Venting I'm 22 and my existence feels like a complete waste of time and space. Oldercels how do you do it?

[Deleted member 14382]

It's easier to cope with the lack of female companionship if you're on the autism spectrum as you are somewhat self entertaining.

 

[Uglyethnicrat]

Religion is a good cope

 

[noosesupply]

i dont live, i just exist

existence is pain

I like watching the world burn, and I'm waiting for sexbots to come out.

day will come every incel has a sexbot we make threads about

 

[BodyFat10orRope]

It's amazing how fast 20-28 goes by. My whole twenties went by like nothing and I don't have much to show for it. I felt like I was trying to improve myself most of that time

This is what I'm worried about. Will be 25 when I graduate and I've had the mentality of "oh when I get this thing done then I will do better". Also 18 - 22 went by fast, I have very very few memories of the time too.

 

[IggyCope]

Fear of death was a big contributor to me not roping, I indulged in SO many copes from eating, to exercise,to anime to video games, to daydreaming, listening to music, drawing, modding video games, and of course fapping, lots and LOTS of fapping.

Since you're 22, the pain of loneliness and your sex drive will skyrocket and will continue until you reach your late 20's, around 27,28,29, basically and in your early 30's it begins to slow down, it has slown down ALOT for me, because your body pretty much readjusts itself into accepting your fate. Myself and many other oldcels have pretty much mellowed out, the rage,anger,high libidos, and depression are from users who're in their mid 20's and younger at least from what I've seen.

Im 38 years old and the depression is crushing me. My libido still high and sometimes my rage and anger are so strong that I am unable to work.

I agree, in part, with what you say. But getting older will not help to face to incelism. Even more, getting older adds new frustration: to see how your life wasted by the toilet (i'm spaniard, sorry if expression is not correct in english. I wrote literally from spanish expression) when most your friends married, build families...

it is not so easy.

 

[Deleted member 301]

Alcohol and drugs, lots of both. I can't so much do drugs anymore due to a dodgy ticker because of over-indulgence over the years. I guess it not so much gets easier just the routine becomes the norm and you grow used to it.

 

[mylifeistrash]

The most powerful cope is seeing normies in their thirties getting complete reckted by life and most foids from your era, even some hot ones, turning into landwhales and becoming single moms, losing a lot of their edge.

Time will equalize things just a little, normies began to suffer a lot in theirs 30s and they are always talking about when they were younger how things were so much better when they thought they could take the whole world, and that can be lifefuel.

They were always doing shitty, even in their 20s. Most were just too dumb to realize that being in debt or having a shitty median paying job with no upward mobility and a balding hairline means they're failed.

 

[lightskin2thousand0]

Oldercels I truly need some advice. Not the typical meme "just rope bro" advice but REAL advice explaining how to cope with this life of constant unfulfilled desires, disappointments, and despair. I understand that it never gets better and only worse(my life has proved that time and time again). I just need to know if there's anything I can do besides LDARing and working that will take the pain away at least a little bit. Anything that doesn't involve dealing with others who will only mog the shit out of me and remind me of my supposed "inferiority". My life is just the same shit over and over again. What the fuck was the point of being born only to endlessly lose in life and nothing but? All of this shit is such a cruel unfunny joke. I feel nothing but an empty void of negative emotions damn near 24/7 because of this. So how do you cope despite this shit? How the fuck do you do it?

we shall consult the elders

 

[Deleted member 21514]

i'm 20 and i feel the same. i don't know for how long i can live this miserable life

 

[ironmanlet321]

Just rope bro

 

[Italcel]

It's amazing how fast 20-28 goes by. My whole twenties went by like nothing and I don't have much to show for it. I felt like I was trying to improve myself most of that time but nothing I did brought me over the threshold to where I could attract a 5+ woman.

and what about <5 women?

 

[FinnCel]

Alcohol, weed

 

[dragonbro]

and what about <5 women?

Only with extreme effort and luck. It's not something I can make happen with any predictable consistency.

 

[inceldaygamer_]

Fear of death was a big contributor to me not roping, I indulged in SO many copes from eating, to exercise,to anime to video games, to daydreaming, listening to music, drawing, modding video games, and of course fapping, lots and LOTS of fapping.

