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I sometimes wonder how I'd see incels if I were a sexhaver

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Not like a slayer or anything, but what if I somehow got a girlfriend 15 years ago and then another one 10 years ago. For someone who's 36 it would be pretty pathetic to have had two girlfriends in that time, but I keep wondering how I'd see incels if that was the case. Would I want to help with clueless normie advice? Would I be in IT making fun of incels? Would I be relieved that I escaped inceldom? Or would I just not care about sex at all and wonder why these incels are making such a big deal about it?

Instead, I got nothing. I didn't get the things you're supposed to get with a basic life. Sex is part of the basic package for other people, but not for me.
 
I wonder how many larpers and fakecels are on this forum. I just took some photos and I wanna kill myself now.
 
I would most likely try to reject the blackpill as hard as i can and as a result of that i would probably join a site which tries to occasionally debunk the blackpill and makes fun of incels.
 
One would hope one would have empathy for the incel community but the normie hivemind is powerful I'm sure.
 
I would mind my business and have sympathy because I'm not a cruel judgemental fuck unlike most people are by default.
 
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I wonder how many girls I would get if I was white
 
I'm extremely high IQ so I would probably understand incels
 
im pretty sure even if you couldnt get laid in 10yrs by this forums own rules youd be incel. although its not anywhere the same if you had a foid willingly fuck you for nothing but your looks. in the situation you described, maybe those 2 times were some weird fluke thing where they thought they could extract lots of resources but miscalculated or some shit. youd still be pretty much in the same mentality as you are in now even if you had fucked once 20 years ago imo
I think most sex having males only get what you described, which I don't consider non incel as to be non incel youd have to have foids willingly fuck you for only your looks, and if one foid would fuck you just for your looks then they all would. guys who go through years without sex then get a "girlfriend" etc, so like 70% of guys atleast, they are not getting fucked for their looks, they are getting star fish shit show with fat bitch to provide them with money etc
 
I think most sex having males only get what you described, which I don't consider non incel as to be non incel youd have to have foids willingly fuck you for only your looks, and if one foid would fuck you just for your looks then they all would. guys who go through years without sex then get a "girlfriend" etc, so like 70% of guys atleast, they are not getting fucked for their looks, they are getting star fish shit show with fat bitch to provide them with money etc
Foids under 30 have been out earning males under 30 for a while now (https://www.theguardian.com/money/2015/aug/29/women-in-20s-earn-more-men-same-age-study-finds) and both foids and males tend to earn very little in their teens and early 20s. Almost all teenage/young adult relationships are sexual rather than betabuxxing. There is really no reason for a foid to have a boyfriend at that age unless she wants to have sex with him. If you know a guy who had a girlfriend when he was 17-23, he was probably having sex 10-20 times a month while in those relationships. In my example even if the total time of those two relationships over the span of 15 years were around a year, that means he'd have had sex hundreds of times... for free. Is that an incel? Is someone who's had sex 200 times with girlfriends comparable to us in mindset?
Either way I wonder if I were that shitty unsuccessful guy how I'd feel about incels.
 
I would probably still see the truth for what it is.
 
I'm not kidding the incel community was founded by tall attractive chadlites and chads that get laid. I can't link the the thread on lookism.net because I will get banned. You would most likely still be blackpilled.
 
If I were to somehow ascend, I would always keep the plight of the incels in mind.
 
I'm not kidding the incel community was founded by tall attractive chadlites and chads that get laid. I can't link the the thread on lookism.net because I will get banned. You would most likely still be blackpilled.

Agree. Trucels and mentalcels are too afraid to start communities. So chadlites have to do it for them. Honestly most of the staff are probably just blackpill sympathizers.
 
Would I want to help with clueless normie advice? Would I be in IT making fun of incels? Would I be relieved that I escaped inceldom? Or would I just not care about sex at all and wonder why these incels are making such a big deal about it?

No, I´m pretty much sure that just wondering such an hypothetic outcome, it means you wouldn´t reason like IT anyway.
Having so few girlfriends in so many years it would entail you having gone through incredible bullshit, which would have got you blackpilled very fast.

Escaping inceldom once may relieve you, albeit just momentarily. It puts the anguish of "tomorrow" on your shoulders. You would still care about sex because you wouldn´t have had enough of it. I believing that becoming an IT cuck comes also from a conscious process of bullshitting oneself into rationalization of cuckdom, which is not natural, because disappointments in the dating arena are pretty quick to bring up blackpill content to one´s own awareness. That´s at least my opinion on the issue.
 
Agree. Trucels and mentalcels are too afraid to start communities. So chadlites have to do it for them. Honestly most of the staff are probably just blackpill sympathizers.
Zyros was probably the most looks are everything based person on this site and he got laid.
 
Here's your answer

As a:

1/10 white: Nothing, just die
2/10 white: its fucking over mate
3/10 white: if youre lucky, youll get a 1/10 drunk landwhale
4/10 white: Maybe like one 1/10 foid
5/10 white: 1-3 partners in your lifetime
6/10 white: 10ish partners in a lifetime
7/10 white: 25ish
8/10 white: unlimited pussy
9/10 white: unlimited pussy
10/10 white: you are god
And that's only in countries with a significant non-white population. Good luck with JBW if your competition is white too.
 
