I think guys on this website give paying for sex a bad wrap, and I honestly don't think it should have a bad wrap. One has to realize that men pay for sex no matter what. Some men pay for sex with genetic currency (looks), others with social currency (friends who can perform favors), and the rest through resource-based currency (money, gifts). No matter what, you're triggering that primal rewards center of the brain when she allows you to have sex with her.
I bring all of this up because I think those who have the resources should consider building families in non-conventional ways until transhumanist technologies exist, i.e. the artificial womb and sex robots. I think those of us who can afford it should consider prostitutes for our leisure, surrogates for childbearing, and nannies for raising our children. This is of course a strategy that can only be implemented by those who make sufficient money. Nevertheless, I think this is a viable substitute until legitimate artificial technologies exist. Let's just say that you want the ideal life of sex and friends. What would this entail? For starters, what does the ideal woman do for her mate? I believe we can break these down into discrete tasks.
An ideal woman:
So let's break down how much all of this costs.
So let's say that you plan on having 3 children over 10 years and raising them until they are 20 years old. That means that over 30 years, the average cost of that child is $5,000. So, per year your total would come out to $159,800. Not cheap, but certainly not impossible.
Now, you can cut cost by merging the maid, the baby sitter, and the tutor into one position that pays a livable wage of $50,000 - $60,000 USD. Most women would jump at the opportunity to make that much money and as a bonus she could live in your house and have living expenses paid for. This would save you roughly 30,000 USD, and you can cut the chef position. Which is an additional 30,000 USD. This could reduce the cost to 100,000 USD a year. Not cheap, but certainly not impossible. Ultimately, I think this is only a temporary solution and for richcels. Men who clearly make over 200K or 300K a year. This is a very small percentage of the population, but anyone can invest in a good portfolio and save 10 years worth of money to afford this. I ultimately think this is a temporary solution to some of our problems.
I bring all of this up because I think those who have the resources should consider building families in non-conventional ways until transhumanist technologies exist, i.e. the artificial womb and sex robots. I think those of us who can afford it should consider prostitutes for our leisure, surrogates for childbearing, and nannies for raising our children. This is of course a strategy that can only be implemented by those who make sufficient money. Nevertheless, I think this is a viable substitute until legitimate artificial technologies exist. Let's just say that you want the ideal life of sex and friends. What would this entail? For starters, what does the ideal woman do for her mate? I believe we can break these down into discrete tasks.
An ideal woman:
- Is the maid
- Is a nanny/babysitter
- acts as a surrogate
- Is a psychologist/relationship coach you can take outside for walks and dinner dates.
- Is an escort
- Is a teacher/tutor for your children.
- Is the primary chef for the family.
So let's break down how much all of this costs.
- Average salary of a maid is $24,000 per year with 5 - 10 years experience.
- A nanny's average salary is roughly $30,000 per year with 5 - 10 years experience.
- A surrogate costs roughly $40,000 - $50,000 per child depending on how many accommodations you want for your child.
- psychologist/relationship coach: $20,000 - $30,000 per year
- An escort if you were to pay for the average escort ($200 * 2 hours a session) * 2 times a week = 800 a week * 26 weeks a year (every other week) = $20,800 per year
- A teacher's low salary $30,000 per year
- chef's salary is ~$30,000 per year
So let's say that you plan on having 3 children over 10 years and raising them until they are 20 years old. That means that over 30 years, the average cost of that child is $5,000. So, per year your total would come out to $159,800. Not cheap, but certainly not impossible.
Now, you can cut cost by merging the maid, the baby sitter, and the tutor into one position that pays a livable wage of $50,000 - $60,000 USD. Most women would jump at the opportunity to make that much money and as a bonus she could live in your house and have living expenses paid for. This would save you roughly 30,000 USD, and you can cut the chef position. Which is an additional 30,000 USD. This could reduce the cost to 100,000 USD a year. Not cheap, but certainly not impossible. Ultimately, I think this is only a temporary solution and for richcels. Men who clearly make over 200K or 300K a year. This is a very small percentage of the population, but anyone can invest in a good portfolio and save 10 years worth of money to afford this. I ultimately think this is a temporary solution to some of our problems.
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