Serious Is moving out of your parents house a good cope for Incels?

[Deleted member 4760]

For those who stopped living at home and moved out, how bmany improvements have you seen in your life? Are you more miserable than before or is independence a good cope?

I've been wagemaxxing for the past 2 years and only thinking now of moving out...But I get the feeling that returning home in complete silence, without anyone to interact to (in this case my mother and sister) would be even more crippling on my mental health...

 

[wizardcel]

it's a living hell...

 

[Deleted member 4760]

it's a living hell...

well fuck..

why do you move out then?

 

[wizardcel]

well fuck..

why do you move out then?

they said it was about time I did something with my life.

 

[Incel801]

its very lonely when you move out as an incel and the urge to rope is MUCH stronger..im happy back at home really

 

[Deleted member 4760]

they said it was about time I did something with my life.

ffs, the only positive i could see with moving out right now is that escortcelling might be easier but i dont wanna pay for it anymore...

goddman tired of this life already...

 

[RollD20]

Depends. If you get along with your parents somewhat then there is no reason to move out, but if your parents basically want you out of their lives and sight (like mine do). It could be worth moving out.
But in most cases probably just better to just stay with your parents.

 

[Grotesque]

For me, it helped significantly. I couldn't communicate with anyone at all when I lived with my parents, and I was constantly depressed and tired due to their shit.

Not that life became much better for me. Everything is painful as an ugly male.

 

[Angry_runt]

I moved out a month after I finished high school and I loved it, even at those times I had to live on ramen in roach infested dumps. My parents are pretty cool and I've always had a great relationship with them, but you can't be a proper adult if you're not independent.

 

[whyAmIEvenAlive]

Moving out is a good thing imo. You feel like an actual adult and if you converse with people at work then at least you dont come across as a child. I moved out like 8 years ago and dont regret it.

 

[ihaveno1]

if u have a decent job just moneymaxx while living w/ ur parents if they leave u alone, if u move out u wont be fucking any foids anyway

 

[whyAmIEvenAlive]

Depends. If you get along with your parents somewhat then there is no reason to move out, but if your parents basically want you out of their lives and sight (like mine do). It could be worth moving out.
But in most cases probably just better to just stay with your parents.

Very selfish to burden your parents tbh. Fend for yourself and have some respect for your parents.

 

[RollD20]

Very selfish to burden your parents tbh. Fend for yourself and have some respect for your parents.

If OP can pull it off he might as well just moneymaxx and save for a place to buy instead of rent, since its just money lost.

 

[Deleted member 14866]

Fuck yea, that’s what I’m moving towards

 

[HueHueBr]

I felt like crap when I lived with my mother. I've lived alone for 7 years and still feel like a human trash, but trash with its own trashcave.

the biggest advantage is to crawl with the bathroom door open, walk naked through the house, drink till fall, drop stinking fart at will, watch porn in the room and be sure that no one will eat the things you bought and stored in the refrigerator.

 

[Modus Coperandi]

I moved out when I was 17 (with help) and have been on my own since.

I have a very fucked up relationship with my father, so moving out was the best thing that happened to me in my life, by far.
After all these years of separation I'm finally able to hold short conversations with him tbh.
(I didn't even know his job until I was 20, just to give you an idea)

Sure, the silence can be depressionfuel, but silence is better than bluepill garbage. Also music helps, not kidding.

It's absolutely unimaginable for me how so many of you can still live at home. I can't even visit my parents for more than 2 days without feeling "homesick".

 

[Narazz]

Most people are eager to leave because they have women and friends. incels just have internet life. Do you really think things are going to improve doing wage slavery? If all i did was work 12 hours a day doing that shit and couldn't even afford a video game in my off time, i would of rope a long time ago!

That being said, if an incel is able to make decent income then it most likely not that bad. I would wager most incels probably couldn't even get to middle class, though.

 

[nekomimimodo]

The best thing about living alone is that it helps you become more independent since you have to do everything by yourself, I didn't even know how to properly clean before I left home, the problem is that moneymaxxing becomes much harder when you don't have your parents to pay the bills, buy groceries and other miscellaneous stuff.
I would move out again if I could, but its nearly impossible until I get a better job.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Don't unless you wanna waste $2k a month.

Let's just say $20,000 a year. Can be used to live in SEA for nearly two years if you don't eat out a lot.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I can’t afford to move out. Average rent around here is $900 for a single bedroom apartment and I make $1400 a month. I moved out once into a cheap dump, lived their 6 months and then the building got condemned and bulldozed. Something about black mold. I was living in my car for a few weeks.

