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Serious Incels would probably be much less depressed if all they wanted was sex and sex alone.

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I just wanna be loved, but don’t think I’m worthy
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A lot of us (including me) are sad not only because we can’t get laid, but because we’re lonely. We want a girlfriend to spend time with. We want to experience intimacy with someone who likes us. We want to be validated. Some of us are (stupidly) hopeless romantics. Which is why some do not want to pay for sex, or why some that do are still sad. This is also why incels that are lucky enough to have social life and friends still feel lonely. Of course, this doesn’t mean that we don’t want sex. We just think of sex as one of the good things about romantic relationships.

But incels who only care about getting their dicks wet are probably less depressed. At that point the only things stopping them are not being able to afford an escort, and/or prostitution being illegal where they live. When you take away the loneliness aspect from inceldom, then it probably isn’t as bad. If all you care about is sex, then why would you care about whether or not a hooker is into it or whether or not she’s disgusted by you? Unless it’s an ego thing, you probably don’t give a shit about her. If you only care about sex, then you are ahead of the curve.
 
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Agreed.
The thing is you need a lifetime of intimacy from foids to fully function as a male.
 
A lot of us (including me) are sad not only because we can’t get laid, but because we’re lonely. We want a girlfriend to spend time with. We want to experience intimacy with someone who likes us. We want to be validated. Some of us are (stupidly) hopeless romantics. Which is why some do not want to pay for sex, or why some that do are still sad. This is also why incels that are lucky enough to have social life and friends still feel lonely.

But incels who only care about getting their dicks wet are probably less depressed. At that point the only things stopping them are not being able to afford an escort, and/or prostitution being illegal where they live. When you take away the loneliness aspect from inceldom, then it probably isn’t as bad. If all you care about is sex, then why would you care about whether or not a hooker is into it or whether or not she’s disgusted by you? Unless it’s an ego thing, you probably don’t give a shit about her. If you only care about sex, then you are ahead of the curve.
im sorry i cant take u srsly because your avi is from a ching chong microtransaction game
 
im sorry i cant take u srsly because your avi is from a ching chong microtransaction game
You literally don’t have to pay a cent to enjoy it. Unless you’re fixated on gambling for waifus then you can still enjoy it. Hell I got Fischl for free.
 
You literally don’t have to pay a cent to enjoy it. Unless you’re fixated on gambling for waifus then you can still enjoy it. Hell I got Fischl for free.
fuck china
 
I just want one girlfriend for a few months.

I won't be a virgin anymore
I'll have experience and won't be insecure about that.
I won't be wondering what I'm missing out on.
I won't feel like a complete loser
 
I just want one girlfriend for a few months.

I won't be a virgin anymore
I'll have experience and won't be insecure about that.
I won't be wondering what I'm missing out on.
I won't feel like a complete loser
You’ll still feel like shit when you can’t get anyone else.
 
I've heard in some places that that's why incel is not an appropriate term because it focus solely on the sex.
 
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I've heard in some places that that's why incel is not an appropriate term because it focus solely on the sex.
It is appropriate because it is still about sex. I sure as hell wouldn’t want to be in a sexless relationship.
 
incels that are lucky enough to have social life
I don't think having a social life necessarily means a good thing. In theory Milhouse and Martin have a "social life" getting beaten up at school.

incels who only care about getting their dicks wet are probably less depressed
No such thing, such wording buys into foid "men only want one thing" one-dimensional memes.

Men who can focus MORE on sex than relationships can probably avoid depression more easily yeah because escortceling (or other ways you have sex with women not attracted to you) would do it for them.

At that point the only things stopping them are not being able to afford an escort, and/or prostitution being illegal where they live
Illegality doesn't actually stop you from doing something as much as you choose to stop yourself doing something to avoid the potential ramifications of those laws being enforced.

