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Cope I don’t experience sexual attraction as often as I used to

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Edmund_Kemper

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When I was ages 12-18, I would get sexually attracted to so many girls that it was insane. Once I got to age 19 or 20, suddenly I stopped experiencing sexual attraction this frequently. Nowadays i only will find a girl attractive once in a while. It’s very difficult to get attracted to one and it doesn’t happen much these days. I could see a big group of sorority stacies and there’s a chance I might find ZERO of them attractive. It’s insane. I’m 22 now and I feel like every girl looks like a Becky to me. What the hell happened?
 
I find most girls unfuckable. But then again i live in curryland.

You should prolly check T levels.
 
You start to realize that you'll never get to do anything with any of those women. Your mind starts to think that sex is an absurd, out of reach fantasy so you lose interest. We're so far gone ...
 
Same tbh. When I was 13 to 16 I couldn't contain myself. Now I am 19 and have the sex drive of an old geezer.

Somethings is wrong here. Iam 32 and still jerk off once a day. Check T levels.
 
You start to realize that you'll never get to do anything with any of those women. Your mind starts to think that sex is an absurd, out of reach fantasy so you lose interest. We're so far gone ...
Actually I experienced this before I discovered I’m incel
 
Actually I experienced this before I discovered I’m incel
Of course, so did I. You don't need the word "incel" to understand your situation. If you're even a bit self aware and critical of your life experiences (unlike hopeful normies and naive redpillers) you'll know it's over.
 
It decreases further once you reach your late 20's to early 30's also combine that with becoming more mellow and docile, like myself and many other oldcels. You basically just accept it for what it is and your brain pretty much stops hassling you over something out of reach. Sad as it maybe but it looks as though that's our fate.
 
Maybe it’s because foids were much more attractive in middle/hs than in college
 
This only happened to me when I was 28ish
 
Of course, so did I. You don't need the word "incel" to understand your situation. If you're even a bit self aware and critical of your life experiences (unlike hopeful normies and naive redpillers) you'll know it's over.
I feel like my hormones are less crazy these days
 
lol how does it matter? Its pronounced as it is spelled, pretty straightforward.
Someone pronounced it as Ackoo Yadoo. How do you how it’s pronounced?
It decreases further once you reach your late 20's to early 30's also combine that with becoming more mellow and docile, like myself and many other oldcels. You basically just accept it for what it is and your brain pretty much stops hassling you over something out of reach. Sad as it maybe but it looks as though that's our fate.
I guess losing sexual attraction is LifeFuel for some
This only happened to me when I was 28ish
Mogs me
Maybe it’s because foids were much more attractive in middle/hs than in college
College girls are way hotter than middle school girls. Middle school girls are still physically immature while college girls are post-pubescent
 
porn consumption, lower testoterone levels or you became a faggot/assexual
 
porn consumption, lower testoterone levels or you became a faggot/assexual
You think watching porn makes you get attracted to girls less often?
 
Someone pronounced it as Ackoo Yadoo. How do you how it’s pronounced?

Whats your obsession with him though? He wasnt high IQ like Ed kemp. Just a low life dime a dozen curry thug.
 
I don't find any girl sexually attractive unless she has big boobs or ass or thigh which she is revealing by wearing small dress like mini skirt. If I only see girl's face I will find her cute or average or nothing but will never get turned on. So face+boobs/ass=turned on. I guess this is effect of watching too much porn.
 
Whats your obsession with him though? He wasnt high IQ like Ed kemp. Just a low life dime a dozen curry thug.
I thought his story of what happened to him was very rare and like what happens in movies. He was really brutal. He didn’t just rape people he has killed too. I wonder what his childhood was like.
I don't find any girl sexually attractive unless she has big boobs or ass or thigh which she is revealing by wearing small dress like mini skirt. If I only see girl's face I will find her cute or average or nothing but will never get turned on. So face+boobs/ass=turned on. I guess this is effect of watching too much porn.
I have a very picky definition of hot these days
 
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I thought his story of what happened to him was very rare and like what happens in movies. He was really brutal. He didn’t just rape people he has killed too. I wonder what his childhood was like.

He was just a typical curry rapist. No real backstory on him.
 
You think watching porn makes you get attracted to girls less often?
not porn per se, but porn coupled with masturbation can lower your arousement towards "normal" females.

Not that it matters very much for people that are involuntary celibate.

 
You become numb as time goes by
 
He was just a typical curry rapist. No real backstory on him.
What did you mean by low life actually? I usually say low life to describe someone who is a criminal and a bad person but some use it to describe someone who is lazy
not porn per se, but porn coupled with masturbation can lower your arousement towards "normal" females.

Not that it matters very much for people that are involuntary celibate.

I just have a picky definition of attractive now. In order for a girl to look hot to me, she has to be extremely soft and feminine, post-pubescent but very youthful, long preferably straight hair, thin, soft skin, etc. some girls look like that but then might have weird fake up on, a big nose, bad hair color, weird eyebrows, etc
 
You start to realize that you'll never get to do anything with any of those women. Your mind starts to think that sex is an absurd, out of reach fantasy so you lose interest. We're so far gone ...
100% accurate
 
@FrustratedWhiteMale
 
I started losing my sex drive at about 55.
 

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