Fully swallowing the blackpill has left me in a conflicted state. It has definitely allowed me to process some lifelong emotional baggage I've had dragging me down my whole life. It has also freed me up in some respects in terms of life decisions. On the negative side, it has definitely not helped my difficulties with motivation. "Copes" are a difficult subject, because we need something that we genuinely care about - something that we would still care about if we had access to sex, but it is hard to tell what those things are.
It feels like all incels are cursed by having to solve a torturous puzzle box where you must figure out how to live for something other than sex whilst living in a world where everything is about sex.