I can’t stop thinking about it
It's not for you bro.
The way i figure it, is like this...
You are wasting your too short amount of valuable life time pondering the lives of others. By comparing your life to theirs isn't healthy or even necessary. It's not a game of sex, love, money, status... Even though we've been led to believe in that. (By the jewish overlords)
In the end there is only YOUR LIFE, your perception. All that matters rly, is taking care of you, and those few around you that are part of you. Your loved ones, your tribe, etc...
I never had the luxury of wondering how the fancy people lived as i almost froze to death outside their warm homes! I was too busy trying to survive, LITERALLY!
Instead of hating my freezing conditions i tried to find warmth. It was my focus.
Perhaps you have the luxury of considering the lives of those "above you." But i say, worry about your own life! Don't give them your energy! You need it to find your own survival!
It's only recently that i found the good cope of "stoicism." But i had already lived it for decades!
I shunned what i could not have! I concentrated on improving my own shituation.
Don't get me wrong! I still hate them sexy love havers! And friend havers!
But i don't let it rule my thoughts.
In the end that's really all we can control. Just our thoughts and perceptions.
Maybe your life is too easy? No struggles? Sure your Incel. But sry no cure for that. But you can go camping! Or ride a millennium ride on a bike.or challenge yourself somehow.
Find a way to master some facet of your life. Then expand it so you control your thoughts and perceptions.
Your mind is really all you own. Everything else can be lost easy.