I once used Meetup on two occasions. About 6 years ago I used it for a online date night, where strangers meet up to talk and find romance.
My experiences on that was not good. I went out and purchased expensive clothes and shoes. I was gymmaxxed, showered, performing high in my job (despite no recognition for it), i felt pretty damn good. I then saw ugly guys there as well as hot females. I was positive about this. I then saw Staceys treat the occasion like any other club bar. I saw two stacies in a corner, while man after man approached her. I knew instantly what they were doing. I spoke to one foid who didn't give me a chance at all. In the end i ended up just talking to guys there and watching the chads get all the attention.