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Soy I hate how I'm expected to be socially/sexually assertive and dominant

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It's a demand that simply doesn't come naturally to me, I have to force myself to behave in a manner opposite to my nature. This is part of the reason why approaching is so difficult for me, as even if I didn't have social anxiety, it just isn't the way I act when I'm not consciously forcing myself to do so.

When I first accepted AWALT it destroyed me tbh, I now admit that I once wanted a 3D foid who would accept me for who I am, and wouldn't expect me to the initiative in most scenarios. Of course I've long since accepted that such an expectation is hilariously unreasonable, and that if I ever want even a chance at getting a foid, then I'd have to suppress my own nature. That might be why it always feels like I have to put on a show for other people, I mean normies do that all the time, but I'm saying in my case, it's probably even more of a performance than usual. Having to pretend to be someone I'm not is both exhausting and totally unappealing to me. So much for "just be yourself bro", my personality and interests together create what is basically repellent to foids, nevermind my appearance.

The fact that foids can just exist and men will put in all the effort for them, well that filled me with envy for years. You legit have to be Chad to even partially get away with that as a male, and it's still nowhere near the same.
 
The thing is even if you fought hard to be the ultra competitive NT aggressive idiot you'd still fail due to looks or whatever, even if you succeeded you'd probably get cheated on.

If you're not attractive, rich or a thug you're detested as worthless, society wants you to be a worker bee faggot.
 
Immediately thought of @Blacktarpill when I read title tbh
 
The thing is even if you fought hard to be the ultra competitive NT aggressive idiot you'd still fail due to looks or whatever, even if you succeeded you'd probably get cheated on.

If you're not attractive, rich or a thug you're detested as worthless, society wants you to be a worker bee faggot.
True, which is why reward isn't even close to being worth the effort. I don't care anymore tbh.
 
This inequality must not stand forever.
 
The thing is even if you fought hard to be the ultra competitive NT aggressive idiot you'd still fail due to looks or whatever, even if you succeeded you'd probably get cheated on.

If you're not attractive, rich or a thug you're detested as worthless, society wants you to be a worker bee faggot.
Legit as fuck
 
Dominant women exist, or switches more like. Smart and interesting women exist too. Combination of all of the above also exist. Add good looking to that.
Of course, they're the cream of the cream of the crop. And they almost deserve chad, if they weren't inherently toilets like all women are.
Paradoxically the kind of woman you want because of how different she is is exactly what makes her choose chad.
 
Get on testosterone right now!
 
I can be dominant, but i'm afraid of being beaten to death since i'm a framelet manlet, so i just keep it to myself.
 
you're competing with NT supremacists
 
If you're ugly or short you're not expected to be socially/sexually assertive and dominant, you're expected to be a quiet crowd-follower and eunuch. Asserting yourself in any way is likely to get you jailed.
 
Unfortunately this is what women want because of their power fantasies so they expect us to be this Prince Chadrming with good jawline, good genetics as a whole, white, good humour, aggressive but confident, etc.
 
Unfortunately this is what women want because of their power fantasies so they expect us to be this Prince Chadrming with good jawline, good genetics as a whole, white, good humour, aggressive but confident, etc.
So they pretty much want the exact opposite of what i am, got it.
 
I hate how foids and normie society expect all men to be "leaders." If everyone's a leader, who are they leading? Too many chiefs, not enough Indians.

But hurr durr, muh leadurrship.
 
One of the reasons I hate women. They have it so easy. Just sit back and enjoy the ride. The world is your playground and men are your play things. Just stick to escorts bro.
 

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