Discussion Losing virginity at uncommon age

[insanus virginem]

How do you go about doing it? How do you explain your date that you are in your mid 20's or even 30 and you still have not had sex yet? 19 or 20 was probably the last year it was not considered too weird but at that age it's extremely uncommon. Now imagine that you haven't even kissed a woman yet by that age when there are 12 year olds running around making out and touching each other.

Telling someone that you are a KHV is extremely emasculating and a sure way for a woman to lose all respect she had for you. But you can't hide it and if you do your performace looks even worse. Now imagine that she is your coworker or in your social circle and that she will be telling everyone how you're a loser virgin.

"Practicing" with prostitutes is an alternative but who wants to make out with hookers and which hooker even wants to make out with you? And why would your first time be with some ugly foid you have to pay to have sex with?

 

[Uglymuggly]

Foids totally ignore me I don’t even think about it

 

[Adamhastor]

How do you explain your date that you are in your mid 20's or even 30 and you still have not had sex yet?

Why do you need to explain it ?

"Practicing" with prostitutes is an alternative

Why do you think you need to practice smth that's basically an instinct ?

 

[insanus virginem]

Foids totally ignore me I don’t even think about it

Yeah but I am thinking about it in case I ever get "lucky" even with just one 4/10 rostie. What do I do then? How do I not blow my only chance when I am already this old and still a khv?

 

[Adamhastor]

And why would your first time be with some ugly foid you have to pay to have sex with?

You can always pay a pretty foid

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

19 or 20 was probably the last year it was not considered too weird but at that age it's extremely uncommon.

This is my last chance.

 

[radishman]

If you can get a date, you're not too far gone.

 

[insanus virginem]

This is my last chance.
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Kek you're so young compared to me. I remember when i was your age and I thought I would get laid by 22 already. Boy was I wrong

If you can get a date, you're not too far gone.

I can't

 

[grondilu]

Dude if you somehow manage to get a date while being completely inexperienced in your twenties, she either knows or doesn't care.

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Kek you're so young compared to me. I remember when i was your age and I thought I would get laid by 22 already. Boy was I wrong

Shit.
My DEADline is 25 (if life doesn't improve drastically).

 

[insanus virginem]

Shit.
My DEADline is 25 (if life doesn't improve drastically).

What do you expect to happen boyo? You couldn't score when women were easy to meet, loose and had lower financial standards.

You might as well hope for a lottery win like Elliot Rodger. Dont be delusional. Most of us never slay

 

[I want to believe]

How do you explain your date that you are in your mid 20's or even 30 and you still have not had sex yet?

I think it is written on my ugly face. No seriously. I think that they already know everything.
But if you imagine such a situation, then I do not know what I would say in my defense.

 

[Deleted member 28903]

Why explain it?

 

[M12Comic]

When 20 is uncommon but 12 isn’t

 

[Uglymuggly]

Yeah but I am thinking about it in case I ever get "lucky" even with just one 4/10 rostie. What do I do then? How do I not blow my only chance when I am already this old and still a khv?

A foid either wants to fuck you or they don’t. Nothing you are supposed to do

 

[ReturnOfSaddam]

This is my last chance.
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JFL act quickly then because 19/20 is when life starts going by quick as fuck.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

JFL act quickly then because 19/20 is when life starts going by quick as fuck.

 

[mänline]

As Christian I am not half as devastated by this issue.

Now imagine that she is your coworker or in your social circle and that she will be telling everyone how you're a loser virgin.

Which lowIQcel approaches a female coworker?

 

[insanus virginem]

As Christian I am not half as devastated by this issue.

Which lowIQcel approaches a female coworker?

Not me. I was just giving an example. What if some ugly foid coworker was the only way for me to get free pussy after more than a decade long wait? Would it be low IQ to pass on the opportunity?

Btw didn't Jews kill Jesus? How do christcucks cope with that fact?

 

[Stephenkling]

May ask about your history ,might not. If you can carry on a conversation like an adult its assumed you know what you are doing.

 

[mänline]

Not me. I was just giving an example. What if some ugly foid coworker was the only way for me to get free pussy after more than a decade long wait? Would it be low IQ to pass on the opportunity?

"Only way to get free pussy" sounds like a done deal. So how can your virginity be an issue then?

Btw didn't Jews kill Jesus? How do christcucks cope with that fact?

WDYM?

 

[ReturnOfSaddam]

It's true. The average person will have lived half of their perceived life by age 23 according to this: http://www.kafalas.com/Logtime.html

And not only that, even if you forget about perception of time just look at your actual life activity, the shit you'll be doing. By 23 you'll almost certainly be done with college and be stuck in some boring wageslave job. Doesn't matter if it's well paying or minimum wage, it's still 8 hours chained to a fucking desk suffering. And that's if you're one of the "lucky" ones, you might not find any work. Then there's the hours spent commuting, suffering, doing boring ass chores, etc etc etc it's just comically fucking bad man.