Since you're 22, the pain of loneliness and your sex drive will skyrocket and will continue until you reach your late 20's, around 27,28,29, basically and in your early 30's it begins to slow down, it has slown down ALOT for me, because your body pretty much readjusts itself into accepting your fate. Myself and many other oldcels have pretty much mellowed out, the rage,anger,high libidos, and depression are from users who're in their mid 20's and younger at least from what I've seen.

I didn't actually know the bit I highlighted in bold. That would explain my recent desperate and erratic behaviour.

I am in my 30s now, so hopefully I'll stop giving a fuck soon.

 

[Vorbei]

Time passed and I just stopped caring so much about ascension, I'm at a point where either it happens or it doesn't. It was rough for a couple of years, but I've come through the other side. I'm glad that I was able to stop caring so much because it must be a special kind of hell to get past a certain age and still desperately want a woman in your life, yet find yourself unable to get one.

 

[Deleted member 8884]

I drink a lot to forget how cripplingly depressing my life is. Try that maybe.

There is seriously no better cope than getting drunk and having a good sleep. Then waking up and not remember chit.

I love alcohol srs.

 

[SingaporeCel]

I'm 23 this year. Everything is uncertain except for suffering and pressing desires.

 

[Narazz]

My early 20s were awesome. MMORPGs were good back then and had online friends to chat with. The women thing wasn't even on my mind back then.

The late 20s and early 30s are rough as i was pushed out of my neet lifestyle. but it does get a little better in the.later 30s. While the friends disappeared, I found good copes and migrated a little into an MGTOW lifestyle. recently i got into making flipflip slides for my VR porn. that shit is worse than drugs lol. The resentment to women will always be there but either you rope, ER or find something else to do than worry about how sucky life is. sadly i cuked out and just coping with other things

 

[zangano1]

Im also 22 and i'll I want is death. I can't see myself living for more than 3 years tbh

 

[Deleted member 18435]

Just rope bro

Goteem

My early 20s were awesome. MMORPGs were good back then and had online friends to chat with. The women thing wasn't even on my mind back then.

The late 20s and early 30s are rough as i was pushed out of my neet lifestyle. but it does get a little better in the.later 30s. While the friends disappeared, I found good copes and migrated a little into an MGTOW lifestyle. recently i got into making flipflip slides for my VR porn. that shit is worse than drugs lol. The resentment to women will always be there but either you rope, ER or find something else to do than worry about how sucky life is. sadly i cuked out and just coping with other things

I used to be really addicted to MMORPGs as well. It was a huge money waster but it definitely occupied my brain away from my inceldom for the most part. It's a decent cope.

 

[Mod King Xerxes]

Oldercels I truly need some advice. Not the typical meme "just rope bro" advice but REAL advice explaining how to cope with this life of constant unfulfilled desires, disappointments, and despair. I understand that it never gets better and only worse(my life has proved that time and time again). I just need to know if there's anything I can do besides LDARing and working that will take the pain away at least a little bit. Anything that doesn't involve dealing with others who will only mog the shit out of me and remind me of my supposed "inferiority". My life is just the same shit over and over again. What the fuck was the point of being born only to endlessly lose in life and nothing but? All of this shit is such a cruel unfunny joke. I feel nothing but an empty void of negative emotions damn near 24/7 because of this. So how do you cope despite this shit? How the fuck do you do it?

Emba and TigerFestival said it all basically and I am indeed an oldercel/wizard in my late 30's so I should know.

 

[CrackingYs]

Alcohol used to get me through the week. That eventually led me to drinking enough to cause me liver pains and other health problems. Now I LDAR, and vape ecigs.

 

[Deleted member 14805]

Im 38 years old and the depression is crushing me. My libido still high and sometimes my rage and anger are so strong that I am unable to work.

I agree, in part, with what you say. But getting older will not help to face to incelism. Even more, getting older adds new frustration: to see how your life wasted by the toilet (i'm spaniard, sorry if expression is not correct in english. I wrote literally from spanish expression) when most your friends married, build families...

it is not so easy.

All of my friends are either incels or failed normies, but TBH if all my friends were married and building families I'd be down too, regardless of age, but in fairness however, I hardly hear from my friends, so even if they become successful, it's unlikely I'll know about it. In any case, I think you might need to cut off your friends for your own sanity and mental well being, you might also need to buy a sex doll for your libido as well.