[Discussion] I find getting to know people can increase attraction for me.

Lame Dude

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In the past I have found that foids who I did not find attractive at a glance, have become more attractive to me after getting to know them.

They still dated and married much better men than myself. :feelskek:

Is it like this with anybody else?
 
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after getting to know them.
So are you implying that you liked liked them because of their personality and not because of their looks?
 
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The same cannot be said for foids. The only men they want to get to know are the good looking ones.
 
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That happens with men. This is the reason why men can get along with anyone quite well.

But for foids, it's completely different.
 
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Don't think it's like that for them
 
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So are you implying that you liked liked them because of their personality and not because of their looks?
No, they werent ugly to begin with.
 
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Only men are capable of developing attraction, it's a shame women can't for more than 5 seconds.
 
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I have noticed this too with myself, and a while ago i had seen a study pertaining to this phenomenon.
I cannot find it anymore, but i do believe this was the gist of it:
and also https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Propinquity

This article is about negative mere exposure:
But the actual study seems to be paywalled as with many other studies about this.
So there certainly seems to be a psychological effect explaining it.
But unfortunately I don't believe spending-time-around-stacy-hoping-Mere-exposure-effect-worksmaxxing will succeed.
 
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For me it's whenever a foid is nice to me, which only happens at work because they have to be nice to their co-workers, but my heart can't tell a difference.
 
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