Discussion Is being able to talk to foids a fakecel trait?

[Deleted member 11159]

I could never understand how an incel could even have female friends. There was only ever one time over 2 years ago that I talked to a foid one-on-one for an hour and I still think about it daily, constantly going back over it in my head, wondering how I ever managed to do that. It's by far the biggest accomplishment in my life.

But when talking to the foid, I realised that I have more in common with my cat than I did with her. Foids may as well be a different species to me since our lives are so different.

There's a foid at work that i'm oneitising and i've been looking for any excuse to interact with her but it's just impossible. What would I say? How would I keep a conversation going?
I tried holding the door open for her but i'm so autistic that literally failed in doing that
How is an incel supposed to find something in common with a foid to get a conversation going?

 

[AnotherInsertCel1]

It's easier to talk to foids when you don't want anything from them, you only get nervous when you think she can see that you have ulterior motive.

 

[Michinomiya Hirohit]

It's easier to talk to foids when you don't want anything from them, you only get nervous when you think she can see that you ulterior motive.

 

[radishman]

Just pretend it's an escort.

 

[coldmachinery]

I could talk to anyone at this point. I want nothing. Embarrassment? Deeply embedded into my existence. Like pissing in the ocean.

 

[Gymcelled]

Talking to a person is like dancing with someone else. You could be the best dancer in the world but if the other person is trying to sabotage you and refuses to follow, reciprocate, etc you're going to do fucking horribly. No conversation skills in the world will ever help you if the foid is actively trying to fuck up the conversation or end it prematurely

If talking to a foid is hard for you ... they are trying to make it hard, or even impossible (unless you have autism or some mental illness)

The ease of conversations with foids correlates strongly to looks and mutual attraction

 

[Ika-Sama]

It's easier to talk to foids when you don't want anything from them, you only get nervous when you think she can see that you have ulterior motive.

 

[AnotherInsertCel1]

I could talk to anyone at this point. I want nothing.

This is where I'm at right now.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

The ease of conversations with foids correlates strongly to looks and mutual attraction

 

[coldmachinery]

This is where I'm at right now.

 

[Pence2024]

If you're an incel, foids will not want to be talked to by you. No matter how innocent, no matter how interesting, entertaining or important what you say is, she'll see you as a creep and run away.

 

[Deleted member 24876]

It's more like a normie trait since the foid has to be interested in you in order for the conversation to last longer than 5 minutes. Usually foids will use normies as emotional tampons when a chad abuses them.

 

[AnotherInsertCel1]

If you're an incel, foids will not want to be talked to by you. No matter how innocent, no matter how interesting, entertaining or important what you say is, she'll see you as a creep and run away.

Fuck her and the clique she claim.

 

[Dr. Dicklet]

It's easier to talk to foids when you don't want anything from them, you only get nervous when you think she can see that you have ulterior motive.

True now that I'm blackpilled and don't give a shit what they think, I find it a lot easier, in fact I can even make them laugh sometimes (unintentionally) But obviously non of that makes makes a difference because I'm subhuman looks.

 

[BITG]

Talking to a person is like dancing with someone else. You could be the best dancer in the world but if the other person is trying to sabotage you and refuses to follow, reciprocate, etc you're going to do fucking horribly. No conversation skills in the world will ever help you if the foid is actively trying to fuck up the conversation or end it prematurely

If talking to a foid is hard for you ... they are trying to make it hard, or even impossible (unless you have autism or some mental illness)

The ease of conversations with foids correlates strongly to looks and mutual attraction

 

[Deleted member 11159]

Talking to a person is like dancing with someone else. You could be the best dancer in the world but if the other person is trying to sabotage you and refuses to follow, reciprocate, etc you're going to do fucking horribly. No conversation skills in the world will ever help you if the foid is actively trying to fuck up the conversation or end it prematurely

If talking to a foid is hard for you ... they are trying to make it hard, or even impossible (unless you have autism or some mental illness)

The ease of conversations with foids correlates strongly to looks and mutual attraction

I get NTmogged by actual autists. I think I have some really severe anxiety. There are some super low inhib users here who I wish I could be like.

 

[VindalooCell]

I've actually never talked to a foid unless I had to (schoolwork, cashier, receptionist etc).

 

[Deleted member 11159]

I've actually never talked to a foid unless I had to (schoolwork, cashier, receptionist etc).

I only did once in my life. Luckily like most foids she just enjoyed talking about herself most of the time. Whenever she did ask me something I just gave her "yes" or "no" answers. I tried my best but I simply couldn't come up with anything to say.

 

[VindalooCell]

I only did once in my life. Luckily like most foids she just enjoyed talking about herself most of the time. Whenever she did ask me something I just gave her "yes" or "no" answers. I tried my best but I simply couldn't come up with anything to say.

