ColdLightOfDay
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It is well documented that men, though many deny this, like to feel as though they are the protector, provider or leader in a relationship. Women (though most would deny this) have a proclivity towards the opposite role - for obvious evolutionary reasons. This is shown by the fact that women rarely enter into relationships with men who make less money than them, (it is simply at odds with their endogenous psychology to be the provider in the relationship and thus many women struggle to feel sustained attraction towards a man who is economically beneath her) it also explains why men are so often embarrassed by having a richer female partner pay for them, as their psychological dispensation is that of the provider, an inversion of the same dynamic that makes women attracted to provider men.
Because of this dynamic, a man does not want to be in a relationship with a woman who has had more sexual partners than he has had, because, like with money, access to sex is a symbol of status among men and it would make him feel emasculated
The reason male virgins are so much more likely to have an obsession with their future partner’s virginity than sexually active men is because of this dynamic and the consequential shame that comes along with being a male virgin. For this reason virgin men are so much more likely to consider non-virgin women to be disgusting despoiled whores than sexually successful men might. What IT doesn’t understand (and what most incels don’t understand) is that male virgin disgust for sexually active women is a manifestation of shame and inferiority surrounding their own virginity. They cannot picture themselves with a partner who is not a virgin because the male brain does not like to envisage an idealised romantic scenario in which he is lower-status than the female he is courting, this leads to anger and frustration initially and then disgust - which comes as a coping mechanism, an imagined way to lower the worth of the female in order to cope with one’s own perceived inferiority.
If you had been sexually accepted by women you would consider their sexual behaviour (often called ‘degeneracy’) to be normal rather than disgusting and you would not care about your future partner being a virgin or not because the act of sex would no longer be so stigmatised for you.
A lot of you will be raging reading this, but if you disagree let me ask you this: did your disgust towards female sexual activity come before or after you realised you were unanimously unattractive in the eyes of women? If the answer is after then you must consider the possibility that this feeling of disgust is an illusion played by your mind to cope with your own sense of inferiority - likely you didn’t consider the sexual behaviour of women to be disgusting until you realised they were universally disgusted by you.
Non-virgin men (normies) do not feel this same disgust, they want women who have experience in bed, (as long as the experience does not exceed their own so that they feel emasculated.) They do not want virgins bleeding all over the fucking sheets every time they get laid, of course an incel wouldn’t mind this because any act of sex is such a coveted experience that a bit of extra laundry is a small price to pay.
The reason I’m pointing this out is not because I want you to feel worse, a society that shames men for being virgins then calls them disgusting for their misogynistic disgust of non-virgin women has itself to blame for this undesirable outcome.
I am merely trying to point out the processes which underpin why we come to feel the emotions we do in reflection of how the world treats us, it is truly fascinating if you step back from your emotions and observe it objectively. Understanding that they are illusions will also help you to cope with your more unpleasant and overwhelming emotions.
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The reason I have marked this post as [blackpill] is because it addresses incel-specific delusional fantasies, delusions that exist within blackpill communities are very common and are used by incels to cope.
Because of this dynamic, a man does not want to be in a relationship with a woman who has had more sexual partners than he has had, because, like with money, access to sex is a symbol of status among men and it would make him feel emasculated
The reason male virgins are so much more likely to have an obsession with their future partner’s virginity than sexually active men is because of this dynamic and the consequential shame that comes along with being a male virgin. For this reason virgin men are so much more likely to consider non-virgin women to be disgusting despoiled whores than sexually successful men might. What IT doesn’t understand (and what most incels don’t understand) is that male virgin disgust for sexually active women is a manifestation of shame and inferiority surrounding their own virginity. They cannot picture themselves with a partner who is not a virgin because the male brain does not like to envisage an idealised romantic scenario in which he is lower-status than the female he is courting, this leads to anger and frustration initially and then disgust - which comes as a coping mechanism, an imagined way to lower the worth of the female in order to cope with one’s own perceived inferiority.
If you had been sexually accepted by women you would consider their sexual behaviour (often called ‘degeneracy’) to be normal rather than disgusting and you would not care about your future partner being a virgin or not because the act of sex would no longer be so stigmatised for you.
A lot of you will be raging reading this, but if you disagree let me ask you this: did your disgust towards female sexual activity come before or after you realised you were unanimously unattractive in the eyes of women? If the answer is after then you must consider the possibility that this feeling of disgust is an illusion played by your mind to cope with your own sense of inferiority - likely you didn’t consider the sexual behaviour of women to be disgusting until you realised they were universally disgusted by you.
Non-virgin men (normies) do not feel this same disgust, they want women who have experience in bed, (as long as the experience does not exceed their own so that they feel emasculated.) They do not want virgins bleeding all over the fucking sheets every time they get laid, of course an incel wouldn’t mind this because any act of sex is such a coveted experience that a bit of extra laundry is a small price to pay.
The reason I’m pointing this out is not because I want you to feel worse, a society that shames men for being virgins then calls them disgusting for their misogynistic disgust of non-virgin women has itself to blame for this undesirable outcome.
I am merely trying to point out the processes which underpin why we come to feel the emotions we do in reflection of how the world treats us, it is truly fascinating if you step back from your emotions and observe it objectively. Understanding that they are illusions will also help you to cope with your more unpleasant and overwhelming emotions.
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The reason I have marked this post as [blackpill] is because it addresses incel-specific delusional fantasies, delusions that exist within blackpill communities are very common and are used by incels to cope.