Ive been a "nice guy" my entire life. Not in the version that reddit likes to mock in a simp, lack of self awareness way that expects pussy for opening a door for a foid a number of times, but the kind of person that has always tried to please others and come across as friendly. This gets you absolutely no where if you aren't attractive and only adds as a factor to being stepped all over, especially if you are a short male. Being charming is what normies mistake for being "nice" when they talk about picking up or meeting girls. It is impossible to come across as charming if you are not physically tall and attractive to a woman. Even when you are talking to other males like a simple exchange in a store, coming across as friendly does absolutely nothing, but coming across as douchey and stern definitely goes farther unless you have incredible machiavellian tier conversation skills.