It depends how much sex you get and the strategies you used to get laid.
Lemme start with the two groups of sexhavers who hate us most:

Group A:
The red-pilled Chadlites who don't acknowledge their genetic superiority, and think get laid because of money, lifiting, and being alpha. They think we are pathetic losers who haven't tried hard enough. All these people are probably 6', neurotypical as fuck, and are completely happy sleeping with escorts every month anyway.

Group B:
Conservacucks or betas where blue-pilled cuckoldry worked out for them (probably because they tolerate polyamory). These are people who lived a life where their chivalry was rewarded. This "perform for a gold star" dynamic does not form stable balanced relationships. These are relationships where the woman has 100% of the power to the point where these blue-pilled cucks are completely brainwashed into doing whatever ridiculous bidding the foid wants, no matter how unfair it is in principle. It's like Stockholm Syndrome.
Here are the sexhavers who would be more empathetic to us.

Group C:
Chads, who know they are genetically superior, and that women can be batshit crazy. They've lived a life of excessive privledge, and kind of feel guilty about it.

Group D:
People as you described, low-tier normies who we're only able to get a few lays or relationships out of sheer luck. They wouldn't publicly defend us, especially when foids are around, but they probably share private compassion for us.
 
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Sex havers are to incels as rich people are to poor people: Their privilege blinds them. The sex haver/rich person says, "I made it, why can't they? They must be doing something wrong." Those who are privileged (whether in money or in love) think that their status is due to "hard work" or "having a great personality." Their ego makes them believe that they "earned" their good station in life, that they somehow "deserve" it, rather than just being born privileged. They apply the same flawed thinking when they judge us, blaming us for our status on the bottom of society by accusing us of behaving the wrong way, when in reality we're on the bottom because we were born with certain traits that women find undesirable that we cannot change.
 
And that's only in countries with a significant non-white population. Good luck with JBW if your competition is white too.
I’ll be good if I’m at least a 6/10 white. That’s high tier normie
 
I was open-minded enough to get into far-right politics and holocaust revisionism so I don't see how I wouldn't be able to wrap my head around incels even as a sex-haver since I've always felt attracted to things the average person hates. Honestly, it sometimes baffles me how there are even non-chad male sex-havers who don't feel sympathy towards us. I mean, it's understandable that Chads don't feel a lot of sympathy for us because they get pussy without effort. Meanwhile, foids don't feel sympathy for us because they don't know what it's like to have the insanely high libido that men have.
But if you're a guy who doesn't have women throwing themselves at you, how could you not feel sympathy for men who on one hand have this sex drive they need to deal with and on the other hand don't have any luck with foids?
 
Either way I wonder if I were that shitty unsuccessful guy how I'd feel about incels.
probably cope with saying we're fucked in the head retard losers who are less than you so you can make yourself feel better about being a loser by pointed to the "lower" loser. fucking retards. incels are kings
 
just not care about sex at all and wonder why these incels are making such a big deal about it?
Probably this, I'd like to think once I get over this hurdle of my life I'd forget it even happened
 
if i was born good looking i'd hate subhuman incels
 
All non-mentalcels can ascend. If they aren't volcel.
 
I would probably laugh at incels if I was a sexhaver.
 
I would probably try to “fix” things. I would give them tips. Hey if I can do it, why can’t you? People don’t understand that some things cannot be changed. Maybe 30 years ago advice could have made a difference. But with dating apps and social media, looks have essentially been quantified. Foids have so many options, it has become impossible. Even 20 years ago, men could lucked into having a g/f due to proximity, their job, or their social circle. Not anymore.
 
Would I want to help with clueless normie advice? Would I be in IT making fun of incels? Would I be relieved that I escaped inceldom? Or would I just not care about sex at all and wonder why these incels are making such a big deal about it?
Depends on where you landed. Chad or Chadlite, it'd be the latter. High-tier normie you'd probably give advice, because you'd figure "Hey, with showers and haircuts and clothes and years in the gym and a fake instagram life I turned myself from a 6.5 to a 7 and started getting a little more attention from females, anyone can do the same!" Low or mid-tier normie you'd be an ITer and betabuxxer, endlessly virtue signalling, desperately clinging to the memory of that one landwhale that let you take her out when she was in need of validation and believing lighting could strike twice if you just whiteknight loudly enough.
I wonder how many larpers and fakecels are on this forum.
100% of us. On the internet, no one knows you're Chad.
 
I would probably laugh at incels, like every normalfag does.
 
I've always had compassion. Even when I was a "cool kid" in 8th grade who all the girls liked, I still tried to befriend the bullied kids. Little did I know, the following year I'd be the bullied kid with no girls liking me. Things can change so fast. I must have gotten ugly as shit within such a short span of time.
 
I've always had compassion. Even when I was a "cool kid" in 8th grade who all the girls liked, I still tried to befriend the bullied kids. Little did I know, the following year I'd be the bullied kid with no girls liking me. Things can change so fast. I must have gotten ugly as shit within such a short span of time.

Only a bit of flesh and mental capability stand between an incel and a chadlite
 

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