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I used to be extremely high inhib because I thought, everything I did added up and determined whether people would like me or not, whether I'd get a gf or not. Now I know, it's rigged and based off looks and NT status, which is basically mostly genetic. So now, I give close to no fucks. I dress like shit, what I think looks cool disregarding what Normies are wearing like I might have as a teen. I am not nice anymore and if someone tries to treat me disrespectfully I tell them off instantly, however if I see someone who is incel or low value I treat them with respect (it's the high tier Normies and above I try to make their life harder for), I think by the time I'm 50 I'll be one of those boomers who basically walk around half naked at this rate.

I know I'm doing something right because people like my sister say "wtf you're being so rude no girl is going to date you like that", and I feel relieved because none would date me ANYWAY so I no longer am bound to those cuck lies. Getting into fights to anyone who insulted me in hs set me on the right path, it truly helped me kill some inhib massively. Of course Normies will tell you THATS SO WRONG this why you're alone inkwell, etc etc but the thing is I was always alone when being respectful, nice, trying to larp being NT following social norms etc so now I just try to treat everyone except incels or low tier males like shit and I think I'm based in public now.

:feelsYall:

Once you actually stop thinking "oh maybe he was just joking" when people clearly are disrespecting you passively and you either hurl shit their way or attack them back, your confidence and self worth will skyrocket.

"Don't take shit from anybody no matter what you do. That's the only thing that's not worth putting up with in life." -some hobo I met outside a convenience store
 
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I used to be extremely high inhib because I thought, everything I did added up and determined whether people would like me or not, whether I'd get a gf or not. Now I know, it's rigged and based off looks and NT status, which is basically mostly genetic. So now, I give close to no fucks. I dress like shit, what I think looks cool disregarding what Normies are wearing like I might have as a teen. I am not nice anymore and if someone tries to treat me disrespectfully I tell them off instantly, however if I see someone who is incel or low value I treat them with respect (it's the high tier Normies and above I try to make their life harder for), I think by the time I'm 50 I'll be one of those boomers who basically walk around half naked at this rate.

I know I'm doing something right because people like my sister say "wtf you're being so rude no girl is going to date you like that", and I feel relieved because none would date me ANYWAY so I no longer am bound to those cuck lies. Getting into fights to anyone who insulted me in hs set me on the right path, it truly helped me kill some inhib massively. Of course Normies will tell you THATS SO WRONG this why you're alone inkwell, etc etc but the thing is I was always alone when being respectful, nice, trying to larp being NT following social norms etc so now I just try to treat everyone like shit and I think I'm based in public now.
tbh
but this behavior makes no real difference in attracting women because it's all about looks not attitude and personality.
 
tbh
but this behavior makes no real difference in attracting women because it's all about looks not attitude and personality.
Did you not see the title? I know I won't get any either way so I try to make their life as difficult as possible. Even if something's passive like always topping waitresses $0.01, even the smallest efforts count.
 
Did you not see the title?
I did I'm just used to having the implication being there at the end about how changing to a guy that gives no fucks actually attracts women more. I posted the part about looks making the difference and not attitude and personality more to remind myself as the conditioning to believe otherwise is still kind of strong sometimes ngl
 
I couldn't be NT even if I wanted to.
 
I couldn't be NT even if I wanted to.
I never will be and I accepted that long ago. So now I just accept I will always be an outcast so I might as well spit on Normies and annoy them with how I don't try to hide being non NT as expected from low tier males.
I did I'm just used to having the implication being there at the end about how changing to a guy that gives no fucks actually attracts women more. I posted the part about looks making the difference and not attitude and personality more to remind myself as the conditioning to believe otherwise is still kind of strong sometimes ngl
It doesn't. Personality matters literally almost 0 in the grand scheme of things. It matters when you're a LTR or marriage cuck, but those guys aren't getting laid anyway most of the time.

Females hate ugly low inhib men maybe even more than they do meek ones who don't try to push their luck on them.
 
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I regret not getting into more fights in HS. I was raised to be a cuck who turns the other cheek
 
I regret not getting into more fights in HS. I was raised to be a cuck who turns the other cheek
Same, single mother. Breaking out of that is very hard to do
 
Good point.. it works the other way too.. you can run from conflict/fights and normies will say man you look weak, no girl is going to date a weak guy.. but we know the girl is not going to date us anyway so we don't have to do hard things like fighting to try to win her approval.

For clothing I was smart enough to just wear what I feel comfortable/good in. Don't care if it looks good, although ironically what people feel comfortable in imo is also what they look best in.

We save a ton of money too. Like a normie has to pay every month to Mr. Schekelstein $2,000 a month for the nice condo he is renting. We can just pay for the minimum apartment that is the best value for us.

At my work a well intentioned person said 'you won't get ahead just working 4 days a week'. But when you already lost, you aren't trying to get ahead.
 
