"Surely something like race wouldn’t matter when you’re truly in love? To be honest, it’s not something that I had thought about that deeply. "
"So here I am, a Black woman that has only dated white men. I have been guilty of letting things slide for the sake of ignorant bliss(white skin halo effect)"
"I will not accept someone who refuses to acknowledge their privilege" neither will we accept you, you degenerate whore. you're a woman, it doesn't get more privileged than that."
"It became glaringly obvious that there might be a reason he had the picture-perfect blonde girl on the outside, and me tucked away behind the scenes." of course, your boyfriend had a better, white girl as his main girlfriend because you're simply not worth as much as she is. Just like you disregard any race other than white people because they are simply more attractive. He's doing exactly the same thing you're doing.