It's never even began for us, can't even talk to them (implying they want to talk to us) never mind doing something more.

 

[Gymcelled]

I get NTmogged by actual autists. I think I have some really severe anxiety. There are some super low inhib users here who I wish I could be like.

If you think it's social anxiety and not autism you should think about using some drugs to lower your inhibition like GHB or phenibut

Phenibut is addictive though. From what i've heard it works very well but you shouldn't use it long term

 

[Deleted member 11159]

If you think it's social anxiety and not autism you should think about using some drugs to lower your inhibition like GHB or phenibut

Phenibut is addictive though. From what i've heard it works very well but you shouldn't use it long term

I bought phenibut over a year ago for that reason. I get some bad side effects from it though so I only really plan on using it if I know I have a good chance at getting somewhere if I don't act autistic. Sadly I didn't have a chance to make use of it yet since I bought it around the time COVID happened.
I did notice that i'm a bit more "smooth" when I take it, so it does seem like my problem isn't all about having no social skills, but simply anxiety. Still, I can't just use it whenever I go to work, hoping that by some miracle I actually find an excuse to talk to the foid i'm oneitising.

 

[Gymcelled]

I bought phenibut over a year ago for that reason. I get some bad side effects from it though so I only really plan on using it if I know I have a good chance at getting somewhere if I don't act autistic. Sadly I didn't have a chance to make use of it yet since I bought it around the time COVID happened.
I did notice that i'm a bit more "smooth" when I take it, so it does seem like my problem isn't all about having no social skills, but simply anxiety. Still, I can't just use it whenever I go to work, hoping that by some miracle I actually find an excuse to talk to the foid i'm oneitising.

I honestly don't know too much about this stuff but i've heard one guy say that GHB is much better for frequent usage.
Phenibut is the stuff you take for an event

 

[PPEcel]

Don't say more than is minimally necessary to sustain a professional conversation.

 

[Deleted member 11159]

Don't say more than is minimally necessary to sustain a professional conversation.

I don't want a professional conversation. I want a casual one.

 

[PPEcel]

I don't want a professional conversation. I want a casual one.

ive got a tip for you: reincarnate as a chad

or as a soy-fueled faggot that foids will see as harmless

 

[Deleted member 11159]

ive got a tip for you: reincarnate as a chad

done

 

[fedcel]

might be the opposite. one of my best friends through high school was a girl, I liked her for the whole soul crushing 5 years. we were really perfect together in every way but she made it clear we will never date. I mean it wasn't like I was her simp and orbitted her, we went to each others houses a lot, we have FB messages from that era where we talked every day not even about anything just making jokes and sharing memes. we liked the same stuff and hated the same people, everything was just so easy with her. I've never had a friend like that and never will again. I couldn't have done any more to prove myself to her but none of it mattered, my looks ruined everything. knowing you can connect with somebody like that and not even be an option for her is a nuclear blackpill, a lot of posters probably can cling onto some fantasy of a girl getting to know you, loving you for who you are and wanting to be with you despite your flaws, I can't.

 

[Subhuman Orangutan]

It's easier to talk to foids when you don't want anything from them, you only get nervous when you think she can see that you have ulterior motive.

 

[_Courage_]

Nah, I have to talk to foids at my job just to get shit done. Which sucks, because it if it were my choice they wouldn't have a job on the first place. Also sometimes when I need something from a foid, it's a good skill to be able to talk to one without pissing them off. Treat em like their human, get what you need done and leave.

 

[zangano1]

Yes

 

[Loner94]

Not sure.

 

[waste matter]

It depends on the situations.
If its anything about their life and interests yes you're a volcel but if it is about services like cashier than no its not.

 

[Deleted member 27204]

No.

 

[BecomeTheNew]

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thank you for quoting a high t tallfag's advice

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

nah it's a question of how deep in pua aids you are or used to be

Talking to a person is like dancing with someone else. You could be the best dancer in the world but if the other person is trying to sabotage you and refuses to follow, reciprocate, etc you're going to do fucking horribly. No conversation skills in the world will ever help you if the foid is actively trying to fuck up the conversation or end it prematurely

If talking to a foid is hard for you ... they are trying to make it hard, or even impossible (unless you have autism or some mental illness)

The ease of conversations with foids correlates strongly to looks and mutual attraction

 

[NapoliPizzaPie]

The ease of conversations with foids correlates strongly to looks and mutual attraction

I argue it depends on context. In a professional / work setting, it's incredibly easy to talk to foids. I have literally no issue, some even start conversations with me.

Outside that though, it suddenly becomes Japanese Famicom difficulty