Let me explain it with an example: why is having a beard no problem even if you look better without? Because you can shave it off anytime you want. And its the same reason why foids dont give 2 shits about a breakup if they can get a better guy anytime they want.
This brings me to my main problem. Its the limited possibilities pill.
If you are good looking and you know you could bang all the girls you want you would feel much better even without doing so. Thats the problem if you reverse this situation with the blackpill. If you know you aint able to get something your self worth decreases in your own eyes. I see normie looking people who live good lives by delusionmaxxing. Because knowing that you are not able to get a girl is the problem in the first place, not having a girlfriend (those cunts aint gonna improve your live anyway).
Its your self esteem and your fear of the future which hits harder then all the "bad situation", often you see chads in shit situations but they know the soon they get out of it their life will be great as allways, even if it may not be allways true. They cant know they believe in themselfs because they got confirmed and encouraged all their lives.
And this brings me to the real blackpill: The Bluepill
Its your "personality" its your "negative worldview" its the facts you got told all your live that you are shit and unloveable which made you a mental outcast and destroyed your self image. Even if you would wake up as a gigachad it would take years of love affection and encouragement to rebuild your self image and maybe it wouldnt even work.
This is a hard truth any escortcell can tell you: its not sex what you seeking for.
Even if you fuck those 10/10 pornstar hookers they just encourage your self image of being unloveable.
And dont get me wrong a girlfriend could boost your ego, but who says that she does that? I see enough people who get no encouragement at all by their girlfriend. Because most girls are bitchy self entitled cunts.
For me: I dont want a girlfriend, i want to look at myself and think of myself as a winner and a loveable person with a good future who can do everything if he wants.
But all i see is a loser who has a future as painfull as his previous live.
Maybe im not even deformed i might be just a failed normie i just cant be objective at rating myself. And before you guys shout "fakecell Reeee" do you really think a failed normie without selfesteem childhood traumatisation and bullying has it so much better? I see myself as deformed as every other outcast.
And if you are really honest to your self most of you will have to admit that in an other inviroment as the western society of 2019 you would just be fine because its only here that people encourage bullying and bad parenting so hard. In curryland and sea they have family values they believe in karma that when they are bad to other people they get it back in their next live.
Its an enviromental problem in at least half of the cases of inceldom. Or maybe its not even inceldom its being an outcast. There is no place outside the west were you have to fit so much criteria to be a respected and loved member of society while getting mistreated by your parents and peers all the time, maybe south korea.
If it would just be "having no girlfren" people would rope in places like china sea and india at much higher rates.
TLDR: its bad parenting and how you get treated as an "ugly" person all your live which destroys your self esteem. Its not sex what i seek in the first place. Its a healthy self image.
This brings me to my main problem. Its the limited possibilities pill.
If you are good looking and you know you could bang all the girls you want you would feel much better even without doing so. Thats the problem if you reverse this situation with the blackpill. If you know you aint able to get something your self worth decreases in your own eyes. I see normie looking people who live good lives by delusionmaxxing. Because knowing that you are not able to get a girl is the problem in the first place, not having a girlfriend (those cunts aint gonna improve your live anyway).
Its your self esteem and your fear of the future which hits harder then all the "bad situation", often you see chads in shit situations but they know the soon they get out of it their life will be great as allways, even if it may not be allways true. They cant know they believe in themselfs because they got confirmed and encouraged all their lives.
And this brings me to the real blackpill: The Bluepill
Its your "personality" its your "negative worldview" its the facts you got told all your live that you are shit and unloveable which made you a mental outcast and destroyed your self image. Even if you would wake up as a gigachad it would take years of love affection and encouragement to rebuild your self image and maybe it wouldnt even work.
This is a hard truth any escortcell can tell you: its not sex what you seeking for.
Even if you fuck those 10/10 pornstar hookers they just encourage your self image of being unloveable.
And dont get me wrong a girlfriend could boost your ego, but who says that she does that? I see enough people who get no encouragement at all by their girlfriend. Because most girls are bitchy self entitled cunts.
For me: I dont want a girlfriend, i want to look at myself and think of myself as a winner and a loveable person with a good future who can do everything if he wants.
But all i see is a loser who has a future as painfull as his previous live.
Maybe im not even deformed i might be just a failed normie i just cant be objective at rating myself. And before you guys shout "fakecell Reeee" do you really think a failed normie without selfesteem childhood traumatisation and bullying has it so much better? I see myself as deformed as every other outcast.
And if you are really honest to your self most of you will have to admit that in an other inviroment as the western society of 2019 you would just be fine because its only here that people encourage bullying and bad parenting so hard. In curryland and sea they have family values they believe in karma that when they are bad to other people they get it back in their next live.
Its an enviromental problem in at least half of the cases of inceldom. Or maybe its not even inceldom its being an outcast. There is no place outside the west were you have to fit so much criteria to be a respected and loved member of society while getting mistreated by your parents and peers all the time, maybe south korea.
If it would just be "having no girlfren" people would rope in places like china sea and india at much higher rates.
TLDR: its bad parenting and how you get treated as an "ugly" person all your live which destroys your self esteem. Its not sex what i seek in the first place. Its a healthy self image.
