state of being for you.

used to think like OP too because i've been the most anti-social in groupes my whole life but if i didn't have this online shit i would've roped already and i still feel lonely as fuck without a gf

OP if you suddeny feel supper optimistic about your'e life use the energy for hobbys or work until it wears down again don't post it here

your'e story is cope but not a bad one, you can keep believing that if you want

 

[Benj-amin]

If there's one thing I'm grateful for, its the fact that I'm a "true introvert"

Not the currently trendy "normie trying to sound quirky" kind of introvert, but an actual introvert

I have never once in my life felt what a lot of you guys described, I've never felt bad for not having someone to talk to, or being alone

Even when I was younger I just wanted to be intimate with women, but I never had anything like a "oneitis", any cute girl would do

From a young age I had an extremely active imagination (still do tbh)

I imagined worlds and adventures, I'd spend hours outside in my back yard, with a fucking huge stick (used as a staff lol) and basically play out an entire series all from my mind (of course I'm the MC, I can still remember some of it lol), and it wasn't me forcing it, I'd literally get lost in the story, it felt natural to me

I spent most of my time alone, day dreaming (we did not have cable when I was younger). I'd day dream a lot. When we finally got cable I started watching TV, and when a computer came into the picture I was hooked, anime, gaming, etc

I do remember playing with my siblings too, we did play together a lot, but I was the only one that I remembered that played with themselves JFL (no, don't take that in the messed up way) I mean it as imaginary play

Yes I had friends at school and I wanted them to like me, but its not because I wanted to always be around them, its because it was fun to be around them, but I could have fun all by myself too, so its kind of a "take what you can get" deal with me. I can have fun and hang out with others, but I prefer to be by myself (less stressful that way)

Even though I was socially inept in my teens I still had an awareness of women's lack of attraction towards me and the importance of women being attracted to you, so when friends would ask me out, I'd never go, because I knew they'd invite girls or conversations would drift towards who is dating, etc, and I'd always be the guy left out. So going out with other people when you know you are a social failure, is pretty much you just setting yourself up to face ridicule and shame, its you placing yourself into an inconvenient scenario

A lot of you guys talk about how lonely you feel because you don't have a GF or friends, but for me its the opposite, its when I'm alone that I'm at my happiest, the moments when I felt the most at peace were the times when there were consecutive days where I never had a conversation with another person and I just played games, watched anime, etc all day

I want to be alone and I plan on being alone

I'm the kind of guy that curses when I hear a knock on the door or the bell ring at the gate and I hear a family members voice (someone came to visit), or even if its just someone who came to see someone else in the house, I hate being disturbed by other people

When I'm finished wealthmaxxing I want to do something special, I want to spend an entire week not talking to another human or seeing another human in person, just me, entertainment and food. To me that would be a dream come true. I literally feel calmed down everytime I think about doing this, its kind of part of my dream, I just want a nice week away from everyone and everything.

You have grown accustomed to being alone, and not only growing accustomed to it, but enjoying it.
I am the same way, the only difference is that I came to enjoy being alone when I realized how shitty I was being treated when I was in social situations, ever since fucking elementary school, I always enjoyed just sitting by my motherfucking self, fuckers would just harass me and laugh at me for how I looked, when these motherfuckers would try to talk to me and pretend that everything in the past didn't happen, I would just snap back at them. Eventually, No one began to bother me, and I became "invisible". Still to this day, I enjoy what I deem the privilege of being "invisible", no longer being made someone else's entertainment. I grew to despise Social settings.

Before I was even old enough to go to school, I used to be like a fucking socialite, I would never stop talking, but when I went through the meatgrinder known as the K-12 School system, I turned into a completely different fucking person entirely.

 

[Ellviss]

Schizophrenia

 

[muharremabi]

I don't think loneliness is a good thing and i think the more ugly you are the more lonely, depressed you are. But being an introvert is the best option for ugly incels. I would want to be a social person but not when i have a face thats hard to look at. Its pointless and you won't enjoy that social life the same way normies and chads do. You will just be a laughing stock.

 

[BITG]

cope

 

[BlkPillPres]

JFL, I click to show comments from people on my ignore list and there's a ton of comments (I ain't reading that shit, I already know what you're going to say, you're on my ignore list for a reason lol, keep posting though)

used to think like OP too because i've been the most anti-social in groupes my whole life but if i didn't have this online shit i would've roped already and i still feel lonely as fuck without a gf

OP if you suddeny feel supper optimistic about your'e life use the energy for hobbys or work until it wears down again don't post it here

your'e story is cope but not a bad one, you can keep believing that if you want

Please stop projecting, the only one coping is you to think that everyone has your limitations

I even loathe texting my parents. I have nothing against them at all, yet every time I receive a message from them it sort of "disturbs" my flow.

JFL dude same, and my mom messages me everyday, I hate getting calls and text period though, because its always an interruption to me

Before I was even old enough to go to school, I used to be like a fucking socialite, I would never stop talking, but when I went through the meatgrinder known as the K-12 School system, I turned into a completely different fucking person entirely.

From childhood I was very quiet and kept to myself, so there was never really a "shift" in personality for me, its more like I become more of what I already was over time

 

[Osentaku Otje]

Please stop projecting, the only one coping is you to think that everyone has your limitations

Nah i understand that where different, I'm just showing you how supper-introverted you are because I'm an introverd but you're even next level, but if you're that extreem idk really know how you got here on incels.co

 

[BlkPillPres]

Nah i understand that where different, I'm just showing you how supper-introverted you are because I'm an introverd but you're even next level, but if you're that extreem idk really know how you got here on incels.co

1. Boredom
2. Looking for guidance on wealthmaxxing
3. Looking for guidance on escortcelling

I find it weird when I see many people insinuating that the only reason to be here is because you are "lonely"

I mean its not as if one who is living an incel life can get the best guidance from other incels who are already at where he wants to be (obvious sarcasm)

This place isn't a refuge to me, its a tool, I've learnt a lot by being here because I'm here with a purpose

 

[Osentaku Otje]

1. Boredom
2. Looking for guidance on wealthmaxxing
3. Looking for guidance on escortcelling

I find it weird when I see many people insinuating that the only reason to be here is because you are "lonely"

I mean its not as if one who is living an incel life can get the best guidance from other incels who are already at where he wants to be (obvious sarcasm)

This place isn't a refuge to me, its a tool, I've learnt a lot by being here because I'm here with a purpose

oh, that makes sence, most people are here because they want(ed) a girlfriend and feeling lonely is tied to that.
we didn't think someone like you could exist here so we were comparing ourselves and trying to see if you're maybe wrong about yourself.