My parents begged me to come back home because I help pay their bills and they were struggling without me. I talked to them about finding a place recently and they said it would be better if I just stayed with them. They are in their 60’s and will be gone one day, then I’ll inherit the house.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

Best way is to stay with them until you can afford something without having to pay rent so you save massive amounts of money in the future.

 

[YungCell]

The plus is that you could drugmaxx and have more privacy but its very costly

 

[StaroRavager]

I’m glad I moved out of my parents house, their bitching was becoming unbearable not to mention having to deal with their delusions and deep seated personal problems

 

[TheGoodGuy]

My life ended after moving out..

 

[Blue Squirtle]

No it's not, because you start to miss everything and wonder how life got so bad.

 

[Heroic Crusader]

Improves privacy and lonliness simultaneously

 

[Deleted member 16359]

Nah,who's gonna cook me food and pay the bills if i move out?

 

[Insomniac]

I’m 24 and still live with my parents.

I’m an embarrassment.

 

[Ignas]

Yes but not always. Sometimes it's a good rope instead. When you don't have a girl to love you why would you want to stay away from your parents who cheer you up?

 

[Captain Funny]

No, people are still going to make fun of you for not moving out sooner.

 

[Mainländer]

it's a living hell...

I don't even want to try. I'd rather take my crowded buses everyday tbh.

I’m 24 and still live with my parents.

I’m an embarrassment.

Why do you care as an incel?

 

[Dionysus]

.But I get the feeling that returning home in complete silence, without anyone to interact to (in this case my mother and sister) would be even more crippling on my mental health...

get a dog maybe

 

[Deleted member 4760]

some life and suicide fuel comment here...

Very interesting. I'm 25, approaching 26...I think its time for me honestly..

As of now, I live in mom's basement and stopped going out after my attempts at socializing failed..im kinda feeling stuck here and babyfed at times...

get a dog maybe

nope, dogs are living cope for human desperation.
sides the dogpill made me jalous of dogs (joke btw)

 

[Michael15651]

I’ll let you know in 8 months.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I’m moving out after college prob

 

[Deleted member 16980]

I'm not sure, but I don't want to put up with my mother anymore than I have to.

 

[RopeShow]

It's good overall, I get to do what I want (except having cereal) but on the bad side I have to do everything myself. If you dont have time you're gonna neglect some stuff.

 

[Wonder]

I live in a shared flat with other university students. Living away from parents is probably okay, but this is kinda shit as I have to hear my roommates fuck girls very loudly.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

I omoved out at 19 to become a student in rented accomdation. My student life was shit due to scrawny pubertycel 127lbs body and face of a 14yo kid. . No girls for me, just hearing Chads and tallcels fuck stace PJ's and becky in the bumhole. I then went back to livewith my parents for 1 year at 21. Moved out at 22 to my own rented flat. Got a job in retail. Still couldn't laid. Became NEET at 24.

 

[IncelKing]

I omoved out at 19 to become a student in rented accomdation. My student life was shit due to scrawny pubertycel 127lbs body and face of a 14yo kid. . No girls for me, just hearing Chads and tallcels fuck stace PJ's and becky in the bumhole. I then went back to livewith my parents for 1 year at 21. Moved out at 22 to my own rented flat. Got a job in retail. Still couldn't laid. Became NEET at 24.

are you living with your parents again? I have similiar story to you, i wagemaxxed in the past but didnt help me in getting friends or girls, so i quit my job and been neet for past year, but looking to wageslave again for money

 

[Gengar]

I wish I could move out. I want to get my own life. But I can't, I'm just a pathetic NEET.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

i don't know, i really don't know

having total peace and solitude is nice sometimes, but it also gets old fast. after a year or so the loneliness will wear down on you more than the peaceful moments can compensate for.

having your own place to sleep in is theoretically good IF you get female attention.... if not then you're soon asking yourself why the fuck you're going through all this trouble of keeping a joint clean and repaired and checked up and detectors'd and all that dumb shit, like who cares holy fuck.

like i'm larping as a slayer with a 'love nest' right now but truth is I am getting zero action and wasting massive amounts of money by not living either at home, like many people who get laid while their mum washes their underwear and socks, or with roommates like many people who fuck in some corner of a room that has people awkwardly pretending to sleep in it.

what i'm trying to say is FUCK THIS GAY ASS LIFE.