Good point.. it works the other way too.. you can run from conflict/fights and normies will say man you look weak, no girl is going to date a weak guy.. but we know the girl is not going to date us anyway so we don't have to do hard things like fighting to try to win her approval.

For clothing I was smart enough to just wear what I feel comfortable/good in. Don't care if it looks good, although ironically what people feel comfortable in imo is also what they look best in.

We save a ton of money too. Like a normie has to pay every month to Mr. Schekelstein $2,000 a month for the nice condo he is renting. We can just pay for the minimum apartment that is the best value for us.

At my work a well intentioned person said 'you won't get ahead just working 4 days a week'. But when you already lost, you aren't trying to get ahead.
I still plan on money maxxxing so I can fuck escorts, but otherwise I agree.

I have almost no expenses. No car I'm cucked into paying off, no new iphone, no nice clothes, my only expenses are rent food and sometimes alcohol and video games. I save alot of money easily. I don't know how Normies claim to always be poor
 
turbo based

I still plan on money maxxxing so I can fuck escorts, but otherwise I agree.

I have almost no expenses. No car I'm cucked into paying off, no new iphone, no nice clothes, my only expenses are rent food and sometimes alcohol and video games. I save alot of money easily. I don't know how Normies claim to always be poor

eating at restaurants or takeout, going out drinking, it's all pretty expensive and normies love that shit, they also love calling you out for eating healthy food because it's expensive when that shit doesn't even compare to spending money on nights out
 
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eating at restaurants or takeout, going out drinking, it's all pretty expensive and normies love that shit, they also love calling you out for eating healthy food because it's expensive when that shit doesn't even compare to spending money on nights out
Ive never drank at a bar tbh
 
Legit af. Low inhibition is one of the most valuable things on Earth.
 
I still plan on money maxxxing so I can fuck escorts, but otherwise I agree.

I have almost no expenses. No car I'm cucked into paying off, no new iphone, no nice clothes, my only expenses are rent food and sometimes alcohol and video games. I save alot of money easily. I don't know how Normies claim to always be poor

Sweet.. ya and we don't need expensive meats and protein powder trying to gymcel or some bullshit. Rice, potatoes, some vegetables, bread is good enough for us.

An old cellphone on the basic plan is good for us. And no travelling either.
 
I'm exactly in the same state of mind as yours : as it's impossible for me to date a foid whatever I do, and as I'm 38 oldcel now, why doing any effort ? Last year I was still working for a huge company, every day from 9AM to 17PM. And what for ? Nothing. I was alone when I was going home, had to do all the administrative and housing stuff, had to manage every single shit happening to me. And nobody noticed all I was doing, how hard it was. So why continuing ?

I managed to get fired from my job and became a NEET. Now I'm paid forever by the government to stay at home. I'm not unemployed, I don't even have to search for a job.

I no longer take care of my looks, my clothes, I only stay clean because I don't want to stink. I just buy food, see my therapist who doesn't help me finding a foid, so it's useless, I play video games and watch TV series.

Also, I now counterattack when anyone disrespects me. I stare them in the eyes and I shout "I can shout too you know !". They hate this.
I managed to made my 20-years-old nephew to become like me. He doesn't knows he's an incel but he's ugly, has no friends and can't have any foid. He's still asking himself why he's not like the others. But he's cool and her mother - my sister who doesn't speaks with me - sees that if she forbids him to speak with me, he has nobody to speak with at all.

In life, you make a giant step once you no longer care about pleasing the others. It's freedom. We'll never have a gf, so why limitating our freedom like all those White Knights and SJW do ? Being nice won't give you the foid you deserve. Now I'm just nice with other incels, aspies, retards or low-tier males I see.
 
This...

...this is the ultimate freedom.
 
tbh
but this behavior makes no real difference in attracting women because it's all about looks not attitude and personality.
Women prefer dark triad personalities. That’s the truth about personality.
 
relateable when you realise how much of a clown world we live in theres no point in keeping up a fake facade or pleasing people
 
Women prefer dark triad personalities. That’s the truth about personality.
It's just chad halo tbh. Anything chad does is considered rebellious and badass.
Most dark triad guys that aren't chad and have been able to hook women in the past through bad boy game get really unlucky with women once the agepill hits.
 
I used to be extremely high inhib because I thought, everything I did added up and determined whether people would like me or not, whether I'd get a gf or not. Now I know, it's rigged and based off looks and NT status, which is basically mostly genetic. So now, I give close to no fucks. I dress like shit, what I think looks cool disregarding what Normies are wearing like I might have as a teen. I am not nice anymore and if someone tries to treat me disrespectfully I tell them off instantly, however if I see someone who is incel or low value I treat them with respect (it's the high tier Normies and above I try to make their life harder for), I think by the time I'm 50 I'll be one of those boomers who basically walk around half naked at this rate.