When you take away the loneliness aspect from inceldom, then it probably isn’t as bad.
If all you care about is sex, then why would you care about whether or not a hooker is into it or whether or not she’s disgusted by you?
You feel lonely in the company of others when you can tell they mentally reject you.
Sex is never 'all' someone cares about, even if it can predominate the majority of their decisionmaking at brief or frequent intervals.
We are all of us multifaceted.

Unless it’s an ego thing, you probably don’t give a shit about her.
If you only care about sex, then you are ahead of the curve.
This is like saying if you are Kryptonian you're ahead of curve, why focus on doesnt real scenarios?

It's about caring less about validation and cuddle relationships.

Which is hard because I think most of us are romantics deep down under all the layers of bitter grief, as you say.
 
I don't think having a social life necessarily means a good thing. In theory Milhouse and Martin have a "social life" getting beaten up at school.


No such thing, such wording buys into foid "men only want one thing" one-dimensional memes.

Men who can focus MORE on sex than relationships can probably avoid depression more easily yeah because escortceling (or other ways you have sex with women not attracted to you) would do it for them.


Illegality doesn't actually stop you from doing something as much as you choose to stop yourself doing something to avoid the potential ramifications of those laws being enforced.


You feel lonely in the company of others when you can tell they mentally reject you.
Sex is never 'all' someone cares about, even if it can predominate the majority of their decisionmaking at brief or frequent intervals.
We are all of us multifaceted.


This is like saying if you are Kryptonian you're ahead of curve, why focus on doesnt real scenarios?

It's about caring less about validation and cuddle relationships.

Which is hard because I think most of us are romantics deep down under all the layers of bitter grief, as you say.
Millhouse has Bart, who is a true bro. I’ve never even had a best friend.
 
Millhouse has Bart, who is a true bro.
Is he though?



I don't know if we ought to be viewing those two as an archtype of male comraderie to aspire to...



Bart literally cockblocked Milhouse dooming him to his incel future. It broke him so much (getting so close) that his blue balls nearly made him into a tranny.

He had ONE chance with a loli too pure to realize he wasn't gigachad and now it's gone 4ever just because



You can't relate at all because Bart has had fucking DOZENS of GF of the week and Milhouse never fucked it up for him, but the incel gets one foot on the path to ascension and chadlite badboy has to cuck him down to validate his own ego.

FRIEND


Not only that but in the future after Milhouse pulls himself back from the brink of trannydom and gym-maxes and finally earns a chance w/ Lisa, Bart fucks it up AGAIN:

 
A lot of us (including me) are sad not only because we can’t get laid, but because we’re lonely. We want a girlfriend to spend time with. We want to experience intimacy with someone who likes us. We want to be validated. Some of us are (stupidly) hopeless romantics. Which is why some do not want to pay for sex, or why some that do are still sad. This is also why incels that are lucky enough to have social life and friends still feel lonely. Of course, this doesn’t mean that we don’t want sex. We just think of sex as one of the good things about romantic relationships.

But incels who only care about getting their dicks wet are probably less depressed. At that point the only things stopping them are not being able to afford an escort, and/or prostitution being illegal where they live. When you take away the loneliness aspect from inceldom, then it probably isn’t as bad. If all you care about is sex, then why would you care about whether or not a hooker is into it or whether or not she’s disgusted by you? Unless it’s an ego thing, you probably don’t give a shit about her. If you only care about sex, then you are ahead of the curve.

You couldn't have expressed better what I thought. I can 100% relate to what you've said, is pretty much how I view it.

I've always seen sex as part of the problem, but not the main problem. Most foids and normalfags think is just about sex. Far from it.
 
You couldn't have expressed better what I thought. I can 100% relate to what you've said, is pretty much how I view it.

I've always seen sex as part of the problem, but not the main problem. Most foids and normalfags think is just about sex. Far from it.
I disagree. Normies are also into romance and relationships. Women want commitment (from Chad). It’s mainly Chads that are more into pumping and dumping.
 
