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Experiment If you could go back in time (oldcels)

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For oldcels, say 25 and up for this exercise; knowing what you know now, what would you do different for your romantic life if you could go back to 18?

I would looksmax as much as possible, even use steroids if needed. I would also focus on building a large social circle. It would be difficult and painful; but I think I could have done it, just would be a lot of work. Most importantly I would join a good church, specifically a big one with a large youth population. I would do whatever is necessary to get a virgin girlfriend and marry her. We would be each other’s first and only and be pair bonded.
If all of that failed and I never got a gf then I guess I was just destined to be incel, but that’s what I would do if I could do it all over again.
 
I'm only 21 but i'm still gonna answer.
I would looksmaxx as much as possible, get job and my own place+car as early as possible.
And try to meet as many women as possible
 
18 is too late, i need to go back to like 10 years old, inject enough HGH to make Barry Bonds choke, hit the gym. Throw out all my vidya and nerd shit, become social and play sports.
 
I wouldn't have tried to go back to school, and would have LDAR sooner because nothing can fix being an autistic truecel.
 
18 is too late, i need to go back to like 10 years old, inject enough HGH to make Barry Bonds choke, hit the gym. Throw out all my vidya and nerd shit, become social and play sports.
Agreed. You need to develop positive habits while you're still a child and your mind & body are more malleable.
 
I think I did everything right, it just wasn't good enough. I started looksmaxxing (gymmaxxing really) in my teens and I had pretty good results and got compliments and comments from guys all the time but it didn't matter. I moved out of my parents house right out of high school and had my own place and made a pretty good living but it didn't matter.

Maybe I'd try some niche things like being a biker or a goth or some shit like that. Maybe I'd start or join a band and try to famemaxx.
 
Not really since I knew it was over for me at 5 yrs old and was only going down hill from there.
 
I definitely would have started escortcelling sooner.
 
For oldcels, say 25 and up for this exercise; knowing what you know now, what would you do different for your romantic life if you could go back to 18?

I would looksmax as much as possible, even use steroids if needed. I would also focus on building a large social circle. It would be difficult and painful; but I think I could have done it, just would be a lot of work. Most importantly I would join a good church, specifically a big one with a large youth population. I would do whatever is necessary to get a virgin girlfriend and marry her. We would be each other’s first and only and be pair bonded.
If all of that failed and I never got a gf then I guess I was just destined to be incel, but that’s what I would do if I could do it all over again.
There is nothing I could of done differently. I tried asking girls out and everything within my control. None of them cared about me and I can shamelessly say I tried my best
 
I don't think I'd have done much different. Like most here I was already gymceling and other such things and I got on finasteride as soon as I started norwooding (at like 21).

I think most teenage boys these days kind of know what they "should" be doing (i.e. eating well, gymceling, etc) yet because they all end up doing it, any improvements from it really don't do anything other than get them on the same level again. It's like how in the 90s being ripped was all cool but now nobody gives a fuck, it's just like "meh, another gymcel" JFL.

The old phrase "if you have to try, it's over" is very true even if it does seem extremely defeatist. Only thing I'd have done is buy more bitcoin (the irony is I used to buy it a lot when I was 17/18, but only to spend on drugs JFL.
 
I'd tell myself what to do and how to do it.. Then the current me would disappaer and my true self would shine or at least not live this fucked life.
 
I don’t think anything would change, instead of being an addict I’d just be some ugly tard singing gospels in a rural church soymaxxing beyond soy capacity
 
I wouldn't have wasted 8 years (arguably 10) doing nothing, accomplishing nothing, and working towards nothing. All the energy which I devoted to escapism I would redirect towards improving my own life.
 
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18 is too late to looksmaxx for me, bones fused, manlet height and ugly face. So I'd write code and become a nerd programmer with more money than me at the time who only started at the age of 25
 
Id have roped.
 
18 is too late, i need to go back to like 10 years old, inject enough HGH to make Barry Bonds choke, hit the gym. Throw out all my vidya and nerd shit, become social and play sports.
 
At 18 i was an established loser.
 
18 is too late, i need to go back to like 10 years old, inject enough HGH to make Barry Bonds choke, hit the gym. Throw out all my vidya and nerd shit, become social and play sports.
This
 
Keep lifting so i dont become obese
but in all honesty id probably just quit HS and enter workforce earlier. I went to college but got kicked out and so have nothing to show for it. Had to pay back thousands of dolla in loans. Took me years. Id just start working so no debt. And i would never try to socialize since i know it would never take me anywhere. I literally used to work so much overtime to get money to buy things for people or for new clothes just to impress girls. So much money and time wasted trying to get laid. Id just work and keep to myself
 

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