I once saw a thread on another forum titled "Life is what happens between age 0-25". It couldn't be more true.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

It's true. The average person will have lived half of their perceived life by age 23 according to this: http://www.kafalas.com/Logtime.html

And not only that, even if you forget about perception of time just look at your actual life activity, the shit you'll be doing. By 23 you'll almost certainly be done with college and be stuck in some boring wageslave job. Doesn't matter if it's well paying or minimum wage, it's still 8 hours chained to a fucking desk suffering. And that's if you're one of the "lucky" ones, you might not find any work. Then there's the hours spent commuting, suffering, doing boring ass chores, etc etc etc it's just comically fucking bad man.

I once saw a thread on another forum titled "Life is what happens between age 0-25". It couldn't be more true.

this is too brutal I will rope before 25.

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

JFL act quickly then because 19/20 is when life starts going by quick as fuck.

I don't see any way to escape this misery.
I looks + fashionmaxxed (JFL) in the last months pretty hard, but the problem is that I'm useless NEET who doesn't get in contact with any women.

 

[Sportbro]

JFL act quickly then because 19/20 is when life starts going by quick as fuck.

Im 20 NEXT MONTH

 

[Deleted member 5712]

I asked many forums and people during my 20s. Their answer was always "fake it until you make it"
Normies lie all the time and would want us incels to lie and say we have had sex beforehand and have had girlfriends and all that bullshit in order to get a girlfriend & such

which seems counterproductive if you want to actually get some meaningful relationship but it's all bullshit with normies. they always lie to each others face and have a smile and then tell us incels that we are pieces of shit when most of us are (or at least used to be) romantics and want honesty and truth to be the basis of our first interactions with our girlfriend/wife

 

[Shin no Shi]

How do you go about doing it? How do you explain your date that you are in your mid 20's or even 30 and you still have not had sex yet? 19 or 20 was probably the last year it was not considered too weird but at that age it's extremely uncommon. Now imagine that you haven't even kissed a woman yet by that age when there are 12 year olds running around making out and touching each other.

Telling someone that you are a KHV is extremely emasculating and a sure way for a woman to lose all respect she had for you. But you can't hide it and if you do your performace looks even worse. Now imagine that she is your coworker or in your social circle and that she will be telling everyone how you're a loser virgin.

"Practicing" with prostitutes is an alternative but who wants to make out with hookers and which hooker even wants to make out with you? And why would your first time be with some ugly foid you have to pay to have sex with?

How old are you?

 

[BraincelsRefugee]

Basically you don't tell them that your are KHHV and maybe fake it with porn, hookers and youtube tutorials (jfl).

 

[Intellectual NPC]

Why would you confess that? You could just do your best and if she gets suspicious she would assume you're just terrible. Whatever that means.

 

[Blackpill Rage]

I lost my virginity in my past life.

 

[Chileancel]

Never, you never reveal a girl you are a virgin if you are over 20. In fact, never reveal that to anyone.

 

[Unsaveable]

You don't.

You lie and tell her you're not a virgin.

 

[Dregster]

Yeah but I am thinking about it in case I ever get "lucky" even with just one 4/10 rostie. What do I do then? How do I not blow my only chance when I am already this old and still a khv?

Just get an escort to break yourself in and understand what movements you need to make, and then larp about your first time.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Why do you need to explain it ?

Why do you think you need to practice smth that's basically an instinct ?

Cope, many people are dissapointed that their partners can't perform like their ex.

 

[InMyCellInHell]

If only I could lose my virginity as easily as I did my will to live.

 

[Adamhastor]

Cope, many people are dissapointed that their partners can't perform like their ex.

Cope, it's only a question of looks and maybe dick size

 

[Sad_Eunuch]

Yeah but I am thinking about it in case I ever get "lucky" even with just one 4/10 rostie. What do I do then? How do I not blow my only chance when I am already this old and still a khv?

You're probably over thinking it. I had a friend who ascended at 34 with a 5/10 foid. He never told her he was a virgin. If you actually get "lucky" later in life the foid is experienced, will take the lead, and probably think you just suck at sex when it's over. So guess the lesson to take is that you never disclose to a woman interested in you that you're an old virgin. That would instantly turn her off.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Cope, it's only a question of looks and maybe dick size

cope, even if you have dick size and looks, it's still not enough. She will fuck dirty greasy homeless bums to get good dick on the side.

 

[Adamhastor]

cope, even if you have dick size and looks, it's still not enough. She will fuck dirty greasy homeless bums to get good dick on the side.

You've been brainwashed by porn and feminists. Fucking doesn't require skill, it's not learned, it's pure instinct

 

[Haywire]

the not knowing how to kiss part is worse than the sex part. id lie.

 

[BRCel123]

the not knowing how to kiss part is worse than the sex part. id lie.

 

[Deleted member 21883]

I would never date a nonvirgin.