I know I'm doing something right because people like my sister say "wtf you're being so rude no girl is going to date you like that", and I feel relieved because none would date me ANYWAY so I no longer am bound to those cuck lies. Getting into fights to anyone who insulted me in hs set me on the right path, it truly helped me kill some inhib massively. Of course Normies will tell you THATS SO WRONG this why you're alone inkwell, etc etc but the thing is I was always alone when being respectful, nice, trying to larp being NT following social norms etc so now I just try to treat everyone except incels or low tier males like shit and I think I'm based in public now.

:feelsYall:

Once you actually stop thinking "oh maybe he was just joking" when people clearly are disrespecting you passively and you either hurl shit their way or attack them back, your confidence and self worth will skyrocket.

"Don't take shit from anybody no matter what you do. That's the only thing that's not worth putting up with in life." -some hobo I met outside a convenience store
It's like a silver lining of the blackpill that nothing you say or do really matters, and that our pre-determined failure helps us relax and accept how stupid and worthless life really is now.
 
Excellent post, couldn’t agree more. I like that you are still kind to incels.
 
Absolutely based. Been doing the same as well. :feelzez::feelsokman:
I used to be extremely high inhib because I thought, everything I did added up and determined whether people would like me or not, whether I'd get a gf or not. Now I know, it's rigged and based off looks and NT status, which is basically mostly genetic. So now, I give close to no fucks. I dress like shit, what I think looks cool disregarding what Normies are wearing like I might have as a teen. I am not nice anymore and if someone tries to treat me disrespectfully I tell them off instantly, however if I see someone who is incel or low value I treat them with respect (it's the high tier Normies and above I try to make their life harder for), I think by the time I'm 50 I'll be one of those boomers who basically walk around half naked at this rate.

I know I'm doing something right because people like my sister say "wtf you're being so rude no girl is going to date you like that", and I feel relieved because none would date me ANYWAY so I no longer am bound to those cuck lies. Getting into fights to anyone who insulted me in hs set me on the right path, it truly helped me kill some inhib massively. Of course Normies will tell you THATS SO WRONG this why you're alone inkwell, etc etc but the thing is I was always alone when being respectful, nice, trying to larp being NT following social norms etc so now I just try to treat everyone except incels or low tier males like shit and I think I'm based in public now.

:feelsYall:

Once you actually stop thinking "oh maybe he was just joking" when people clearly are disrespecting you passively and you either hurl shit their way or attack them back, your confidence and self worth will skyrocket.

"Don't take shit from anybody no matter what you do. That's the only thing that's not worth putting up with in life." -some hobo I met outside a convenience store
 
It’s quality content like this that makes you and Diocel my absolute favorite incel pigs on my Stardew Valley farm OP.
 
I don't really value standing up for myself anymore, unless it involves me protecting my job, even then it's just barely nowadays. If someone disrespects me I don't respond and just stop talking to that person as much a possible. At work I see people get into it with others... yelling, writing heated emails. I just don't care enough to bother. At the end of the day I don't care if John or Jane shit on me, they will be out of my head before I even leave the building. Even if I could fight back I wouldn't bother wasting my energy.
 
Good for you. That’s real freedom right there. Not giving a shit whatsoever. I also used to do this in school as well. Although I am mostly high inhib I will get extremely low inhib if necessary. That’s how to survive in society. It’s a mogged or be mogged world
 
It’s quality content like this that makes you and Diocel my absolute favorite incel pigs on my Stardew Valley farm OP.
Quite honored to be a stardew valley pig tbh.
 
every time i think i am going to win i somehow end up losing. Even in times i think ive already won it still turns around into a loss somehow.
 
I used to be extremely high inhib because I thought, everything I did added up and determined whether people would like me or not, whether I'd get a gf or not. Now I know, it's rigged and based off looks and NT status, which is basically mostly genetic. So now, I give close to no fucks. I dress like shit, what I think looks cool disregarding what Normies are wearing like I might have as a teen. I am not nice anymore and if someone tries to treat me disrespectfully I tell them off instantly, however if I see someone who is incel or low value I treat them with respect (it's the high tier Normies and above I try to make their life harder for), I think by the time I'm 50 I'll be one of those boomers who basically walk around half naked at this rate.

I know I'm doing something right because people like my sister say "wtf you're being so rude no girl is going to date you like that", and I feel relieved because none would date me ANYWAY so I no longer am bound to those cuck lies. Getting into fights to anyone who insulted me in hs set me on the right path, it truly helped me kill some inhib massively. Of course Normies will tell you THATS SO WRONG this why you're alone inkwell, etc etc but the thing is I was always alone when being respectful, nice, trying to larp being NT following social norms etc so now I just try to treat everyone except incels or low tier males like shit and I think I'm based in public now.

:feelsYall:

Once you actually stop thinking "oh maybe he was just joking" when people clearly are disrespecting you passively and you either hurl shit their way or attack them back, your confidence and self worth will skyrocket.

"Don't take shit from anybody no matter what you do. That's the only thing that's not worth putting up with in life." -some hobo I met outside a convenience store
Based No-Nonsense Bully
 

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