Is anybody else terrified of the idea of having another human being all up in your life? (girlfriend)

[Deleted member 7448]

I am in no way at risk of ever dating a woman.

But even so, I do wish to have a girlfriend. And yet, at the same time, the mere thought terrifies me because of my avoidant personality. My whole life would have to change. I wouldn't be able to just be at home all the time, rot in front of my laptop, play with my cat, spend time with my parents. (Hell, a big part of why I don't just fuck off to a better country and I stay in this shithole with african-tier wages is to be near my parents. But if a woman comes into your life, you have little time for them, they have to become a lower priority).

Even worse, you'd have to share everything with that woman. Your time, your personal space, your resources.

And when you're a wageslave, most of your day is already not yours. So after you finish slaving away, you have to be chained to her now.

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Not really. My pet Norwegian that im getting soon doesn't terrify me

 

[Deleted member 22907]

Yea, I agree. I'm too far down to ever get up.

Even if I managed to get a gf, I would not be able to keep her.

 

[Glast]

Having something to look forward to changes you. Having a girlfriend/wife is just behind having children in terms of providing happiness. There's nothing that feels more accomplishing than building a family. The fact you made this thread shows just how infinitely vast is the canyon separating us from being truly fulfilled.

 

[OnGP]

And when you're a wageslave, most of your day is already not yours. So after you finish slaving away, you have to be chained to her now.

That's usually when the honeymoon period is over (which is what the majority of people believe relationships are like)

They think that an entire relationship is built up of love and happiness, when in reality you begin to grow irritable with eachother due to spending your life with them. People have a strange view on relationships.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

i used to be many years ago but i think it might be a stupid thing to worry about

normies slowly work their way together, they don't just randomly move in early on unless there's something supremely weird and dysfunctional going on (slut trying to escape her parents judgement)

unless weird shit is going on, you should get plenty of time to get accustomed with increased presence from the other

 

[Deleted member 14382]

I knew that I didn't want a wife or kids when I was a kid myself. Constantly being in close proximity to a woman is creepy and cucked.

 

[Hate_my_life]

Have sex with her.

Make sure she stays in the kitchen.
If she tries to interact you or make you commit time to her, assERt dominance.

Your only interactions with a hole should be for just sex.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I have nothing but time.

 

[Cybersex is our hope]

I'm partially volcel because i'm terrified of staying with high social skills, high faking skills NT foids however I'd love to share my Life with a nawalt with masculine mind

 

[Hell]

I don't like the idea of being unable to pick my nose at the computer at will, or having someone sweating and dropping their skin flakes in my bed.

 

[Incel of the GLA]

The idea of sharing everything with someone you cuddle and have sex with sounds fantastic but alas, females only comply with chads as rest of the men are commodities for them and will be treated as such.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I think with time I could get comfortable

 

[97cel]

Foids find the high iq interests of an incel creepy and unappealing. An incel would have to supress them in a relationship

 

[OldIncel]

My girlfriend would judge me for never going out and having no social isolation. She would leave me quickly.

So yes, I am terrified of that ever happening.

 

[V0id]

I want to have femily, But in 2020 its an hard dream for any avarge man

 

[TruestBlackCel]

Have sex with her.

Make sure she stays in the kitchen.
If she tries to interact you or make you commit time to her, assERt dominance.

Your only interactions with a hole should be for just sex.

 

[Deleted member 23682]

I don't like the idea of being unable to pick my nose at the computer at will, or having someone sweating and dropping their skin flakes in my bed.

 

[CumBoy]

no idea what I would even do with her

 

[BabyFuck McGirlsex]

I am in no way at risk of ever dating a woman.

But even so, I do wish to have a girlfriend. And yet, at the same time, the mere thought terrifies me because of my avoidant personality. My whole life would have to change. I wouldn't be able to just be at home all the time, rot in front of my laptop, play with my cat, spend time with my parents. (Hell, a big part of why I don't just fuck off to a better country and I stay in this shithole with african-tier wages is to be near my parents. But if a woman comes into your life, you have little time for them, they have to become a lower priority).

Even worse, you'd have to share everything with that woman. Your time, your personal space, your resources.

And when you're a wageslave, most of your day is already not yours. So after you finish slaving away, you have to be chained to her now.

Brutal foid pill - foids are inherently evil and if you remove their fuckholes from the equation you will find that they are terrible companions who have nothing really of substance to talk about

Foids find the high iq interests of an incel creepy and unappealing. An incel would have to supress them in a relationship

No more lolicon because foids would find it creepy
Brutal
Its over

 

[Deleted member 22571]

Do you think I enjoy playing video games, watching porn and other coping shit? NO. I do those things BECAUSE I can't get a girlfriend. If I could get a girlfriend I'd gladly spend all the time I spend coping with video games and porn on her instead. It would make me feel much happier and be much more full filling.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Do you think I enjoy playing video games, watching porn and other coping shit? NO. I do those things BECAUSE I can't get a girlfriend. If I could get a girlfriend I'd gladly spend all the time I spend coping with video games and porn on her instead. It would make me feel much happier and be much more full filling.

You're putting toilets on a pedestal. Sure, after being deprived of a cunt for so long, you would probably initially really like being with a cunt. But the way you put it sounds really bluepilled and like worshipping foids. They are horrible, manipulative, nagging, never-satisfied and selfish beings, why do you think they'd make you happy lmao.

 

[Deleted member 22571]

You're putting toilets on a pedestal. Sure, after being deprived of a cunt for so long, you would probably initially really like being with a cunt. But the way you put it sounds really bluepilled and like worshipping foids. They are horrible, manipulative, nagging, never-satisfied and selfish beings, why do you think they'd make you happy lmao.

Don't get me wrong, I'm very black pilled about female nature. I wrote my comment with the implication that the foid I spend time with is a unicorn. I'd rather cope than spend time with a normie foid, even if I was chad I'd only pump and dump them.

 

[Macrocephalus]

I am in no way at risk of ever dating a woman.

But even so, I do wish to have a girlfriend. And yet, at the same time, the mere thought terrifies me because of my avoidant personality. My whole life would have to change. I wouldn't be able to just be at home all the time, rot in front of my laptop, play with my cat, spend time with my parents. (Hell, a big part of why I don't just fuck off to a better country and I stay in this shithole with african-tier wages is to be near my parents. But if a woman comes into your life, you have little time for them, they have to become a lower priority).

Even worse, you'd have to share everything with that woman. Your time, your personal space, your resources.

And when you're a wageslave, most of your day is already not yours. So after you finish slaving away, you have to be chained to her now.

.Same goes for me.
I'm not used to having people around, I'm never 100% comfortable around strangers, even men (let alone women). I spend most of my time either at home or in uni, and even there I just go to classes and never speak to anyone. Basically I can go weeks without having a proper conversation with another human being (excluding relatives).
A gf (which I'm never getting anyway cause of my looks) is a HUGE change in social life and I don't think I'd be able to handle it. What would we talk about? Where would we go? I have no idea

My girlfriend would judge me for never going out and having no social isolation. She would leave me quickly.

So yes, I am terrified of that ever happening.

The socialpill is real

 

[Chileancel]

No. I'm terrified, however, of failing to perform as a normal human being. No woman is good enough to accept a kissless virgin as a lover. Even less when he's poor and awkward, he has no social life or charisma. Because even at the astronomically small chance of her liking me initially, why would she be ok with all those shortcomings that every other woman in my life as deemed insufficient after knowing me for a while?

 

[ItsOver4cel]

I don't think that would be a problem for me. If Chad isn't overstressed why would you be?
Not to mention you could just ONSmaxx as well who the hell wants to have relationships in 2020?