I didn't explained myself correctly. What I meant is that foids and normalfags think that we as incels are bitter and angry because we don't get laid, when the thing is that is just a part of the problem, not the main problem. A lifetime of zero female acceptance, validation and love. That is the problem.
 
I didn't explained myself correctly. What I meant is that foids and normalfags think that we as incels are bitter and angry because we don't get laid, when the thing is that is just a part of the problem, not the main problem. A lifetime of zero female acceptance, validation and love. That is the problem.
 
Is he though?



I don't know if we ought to be viewing those two as an archtype of male comraderie to aspire to...



Bart literally cockblocked Milhouse dooming him to his incel future. It broke him so much (getting so close) that his blue balls nearly made him into a tranny.

He had ONE chance with a loli too pure to realize he wasn't gigachad and now it's gone 4ever just because



You can't relate at all because Bart has had fucking DOZENS of GF of the week and Milhouse never fucked it up for him, but the incel gets one foot on the path to ascension and chadlite badboy has to cuck him down to validate his own ego.

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Not only that but in the future after Milhouse pulls himself back from the brink of trannydom and gym-maxes and finally earns a chance w/ Lisa, Bart fucks it up AGAIN:

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Women have so many deal breakers concerning guys that aren't chad.
 
Women want commitment (from Chad).
It’s mainly Chads that are more into pumping and dumping.
Women will dump a chadlite who commits to them if mediumchad is available.
Women will dump a mediumchad who commits to them if gigachad is available.
Even if gigachad commits to a woman, she will convince herself that he is mediumchad and cheat w/ next available gigachad.
Actually committing to her lowered him in her eyes.
The only way she stays faithful is if she thinks he's cheating, because then she thinks he's higher-status and doesn't need her, which makes her want him more.

*in above example by "women" I do not mean 100% of women, just some number higher than 50%, as I am not a misogynist
 
The game never began, it's all over. No more reasons, no more justifications, it's just over.
 
Absolutely. I'm terribly lonely, and I just want someone who I can share my life with in a way that friends will never satisfy or understand. I fall in love way too quickly, so I suppose that would make me a hopeless romantic. When I pay for escorts, I do so mostly because I'm lonely and want someone to listen and pretend that they care. Escorts don't judge me when I say that my holidays so far have been crappy, or that my family doesn't give a shit about me. For that short time, I can at least pretend that someone cares about me and my problems. If I only had sexual desire and nothing else, I'd be totally satisfied seeing a shitty escort every once in a while. But I'm not - what I really want is for someone to listen to me, and because good escorts are expensive, there's no way for me to fully erase that loneliness, or at least express myself at the frequency which would allow me to function at my full potential.

I had a recent experience with an escort who treated the whole experience with such callousness and it was so off-putting compared to my other experiences. I actually regret seeing her. If I only cared about sex, that wouldn't be a problem. But it was a problem.
 
Agreed. All those types have to do is save up money and go pay for sex.

For me, it's not about just about sex. It's about finding someone that can love you unconditionally, sex is part of it, it proves that she is willing to accept you into her metaphorically and literally speaking. But sex alone is just like masterbation but utilizing someone elses insides to get off on. Any hoe can give someone with enough money that. Why would I pay money to someone for something I can do myself?

I just hate the fact that the stupid media thinks all we want is sex and sex alone. Elliot Rodgers good for nothing dad offered to buy him prostitutes. Yeah son, you say you're suffering rotting in loneliness because no girl will give you a chance? Here, I'll give you some hoes will that cheer you up?

They don't realize, it's programmed torture. Our brains punish us with pain for not fulfilling what it wants us to do, we are social creatures and failure to be accepted amongst society leads to intense pain. Thanks to the (((people))) who hijacked our society, they reward foids for rejecting good men and embracing the Chad trash. Since foids utilize more reptilian parts of their brain, they are fundamental psychopaths that don't feel bad about the suffering they cause, sometimes they enjoy and revel in it.
 

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