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what happens if they know my age?
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How would they know? If you already know people there go somewhere people don't know you.
If you want to ascend, you should be devoting your life to that, specifically, whether you're going to uni or not. Environment matters, but if you're not approaching girls regularly you'll never get a girlfriend either way. Have you tried Tinder swiping in poor Asian countries? It's a good way to test your looks and possibly practice female interaction.
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Is uni convenient or avoiding college better?
I don't know, I didn't go to either. I'd be focusing on what job it's going to get you at the end, especially if you're in the US, where they burn the poor. In a few years your priorities will shift drastically. You can try to ascend whether you're at uni or not.
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i am in a hurry to lose my virginity so whatever works best. i'm 23 i won't let myself be a virgin any longer
You said above you're studying history. I know you've already put a lot of time into your associate's degree, but how useful is a BA in History going to be? From what I've heard online, it's pretty useless, but you know more about it than I do. You could go to university and change majors to something that can earn money, if you're able to. I would also consider trade school. If you have to, get a job right out of the gate, but I think the former two options I suggested are better (or you could work part-time while you go to school).
EDIT: Also, your post seems to frame the decision with dating options as the most important factor, which I think is a mistake. Sorry if this sounds obvious, but I would focus more on long-term earning potential and job security.
EDIT: Also, your post seems to frame the decision with dating options as the most important factor, which I think is a mistake. Sorry if this sounds obvious, but I would focus more on long-term earning potential and job security.
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I don’t care much about education anymore. Besides I learned nothing in college and learned a lot by the internet
Getting hooked up should be the last thing on your mind when making the choice to go to college or not.
My advice is unless the UNI sets you back too much financlially speaking, complete your degree. I heard you have rich parents so it shouldn't be problem. I am actually surprised how a rich ethnic such as yourself didn't go for university in the first place. I knew a curry who took the community college route but that's because going from a curryland school straight to usa uni is a very hard step. I also don't understand how you managed to turn 24 without continuing with Uni or doing a job all this time
My advice is unless the UNI sets you back too much financlially speaking, complete your degree. I heard you have rich parents so it shouldn't be problem. I am actually surprised how a rich ethnic such as yourself didn't go for university in the first place. I knew a curry who took the community college route but that's because going from a curryland school straight to usa uni is a very hard step. I also don't understand how you managed to turn 24 without continuing with Uni or doing a job all this time
I get you're sick of school and you didn't learn much from it, but if you want to get a job that actually pays well (a trade, something in STEM, etc.), getting the relevant education makes that MUCH easier. Also, you WILL learn a lot if you're learning about something actually practical, like programming, plumbing, or welding, instead of history (I'm not specifically endorsing those three examples, I just chose them off the top of my head).
You have several options (all easier said than done, but doable nonetheless):
1. Become an entrepreneur. (risky)
2. Get some random minimum wage job and work your way up from there. (easiest option short-term, but big risk of just staying where you are for a long time and never moving up)
3. Determine what career you would actually want, do whatever it takes to get an internship in that area (even working without pay for a period of time if you have to), perform so well that they hire you. (finding and doing the internship will be the hardest part, but if you can get over that, you'll be set)
4. Bite the bullet and go back to school in something useful, then get a job afterwards. (least risky, best option IMO)
You can't get a job with COVID, and Uni won't begin until the fall. So, whichever route you choose, you have at least 6 more months to think about your life. That's plenty of time to figure out where you want your life to go and make a plan. Unfortunately, people on an incel forum aren't going to answer such a difficult question, that's something you have to figure out.
EDIT: Of course, you could also just complete your History degree and see what happens. Again, I can't speak to how useful a History degree is and what jobs you can get with that, that's for you to determine.
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history degree i think can give me a thinktank job
Go to uni. You don't want to end up working dead end jobs and have a broken back at 50 do you and come back to an empty house (if you can even afford one)
Fair enough. If that's viable to achieve, then I would recommend finishing your degree. Ignore my wall of text above
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Aren’t uni students more into casual dates and hookups?
If you have the chance to go to college, you should go to college.
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Why?
It looks good to employers. It shows that you are more capable.
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I could still get a job
I think that's nobody else's but your choice and that studying in university in itself neither increase nor reduce your chances to get a girlfriend as an incel.
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I never even knew my chances because I never was ready due to ocd
I mean I don't believe in miracles. For example, if you're ugly and short, then it's impossible to get a gf.
IMHO, 'ugly' means 'having underdeveloped bone structure of the face' and 'short' means 'being under 175-180 cm (5'9"-5'11"), depending on the area you live in".
Also I think cock size is very important too.
Nowadays women can easily choose a sexual partner. I think you need to be atleast an average guy to attract some foid.
IMHO, 'ugly' means 'having underdeveloped bone structure of the face' and 'short' means 'being under 175-180 cm (5'9"-5'11"), depending on the area you live in".
Also I think cock size is very important too.
Nowadays women can easily choose a sexual partner. I think you need to be atleast an average guy to attract some foid.
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Which option should I pick?
I think this was meant for someone else
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What?
Your reply made no sense to me.
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What did you mean by “I think this was meant for someone else”?
Uni is useless but if you cant find yourself learning from home maybe you should go.
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Which is easier for finding a gf?
Neither. At least from home you are comfortable.
college/university is the best possible place to ascend
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yeah that's true but usually only if you're 18-21 because you have way more life ahead of you and don't need to rush to lose your virginity too much. and because you'll be the same age as everyone, so you won't be viewed as the weird older guy. if i went to parties (i'm turning 24 in the fall) won't i be ridiculed for my age. and many girls won't wanna date me because of my age because of the age gap stigma
No one will know your age, you'll look the same as most people your early 20s.
Also, I would try talking to girls in your class while doing work or some shit like that.
Try gymmaxxxing or something, I remember seeing part of what you look like, and I think gaining some muscle mass will definitely help.
Get a degree. Life has been shit to you in your early years so you’re basically owed a better latter half to life, even if its just financially so. At the least you’ll be able to cope better.
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in the fall i won't have opportunities to meet people cuz of covid
If you can neet while in uni (yeah I know one of the e's is education) but where parents or gov is paying for it... I'd stick it out. If not and unless your degree path is one foids hate and you'll find a legit job in that field... I'd quit wasting time and either get a trade or a job to avoid the debt and just work at coping. Preferrably if your country has neetbux.
corona killed us without killing us.
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is it difficult being 24 in college? what if they know my age?
they wont. Even if they do, most chicks won't give a shit.
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Idk a lot of stigma against age differences these days. I’ve witnessed it myself irl from many everyday garden variety people
bro you are being irrationally scared. if even single person says something about a 24 year old dating 21-23 years old, I'll shove a boot up my ass
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nah, I know many people dating younger women.
If even a single person mentions it (0.00001% chance), laugh it off and say something like "you mad bro?"
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You probably just live in a tolerant area or people you meet just say it behind ones back rather than to ones face.
this is canada, the most progressive place in the world (or so they say).
If it isn't happening here, it's not going to happen almost anywhere else except isolated incidents.
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I’m sure they just laugh behind their back
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If age gaps weren’t stigmatized you wouldn’t see by normies on twitter Facebook, forums etc and you wouldn’t see throwaway accounts saying “is 21 and 19 bad?”
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You forgot to say in minecraft
If they think 21 and 19 is bad, they probably are severely retarded beyond belief.
I dropped out like 3rd day of uni I’m stuck with only shit jobs I’d stay
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